My life is a quick sand.

Is it possible to sell the failed business to get back some of the money? Have you thought about selling the properties, equipment, and physical items of the business? So, you are in Philippines right? Would it be possible to use some of your savings or take a loan out to pay for your debts? Take care.

Hang on there my friend. Don't give up. I have just lost $6k (cash + gadgets) on my vacation trip to PI. I reached home while just few cents. I wanted to share that money ang gadgets to my family this christmas, But i have nothing left here at home. As long as you are still alive, there is hope. Count your blessings.

bulastika well if misery loves company you have a lot, sorry to say that but my son my only family was here visiting me tonight and he feels just about like you do,he has been without a job for a year and feels like leaving Ca to go elsewhere. the job situation here is horrible and we also have debts too. I am here in Gold crest retirement center because I am 83 and have social security and ssi which pays the rent and board, and leaves me just onehundred twenty five dollars for all personal expenses for a month,my son is in gov.sponsored apt but will have to move soon and both of us are not feeling too great about Christmas this time.you see when he lost his job we got behind on the rent so of course the manager being a nasty mean son of a so and so immediately evicted us. thus no home so thats why we are both in separate places but at least for the time being he is close to me about two miles away. He can take the bus and be here pretty fast.balastika lets pray that you and my son and I get help in the New Year and good jobs. Merry Christmas cheer up you do have company. Happy new Year too. hugs from hatley.

There is only one thing left to do. On the next clear night, go out star gazing. Forget your troubles. Look at the wonder of it all. Can't you see????? What is 70000.00 pesos to the Genius that created it all??? Can't you see???? That little bit is nothing. Knowledge solves all problems. Since you have closed 4 businesses this year, you ought to know by now what you are doing wrong. What is it???? Look to the heavens and stars and say. I want to learn. Teach me.In the end you do know that the very best things in life are free. Go hug those loved ones now.Tomorrow brings endless possibilities. Can't you see??? Look for the open door.Don't forget the wonderful lessons failure has taught you. Don't repeat mistakes.

There is no perfect or one time successful business ahead. It is always a trial and error experiences. All who have gain successfully in business started from scratches and debts too. So do not loose that confidence in you. Think positive that your situation right now has a purposeful realizations in you and will make you much stronger and wiser for the next attempt. Business has to come in right kind, investment and market. If blood family never supported you in your endeavors, then just go on with your plans in life and always pray to God for his blessings. Sooner, things will come in proper way and exact right time. About your debt amount, Maybe you can ask for enough consideration for an extension. then, try to evaluate again all your previous business and trace the common root of the problems why you still fluctuate at the 4th attempt..This will give you a concrete guide how you can fix and correct some of your mistakes. Then observe your environment, how does it contribute to you? if positive then you can hold for than, but if negative,then better go find some place where you can concentrate on your business or plans in life. Environment can also affect oneself moods and activities.. Never loose hope instead Accept it as a challenge. All problems has possible solutions.. It is just a matter of choosing or selecting the best solution that will give less damage and good effects.