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myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 1 out of 78 in hospital 2 years ago

... or would you rather be accompanied by a friend or family member? My husband prefers me to go with him to appointments. I, on the other hand would far sooner just go by myself. If I go by myself, I feel more confident, strong in control and able to concentrate and deal with whatevers happening. If I am accompanied, I feel like an "ill person".
How about you - do you find it a comfort or support to have someone else there?

 

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1. myLot reputation of 96/100. cher913 (21920)   ranked 28 out of 78 in hospital   2 years ago

i go a lot of doctors offices and for me, i dont really care if i go alone or if someone comes with me unless it is for something serious.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 1 out of 78 in hospital  2 years ago

Which would you choose if it was something serious? Alone or accompanied?

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2. myLot reputation of 99/100. mtdewgurl74 (11320)   2 years ago

Either way is fine with me. Having someone with you though can sometimes take your mind off the waiting since the talk to you..or if you have to get a shot or something no worries about who's driving home..


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 1 out of 78 in hospital  2 years ago

Depends who it is I suppose. My husband wanted to come with me yesterday. We sat downin the waiting area, he put the earplugs of his MP3 player in and didnt speak a word until he said "How was it?" as we leftlolHe wanted us to go home by a different route which I am not familiar with so I let him drive - turned out he wasn't that familiar with it either confused


myLot reputation of 99/100. mtdewgurl74 (11320)  2 years ago

Yeah, but it is always good to get out and explore when you have the time..so did you have fun..?


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 1 out of 78 in hospital  2 years ago

Not really, it was just a case of getting from A to B and getting caught at the lights in G!

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. coffeegurl (956)   2 years ago

I share a car and sometimes have to get my family or bf to take me. I just had three apptmts in the span of 6days. Three separate things. That's a lot of gas, because where I go is about 30min each way. It's a pleasant drive though, aand my fave coffee house is just down the street from the hospital. They say I have a bit hi cholesterol(slightly). I type this as I eat a small individual serving of cozy shack Tapioca pudding....
But, to answer your question, I always like someone to be with me when I go to the dentist. I can handle most other apptmts alone. I think this is because my face gets those shots and it takes time to feel normal.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 1 out of 78 in hospital  2 years ago

I can sympathise... I've had 3 hospital appointments this week too - and mine's 30-45 mins each way depending on the traffic. (I also have high cholesterol but just see my GP for that) Hows the tapioca??


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 1 out of 78 in hospital  2 years ago

I just watched the video... what can I say, one minute and ten seconds.... haven't had tapioca in a while. I like it, even if it does look like frog spawn.


myLot reputation of 94/100. coffeegurl (956)  2 years ago

Frog Spawn eh? Hmm. And U still wanna eat it? OK, Nobody forcing you to take the "Nestea Plunge."


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 1 out of 78 in hospital  2 years ago

Maybe I should leave it for a while to "hatch"... do you think, in its ultimate form it would taste like chicken lol


myLot reputation of 94/100. coffeegurl (956)  2 years ago

OMG Wizzy, Ur crackin me up! Not THAT again! And WHY did your comment show an advert for a "Used 4x4"? How do cars and pudding go together? What kinda of messed up adlink marketing is mylot doing anyway?


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 1 out of 78 in hospital  2 years ago

Well, I just had SO many people tell me about the frogs legsconfused
An ad for a "Used 4x4"??... maybe it was because I mentioned the word "hatch"? Do you often get ads along with comments???? confusedThe closest I've even been to a used 4x4 was when one ran into the back of my car (which happened to be a hatchback) when I was stopped at a pedestrian crossing about 9years ago. The driver got out and asked me why I stopped "There was a pedestrian.... he was crossing.... I thought I should let him rather than run him down!!"


myLot reputation of 94/100. coffeegurl (956)  2 years ago

I hope he had insurance. And that you didn't get whiplash. What a dipsh*t!


myLot reputation of 94/100. coffeegurl (956)  2 years ago

Here it is..AGAIN?wtf?
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myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 1 out of 78 in hospital  2 years ago

Yes, he had.... unlike the taxi driver who drove into the back of me a couple of years ago... and shunted me into a line of parked car. I did have some whiplash both times (worse the first time since I was stationary)
.... ads for cars?? I'm not seeing ads for anything - which i spose is good and I'm not about to click on the link incase its a "baddie". We've had enough viruses lately.


myLot reputation of 94/100. coffeegurl (956)  2 years ago

U can get a virus from a mylot link? Dayum!! Thankx for the heads up! Imma go watch more of "Deadliest Catch" and think about rich people stuffin' their face full-o-crab when men risk their life on crab boats in Alaska.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 1 out of 78 in hospital  2 years ago

I think we picked up one of them through here. I suppose those bad people who spread them would target sites with several subscribers.

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4. myLot reputation of 99/100. GardenGerty (35331)   2 years ago

I heard some advice once that it is good to take an interested party along, to listen for things you might miss. Hubby often goes with me, but for a regular checkup, he would not go. I always want to go with my husband, and I did with my first husband as well. First of all, in the listening role, and then secondly, to remember to ask the doctor stuff or tell him stuff that he might forget. Personally, I always have a list I go over with the doctor when it comes to my own health.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 1 out of 78 in hospital  2 years ago

That sounds like us... my husband likes "back up" for those very reasons, and, I take my listhappy


myLot reputation of 94/100. coffeegurl (956)  2 years ago

You can't go wrong with cozy shack Tapioca pudding. Wow they have a video of the factory on youtube!
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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. BarBaraPrz (6656)   2 years ago

I generally go alone, but I did ask a friend to accompany me when I had to go for a biopsy. (Turned out to be benign cysts. whistle)


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 1 out of 78 in hospital  2 years ago

Glad your biopsy results were okthumbup I'd had a few appointments a couple of years ago that i hadnt mentioned to anyone and, on the morning of the biopsy, it occurred to me that, if I were to faint or anything, they might ring my husband and he would freak out to know why I was there so I told him and he went with me. I had to have another one on New Years Eve - he knew about that one but I went alone.


myLot reputation of 97/100. BarBaraPrz (6656)  2 years ago

The first one's always the scariest.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 1 out of 78 in hospital  2 years ago

I took him along more for his benefit than mine. happy The first one was the easiest, the second was more uncomfortable for longer but there was less bruising.

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6. myLot reputation of 72/100. zashimi (140)   2 years ago

I used to want to be accompanied, but now I prefer to go alone. I hate having someone wait for me. I found a doctor who is easy to talk to and I can ask him to explain whatever it is I don't understand. A trip to my doctor is something I am comfortable doing alone.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 1 out of 78 in hospital  2 years ago

I know what you mean. You always feel that you have to apologise if there's a delay and maybe you dont ask all the questions if you're conscious of someone waiting for you. Its good that you've found a doctor with whom you can feel comfortable.

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7. myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (24681)   2 years ago

Guys are big sissies when it comes to feeling bad.

Lets think about it.

You get pneumonia , you still are expected to get up, feed the kids, fix dinner and clean the house. And if you work, then men often are surprised you don't feel like going in anyway.

A guy gets a tiny little head cold and they lay in bed like they are DYING! They want you to wipe their foreheads, feed them in bed and pamper them like babies.

so, of course they want a woman to hold their hand when they go to the big bad D-O-C-T-O-R. You would think they are getting a prostate exam when the doc wants to look down their throat! So you can IMAGINE what they must be like when they actually GET a prostate exam!


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 1 out of 78 in hospital  2 years ago

Oooooh! That response'll get 'em goinglol Actually, it probably wont because I've put the scarey words in the title D-O-C-T-O-R and H-O-S-P-I-T-A-L so they're not even gonna read it!!!
We were walking past the Healthfood shop the other day and there was a big sign saying "Prostate problem??" I said " No, I think I'm alright there thanks"...to which my husband replied "I never think of ladies as having prostates".
(I know we have a sort of equivalent but....)


myLot reputation of 99/100. ElicBxn (24681)  2 years ago

oh, I hope I do stir up a few of them devilrofl

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8. myLot reputation of 83/100. mimiang (4874)   ranked 5 out of 78 in hospital   2 years ago

I want to be with my husband because I want him to be with me always. I, however, am always not alone because I do my hospital jobs with colleagues. I can't do the procedures by myself. I need nurses to assist me in major operations.


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myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 1 out of 78 in hospital  2 years ago

Then you see the hospital from both sides and understand that some people need company at difficult times.

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9. myLot reputation of 90/100. bulastika (867)   2 years ago

Its not just for comfort but same time insurance.
As we know if we go to a doctor its important that we know the details.
Even what the symptoms etc.
So if you go to a doctor with your husband.
Even your husband can say what are the other symptoms that you feel that you forgot to mention to a doctor.
Also some doctors explanation. Some you pick will and others not.
So its better you have a companion so that it takes two of you to understand what doctors have told you. Same time if you forgot you can ask him if he remember this or that.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 1 out of 78 in hospital  2 years ago

My husbands hearing and memory are not good - he would probably not know my symptoms because I dont tell him. I am more likely to forget or not be able to concentrate on the doctor if he is there. I take a list of questions and make notes on it if its a big thing.

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10. myLot reputation of 75/100. bluemars (557)   2 years ago

I really think that it depends why your going in. If it is for something small then perhaps it may not even matter. But for a big unknown which can be scary sometimes and that requires a few test. Well that may be either hard to deal with alone or embarrassing to some degree depending on your comfort level. So yeah it really depends on your personality and what you prefer really. Every situation may be different in that respect.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 1 out of 78 in hospital  2 years ago

I take him with me if I think I may not be able to drive home... if I've had any sort of anaesthetic etc. I dont find it comforting to have someone with me because I'm more concerned about how they will react to the situation so it just adds any stress.

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