How do you know if s/he is the ONE?
By mensab
@mensab (4200)
Philippines
January 6, 2010 3:34am CST
I am about to decide or probably have made my decision. But i want to hear from you especially those who are married or about to get married, how do you know that s/he is the one?
4 responses
@maria1081 (1251)
• Philippines
6 Jan 10
In my own opinion and observation, you will know that the person is the one for you
- if you can see yourself living with that person for the rest of your lives, having children and growing old.
- if you can live with him/her despite of the flaws you see.
- if you feel that she/he complete you.
- if that person makes you happy.
Loving someone is not by chance but by choice. A choice that despite of all the temptations and knowing that someone could be better than your parner you still decide to stay with him/her. Sometimes we dont have a lot of reasons why we choose to love that person it is just because we chose to love. Thats it.
@maria1081 (1251)
• Philippines
7 Jan 10
Hi! I was never married and been single for 2 years now. I grew up in a good marriage of my parents and I see life positively as much as possible thats why I'm being rational mentally and emotionally.
@denagary (88)
• United States
6 Jan 10
I think it is a gut feeling. You realize that you NEED this person in your life. You want to share things with the person. I believe you find this person after having a relationship for some time. I am not one to believe in love at first site. You can certainly love someone but that not be your soul mate. They have to be your best friend too.
