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myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 63 out of 4,890 in mother 2 years ago

On my way home tonight I stopped to visit my mum. She didnt look well but assured me she was ok. Then she told me that she'd been shopping and had either lost her credit card, bank card, bus pass and some money - or had them taken from her bagsad She is always very careful to fasten her bag but, when she went to use the card, the zip was partly undone & the cards were gone. She has reported all of them as missing to the appropriate establishments. Fortunately she acted very quickly so they have all been cancelled.
Thankfully, if someone did take them, at least they did her no physical harm in doing so.(A bit sad that we actually think along those lines isnt it?) I think she's dealt with it better than I would have done bless her.
Have you had the hassle of having to cancel your cards?

 

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anne25penn (1997) response was accepted on 4/30/2010.
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. shenlynn7823 (323)   ranked 2,460 out of 4,890 in mother   2 years ago

hi wizzy,

It didn't actually happened to me but to my sister. we went to the mall and when the time she wants to purchase something & will pay for it,her wallet is gone,with all her credit cards,IDs,her social security ID,money in there.She reported it missing and got all her card cancelled immediately.A week later she received a call from the mall that her social security card was found stash in the garden area of the mall.She got her cards back...the thing to be thankful is no harm has been done to her...


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 63 out of 4,890 in mother  2 years ago

I'm glad your sister got her cards back. Luckily, my mum didnt have much money in her bag as the cards went missing BEFORE she went to the bank.The bus driver did not charge her the fare for the ride home.

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. soulburn (212)   2 years ago

Hello!
Nope not yet.
But I had some "wonderful" experiences with robberies and the Romanian "authorities". Having 3 robberies in less that a month really is a record. And how the cops responded? Well... I would prefer not to comment on the stupidity of the Romanian Police...
Just today I saw a case in which A cop shot a little boy because he was listening music too loud.And he got a small part of the sentence because "the boy provoked him".
Now you see why I want to move abroad..


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 63 out of 4,890 in mother  2 years ago

Shot a little boy for his music being too loud??????? That is horrendous! - and for the courts to decide the boy had 'provoked' him??? If that happened here there would be a major inquiry, the policeman would lose his job and pension; probably go to jail and the child (or his family) would get a ton of compensation.
Yes, I can see.

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. BarBaraPrz (6655)   2 years ago

Luckily, I have not.
And I hope never to, either.
Good on your mum for reporting it.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 63 out of 4,890 in mother  2 years ago

Yes, I'm proud of her that she took action so quickly. Unfortunately, she wont get the money back (luckily not a great deal) and will have to pay for a replacement bus pass.

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. lovinangelsinstead21 (3599)   ranked 1,025 out of 4,890 in mother   2 years ago

Hiya Wizzy,

No but we did come very close to having to cancel them more than once. Thankfully because I´m very careful I found him his Cards the lot and the panic was over. We did have to change the Door Keys to the House twice but that was it. Also we had someone who thought himself very funny try to take Money out of an account but the Bank Manager phoned me and asked if I knew him and I said absolutely not and the money stayed in the Bank. Really sorry for your Mom. My Mom got robbed once and she was in tears this was in France fortunately she did´nt take very much cash with her and then there were no Credit Cards like now.
Hope she recovers something and she has taken it very well too. Someone once stole my Shopping well tried to and I was very upset as I had no more cash to buy anything else. So the clever clogs who took my Shopping left it back downstairs again when I went to ask about it.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 63 out of 4,890 in mother  2 years ago

I think she's more upset that she had a wasted journey. She'd travelled 10miles specifically to deal with some financial stuff but, not having the cards meant that she couldn't do that. I wont be at work next week so, I can probably drive her there. We haven't had a trip out together for a few weeks.


myLot reputation of 99/100. GardenGerty (35303)   ranked 636 out of 4,890 in mother  2 years ago

That will be nice for you to go out with her, even if it is to take care of business. I know that you can make it fun.

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5. myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)   2 years ago

Oooo she will have to be very careful Wiz..I am ever so sorry to hear this happened and yes I can imagine it gave you a big fright for your Mum.

Yes, I believe only once did I have to cancel a card, but it was my silly fault, I lost it.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 63 out of 4,890 in mother  2 years ago

I rang her this evening and I will give her a call again in the morning. I'm just glad no harm came to her. She is just getting back to her usual self after some health problems last year so I was concerned to see her looking pale - but, she did look better when I left.

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6. jewishgurl (59)   2 years ago

It hasn't happened to me personally, but my mom has had a pretty bad hassle of this same sort of thing. She was mugged one day when she was walking to her car after a dentist appointment. This man grabbed her entire purse and ran and got into a getaway car. She never got her purse or any of the possessions in it back. She had to go through the entire process of freezing and canceling all the necessary accounts/cards.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 63 out of 4,890 in mother  2 years ago

I do hope your mum wasn't hurt and that it hasn't affected her self-confidence.

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7. Boomer1944 (11)   2 years ago

My mom lost her cards once, she immediately called to cancel them, and she lost no cash and was able to get a replacement the following week.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 63 out of 4,890 in mother  2 years ago

I am fairly confident that the same will happen here. We know that no-one had used the 2 main cards before she cancelled them.

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8. myLot reputation of 99/100. anne25penn (1997)   2 years ago

I am glad that your mom wasn't physically hurt by these thieves who seem to prey on old women. Not that I am expecting a little compassion from these low-lifes. But I find it really disturbing that they really prey on old women who cannot defend themselves. I remember three years ago when my mom was mugged in broad daylight. She visited a friend in the neighborhood where we used to live. Now having lived there for more than fifteen years, she felt it was a safe neighborhood. When she was about to go home and was waiting for a cab, a couple approached her and asked for directions. The old lady of course wanted to help, so gave the directions. The couple turned out to be thieves and literally kidnapped my mother because they took her to a van and drove around the area, trying to wheedle information from her. My guess is that they are trying to gauge if she is from a rich Chinese family (we are Chinese by the way) and if they can get her and ask for ransom.

In the end, they released her. But not after getting her diamond ring and all the money in her ATM card. She had a good amount of money in there because my brother had just sent her money for her monthly allowance. My mother had the wits about her to text me and go to the nearest police station, but the thieves were never caught. But as to your question, no. I have never had the hassle of cancelling all my cards because I don't bring all of my cards in one wallet and bring all of them when I go out.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 63 out of 4,890 in mother  2 years ago

What a horrendous experience for your mother!! Some people are just evil scum! I hope she has recovered from the ordeal & that nothing of this sort ever happens to her again.

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9. myLot reputation of 99/100. GardenGerty (35303)   ranked 636 out of 4,890 in mother   2 years ago

I have not had that problem yet. But it could easily happen, I am sure. My wallet is usually way down in the bottom of my purse, though, so it would not be easy to take it out without me knowing about it.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 63 out of 4,890 in mother  2 years ago

I think she had popped them into a little pocket at the top of her bag as she was just about to go to the bank. I tend to 'bury' mine and then it takes me ages to find them!

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10. myLot reputation of 96/100. ronaldinu (9358)   2 years ago

hi wizzywig I am glad that your mother did not suffer neither physical nor financial harm.
Can it be that she might have misplaced them somewhere else? My beloved better half has been blaming me for the past months when she misplaced her online internet banking key, She had to file for a replacement. She was convinced that I took her key and misplaced it somewhere. A few weeks ago we were cleaning my car when I found her misplaced internet online banking key. It might have fallen from her own handbag.


myLot reputation of 99/100. Wizzywig (4056)   ranked 63 out of 4,890 in mother  2 years ago

She had them when she boarded the bus and she popped her change from the greengrocers in there about 5minutes before she got to the bank and they were gone (along with the £10 note from her change). It is, of course, possible that they somehow fell from her bag but the bag is zipped across the top. She did retrace her steps after reporting them missing but they had not been handed in anywhere. (I have just rung her and she seems to be fine this morning.)

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