Young love life
By savypat
@savypat (20216)
United States
November 29, 2009 11:03am CST
I owe true apologies to at least two guys from my youth. From the time I was 14 and looked 16 I had a boy friend, don't get excited, I never went to bed with anyone
other then my Hubby. But when I was a girl making out could get pretty hot and heavy, oral satisfaction was not for girls at that time. However you could and I did fall deeply in love, however girls were never educated about the difference between falling in love for girl and falling in love for boys. For girls it's about romance for the unfortunate boy falling in love is much, much more. If I had known that then I would not have let relationships get that far along. Because I didn't know that I hurt two of the best guys I have ever met. They then left my life and I have never know where they went or what happened to their lives. But for what ever
influence I had in those lives I apologize. I am sure there are many women out there that would join me in these regrets. So all you guys out there that were hurt by young ignorant girls please accept this apology.
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4 responses
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
1 Dec 09
There are regrets like that in my life but I don’t have youth as an excuse really because by the time I let someone down who cared about me I was already in my late twenties or perhaps early thirties. It seems that I took longer than the average person to eventually earn a little maturity so someone got hurt and today, I feel bad; I just hope he does not still hold me responsible and that he is happy.
It is nice of you to post an official apology on behalf of all of us!
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@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
30 Nov 09
Wow..you've been thinking about this huh? I think that youth is a teacher in itself. I bet those guys were probably hurt but..I bet they don't hold you responsible now in their age and wisdom. We have all made mistakes savypat. It's nice that you are extending apologies but youth has been your teacher as well. Things are different as we get older and what held little importance with us being young is really important now. No need to feel guilty..I bet they have made their fair share of mistakes too. Take care..oh and I was a young ignorant girl once so I better extend a few apologies too. Sorry.
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@cobrateacher (8432)
• United States
30 Nov 09
Hi, Pat!
You're such a great person! Who else would think to post such a thing? I admire you!
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@spalladino (17891)
• United States
30 Nov 09
That's a nice sentiment savypat. Now, I'd like to see an open apology from a man on behalf of all the ignorant boys who hurt innocent girls. 
I can laugh about this now but, when I was in the 9th. grade I had a boyfriend named Rodney...who I learned was "going steady" with me and two of my good friends at the same time! We all broke up with him and then he called me and begged me to take him back. I was the ooonly girl he ever wanted...blah...blah. I fell for it and the very next day found out that my two friends had also taken him back, too! We really wanted to string him up from the highest tree! 
I can laugh about this now but, when I was in the 9th. grade I had a boyfriend named Rodney...who I learned was "going steady" with me and two of my good friends at the same time! We all broke up with him and then he called me and begged me to take him back. I was the ooonly girl he ever wanted...blah...blah. I fell for it and the very next day found out that my two friends had also taken him back, too! We really wanted to string him up from the highest tree! 