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myLot reputation of 92/100. zandi458 (11483)   ranked 569 out of 32,950 in life 2 years ago

Well meaning friends are a constant reminder that I am no longer a spring chicken when they keep sending humorous jokes to my emails pictures of wrinkled old women and jokes about old age which keeps me in high spirit and easing the aching muscles after a good laugh.

Being in the 50s I have thus long passed the peak of life where the waters divide. That half century mark is when we can do just as much as ever but would rather not. As long as we keep ourselves in good health, we will always feel the vibration of youth very much in us. I am baffled and have no idea why we age, considering that our bodies are constantly regenerating themselves. It is only with bad diet, poor health choices (drinking, smoking etc) stress, our deep rooted beliefs/programming that aging is normal and the biggest factor of all: the baggage that drag around with us everyday makes us old.

Aging may be unnecessary and should be classified as being a disease, rather than something that is a normal part of life. So, then, why do we age?


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1. myLot reputation of 94/100. sanjana_aslam (2464)   ranked 375 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

hi dear .. what a question, why do we age ..

i believe in the term 'wear & tear' when we use something alot it seems to deteriorate and at one point of time just give up ..

just look at ourself as cars... a brand new car and used car ... they are both so much different in many ways ...

getting old is not a disease at all ... as disease is having an 'intruder' unwanted virus present in our body ...


myLot reputation of 99/100. RawBill1 (3398)   ranked 419 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

Disease is when your body is in a state that is not at ease. Dis-Ease!

So my opinion is that the body that is frail, whether it is old or from cancer or whatever, is in a state of disease! thumbup


myLot reputation of 92/100. zandi458 (11483)   ranked 569 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

Anything that is well maintained will remain at tiptop condition. The passage of time will only make a seasoned person wiser. Disease will not lick on a body that has strong army of antioxidants fed into it. We will only surrender when we reach our expiry date as it is in God's agreement to his creations that every birth comes with a death penalty. When it is time to go we go in peace. Let us not entertain the thoughts that old age means we have to resign from living a fruitful life. happy

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2. myLot reputation of 95/100. dorothy09 (570)   ranked 899 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

hi there zandi, growing old by age is of course not buy choiceb, but growing old and feeling young is by choice lol, my grand mother is already at her 70's so funny but she still dance in the dance floor.. we always thank God for our grandmothers health.. at his age 78 she is still young physically..and her secret manage you problem well and stay happy always, think of great things, positive lifestyle and always laugh..and of course exercise...

I also believe lifestyle such as smoking drinking ,sleeping late , stress etc..etc..will make you happy but will make you older than you age..

have a positive lifestyle its a choicehappyhappyhappy


myLot reputation of 92/100. zandi458 (11483)   ranked 569 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

I hope to live up to my ancestors genes as many live to their ripe old age of 90 plus lol...

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. learn2earn (16936)   ranked 535 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

That would be a good question to discuss. I may not have the wisdom of King Solomon, nor the prophetic views of Apostle John, but I understood that aging happens because of sin. Our first parents sinned against God and that was the start of all the troubles we have, including aging as part of our normal life. I think that I need to view it as normal part of life and I don't need to shrink thinking and considering that one day, I will grow old, if I don't die young. I believe that you are blessed because you have reached half a century when few people reach that age. I am not sure if I can reach that age. Enjoy being that seasoned womanw00t


myLot reputation of 98/100. voldrox (3522)   ranked 67 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

thumbup our bodies are aging not our spirit.


myLot reputation of 92/100. zandi458 (11483)   ranked 569 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

What make you think so learn, that you won't reach the sweet age of 50? I didn't even realize time passing so fast and seeing my sons turned kidsadults only did I realized that I have reached my twilight age. Come to think of it, I am just lucky to have come to an age where I can still maintain my unlined face but the fats padding around me easily give away my age.cry


myLot reputation of 99/100. Alice_in_webland (1434)  2 years ago

hiya A.
I hope you do reach the ripe age of 50! it isn't that old! or are you sinning so much that you will age quicker? blink


myLot reputation of 92/100. zandi458 (11483)   ranked 569 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

confused50 isn't ripe yet Alice? it is just the beginning of a blooming life ahead...a life that promises more freedom free from parenting and wifery duties. lol


myLot reputation of 94/100. learn2earn (16936)   ranked 535 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

I guess, life begins at 50!w00t That has some truth and I hope that I can reach that age. Good day to everyone.


myLot reputation of 92/100. zandi458 (11483)   ranked 569 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

happythumbup

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4. myLot reputation of 84/100. homeshoppers (4685)   ranked 1,388 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

i dont think aging is a disease as its just the normal life cycle of life. if people will not get old then that would be a disease as its already immortal or abnormal. like i saw a certain movie about the person that when her mother give birth the baby looks old then year by year he looks young, its like the reverse of those normal person. i will accept being old if i know that i can have rest after long time of none stop working, its the time that people will enjoy the fruits of their hard work, see their children and grandchildren and enjoy life without worrying about going to work. unless we become old and yet we still have nothing in life then its really scary.


myLot reputation of 92/100. zandi458 (11483)   ranked 569 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

when we have enough of our time on earth it is time to quit and rest in peace. lol

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. recycledgoth (7430)   ranked 33 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

I've always felt that age is all in the mind. Ok, so right now my mind is telling me I'm 21 while my body is thinking nearer 90 - lol. I feel the passing of the years, time speeding up while I slow down. I often wish I wasn't aging but it's inevitable.


myLot reputation of 92/100. zandi458 (11483)   ranked 569 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

The mind and heart never seems to age but we can't escape the wear and tear that goes with the passage of time. But we accept as a normal human nature that happens to everyone.

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6. myLot reputation of 99/100. savypat (13311)   ranked 43 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

In nature everything wears out. So I think it is natural for this to happen to our bodies, the trick is to keep that body in the best shape possible until the end.


myLot reputation of 92/100. zandi458 (11483)   ranked 569 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

I am afraid I have an unsightly shape. But the upper part of me is still good to look at. lol


myLot reputation of 99/100. savypat (13311)   ranked 43 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

Well the older I get the less I look in the mirror. Now I just brush hair, teeth and make sure my cloths are on straight. Nothing worse then getting your pants on backwards. Don't laugh it's easy to do with elastic waist bands.


myLot reputation of 92/100. zandi458 (11483)   ranked 569 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

I opt for those pants with elastic waist bands. My tadpole belly can no longer find comfort in normal pants using hocks. What choice have we got?lolw00t

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7. myLot reputation of 96/100. Lakota12 (23205)   ranked 180 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

I have no idea why we do but I feel thqat having kids around helps you keep young! I really dont feel I am 70 till I try to walk very far my hip and knee hurts but I found out it was from taking a cholestrol med that distroied you muscles and things.
I stopped that nad am taking a home remediy hoping to get this all reversed for I love to walk!


myLot reputation of 92/100. zandi458 (11483)   ranked 569 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

They say mixing around with young people is the trick to make you feel younger. And you are a fine example of someone who is much senior than many here but still very much alert and to me I don't feel you are a 70 years old woman.


myLot reputation of 96/100. Lakota12 (23205)   ranked 180 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

thanks I dont feel it either got to stay young at heart!

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. dawnald (24270)   ranked 208 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

I don't know, but if we could choose NOT to age, Jack Lalanne would still be 20 and he's looking pretty darn old.


myLot reputation of 92/100. zandi458 (11483)   ranked 569 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

Why not? We can now choose to remain young in our physical look .


myLot reputation of 96/100. dawnald (24270)   ranked 208 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

to a point...

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9. myLot reputation of 99/100. GardenGerty (35331)   ranked 27 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

The point about constant regenerating makes sense to me. However it seems that I have regenerated somethings I just do not want. I bet it is the baggage, as you said.


myLot reputation of 92/100. zandi458 (11483)   ranked 569 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

The unsightly fats padding around the body make us look much older than our age.

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10. myLot reputation of 86/100. cupkitties (1587)   ranked 3,428 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

Disease..yeah not so sure bout that because there are people that actually want to "grow old gracefully" with wrinkles,gray head and all. I don't know if we can stop aging completely but we can certainly do have a choice in just how quickly and in which way we age and we can even naturally reverse signs of aging taking better care of ourselves but you have to stick to the program.


myLot reputation of 92/100. zandi458 (11483)   ranked 569 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

That is exactly what I mean. Be healthy, stay healthy and you will never feel old.

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