My best friend who I've known a decade hasn't responded to my calls or messages.  

When I'm sick I want to be left alone. Talking on the phone is the very last thing I want to do when I'm feeling ill and not high on my list when I'm healthy.

She should see on her phone that you called. Leave her a message then don't call anymore. Maybe she's incredibly busy with work or something. Give her the benefit of the doubt but be ready to write her off if she doesn't return your call.

well i know how it feels when your sick and no body calls you. i feel like nobody care if your about to die or whatever happens to you it sucks but i always try to keep my head and think of better reasons and i try my best not to rush into anything before i react on something i might regret after. if your friend didn't call back or message you back try learning from a common friend what has happened to her. could it be that she had lost her phone or she may be facing much more serious things than what your having. being boring doesn't mean no friends. Yet it is a good idea to have new friends. Keeping your old friends and having friends will make your life much more colorful. Stay open minded you never know.

It depends on whats wrong... sometimes you dont even want your own family to talk to you - you just want to be left alone. Perhaps your friend is not well now? Do you have any mutual friends you could ask or do you have contact with her family? Maybe you could casually mention that you haven't heard from her & wondered if she was ok? is ahe on facebook or anything so you could see if she's logged in lately? (BTW, you dont come across as boring on here )

Please stay positive, there is a lot of probability in here, maybe she was charging her pone or maybe she lost her phone or maybe she out of town or maybe...if i were sick, i will try to read as much as i can to ease the pain and bored or you can spend time here in my LOt and find a friend. Happy my lotting.

Hi coffeegurl. I hope that your friend will make some kind of contact with you either by cell or by letter or email. I hate it when old friendships fall. Everybody seems to be busy with his or her own life and it seems we have little time to keep friendships going. Although I do believe that true friends last forever. But it is up to us to keep friendship alive. When I am sick usually I d prefer to be quiet on my own.

Maybe she is very busy, or something has happened. If she always called you back before then perhaps something else is taking up her time. I do hope you hear from her soon.

I am sorry you are so sick. I hope you feel better!

thats when I get all my calls wehn I am sick or had an operation then I dont get many when I am well lolololol

I hope you are OK now as you are in the mood to be fully recovered. Hope it will be faster.

Anyway, abut that friend of yours. Sad to say that she doesn't contact with you anymore. But then, maybe and I think there is a reason behind it...maybe she is very busy with her life now. Or maybe her cellphone was broken that's why she never got the chance to call you or keep in touch with you.

I don't think the reason that you are "boring" would be the reason on why she never contact you anymore. If you are friends for a long time already, then, maybe she really accepts you on who and what you are.

A true friend would really accepts you in everything and she understands you in everything as well.

I know you are looking for a friend right now since you are sick and you want something comfort zone. But you need to be patient and don't be negative, OK.

If i were in your shoe, i would really felt bad. But I would stay positive with all the things happening around you. I agree with joannaleed that its not because you are boring that is why she is not answering your calls. You've been friends for decades now so I guess she already accepted for who you are. So dont believe with your sister. Once I've experienced that my phone is not working well. Friends of mine complaining that I am not answering my phone I told them that I didn't receive any calls. Only to find out there is a problem with my phone. So maybe that is why she is not answering your calls, there might be a problem on her phone. Time will come, she will keep in touch with you. All I could say to you buddy, just stay positive and let the negative things ruined out your friendship. Decades friendship is really hard to keep but both of you manage it. So stay firm ok.. Good luck

Yes, thats a common feel. The person whom we long much to spend time, doesnot respond back, its make me pain and go low. And when we are alone with no one to talk, its really sick. But dont go low, when time goes, you will find those old friends calling you back when u least expect them.