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myLot reputation of 97/100. SusanLee (1121)   ranked 437 out of 19,255 in questions & answers 2 years ago

No one who is short and over-weight should have to settle for horizontal stripes. For that matter, no one who is tall and over-weight should have to settle for it. We usually do though because our choices are limited.

What are these designers thinking about when they see a bolt of soft cotton fabric with stripes, any size stripe from pin to bold?

The first thing they do is come-up with a tent like top with all the stripes running horizontally and all the orders of said tops are sizes 1x, 2x, 3x and larger.

There should be a law set in place stating no clothing over the size extra large can have stripes running horizontally, only vertically.

And for those of us women who are over-weight, yeah; you read it right, FAT. We should not be subject to all our lightweight tops having these revolting plunging necklines and horizontal stripes.

For crying-out-loud! I am over-weight, fat is fat, not differently weighted, horizontally challenged or gravitationally gifted. I am toting around about 60 pounds more of me than I need too, and that makes me FAT. Even so I do not want my figure flopping out the top of my shirt when I sneeze.

I have to pin my shirts to my bra straps as it is just to keep the girls covered up. We have two choices, tops that go clean up to our chin and make us feel like we're strangling, or they plunge so low that even the slightest shrug of our shoulders can send shock-waves through the crowd of the skinny jean wearers, (what's up with those ugly pipe cleaner leg looking pants anyway? Never mind, that's for another day)

Some of you will understand, some will say go on a diet, some will say that it's cheaper for the fashion industry to print the material this way instead of that way.

I have to scratch my head and wonder; what do the parents of these 'fashion designers' think when they see the likes of which you are seeing in this picture (there are many more where this one came from) and realize this is what they invested in when they sent the brat to school for all those years.

I would want my money back.


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tags:  overweight, boobs, fat, fatter, horizontal
 
1. myLot reputation of 96/100. xsammiex (2510)   2 years ago

haha, very good, discussion, this is very true. i'm not overweight, in fact i think i'm slightly underweight for the height i am - but don't get me wrong, that doesn't mean i'm a stick. what i mean is, i have a gut. i do have a pot belly. but my weight doesn't change. i'm 7 and a half stone, but i've been near enough that weight for the past 3 years, though my body has changed - i used to be very very slim, literally just went DOWN from under my boobs, but now it goes out on my boobs, in on my ribs, then out again. i'm a (uk) size 8, but if everything else was proportioned to my stomach, i'd be pushing it at a size 10. my size 12 sister has a smaller stomach than me. everyone tells me it's just puppy fat or just a pot belly, but really, i should be a heffalump, just the rest of my body hasn't caught up with my stomach. w00t
anyway, i have this skin-tight dress with very bold horizontal stripes, and you're right, it makes me look bigger. when i wear it, i look pregnant, because my belly really sticks out, and for a size 8 i have reasonable size boobs - 32c - so they stick out alot in that dress too. so there you have it, big boobs and big tummy but skinny arms and legs - you'd think you're looking at a pregnant 18 year old.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SusanLee (1121)   ranked 437 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

It's true, there are those out there that aren't over-weight at all, just have a different type shape. I had an aunt (she passed away over 30 years ago) her shape always reminded me of a big water barrel with a couple of two-by-fours for legs. She wasn't over-weight, just shaped real odd. I think if the weight had been distributed evenly all over, she would have looked perfect.

Thanks for responding


myLot reputation of 96/100. xsammiex (2510)  2 years ago

yeah that's the same as me - if my arms and legs had a bit of the fat from my stomach, i'd look fine! i don't really really unproportioned or anything, i just look like i've accidentally put on some chub. it won't go though, i've tried to get rid of it! problem is, that dress is one of my favourite items of clothing!

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2. myLot reputation of 90/100. maezee (8956)   ranked 281 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   2 years ago

Well, even though you may be fat (and I am too - by definition), horizontal stripes don't always look bad. It really depends on your frame I guess, and how you're weight is spread out. Not everyone who is considered "overweight" is just wide. Horizontal stripes can look just fine on someone who's overweight. Again, it's depending on your frame and how your weight spreads out. Then there are those people where all of their excess weight goes to their stomachs or hips or whatever - THEN I would avoid them. But I have a lot of fat stored up in my thighs. This is where everything goes in my case. So it's not that bad for t-shirts or tank tops..But for pants - jeez, it's hard to find something that fits in the thighs AND the waist! As usually the thighs/upper legs are too tight but waist is loose. Ugh. Oh well.

I have this problem all the time too, though, just with clothes in general. Especially at stores like hollister & abercrombie&fitch, which are clearly not made for people who are not stick-thin and flat as a board. Even though 70% of my country's citizens (the US) are apparently overweight, stores STILL manufacture clothes that ONLY LOOK GOOD on people with VERY minimal curves AND no boobs. It's weird to think about - because I would think that clothes that actually FIT people like you and me would be in more high demand and thus would be produced more. *shrugs*.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SusanLee (1121)   ranked 437 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

You know, I have wondered the same thing. I work at a department store and sometimes I'll go out into the food court to eat lunch. I watch people and what I have observed is that at least 75 to 80% of the people are over-weight.

The women appear to more over-weight then the men. Usually the women carry the weight in the butt and legs, where the men all have the big belly hanging over the waist-band of their pants.

I've also noticed that most of the women are dressed poorly. When I say poorly I mean in overly large shirts and baggy pants or shorts. I get the impression they're dressing for comfort,not to impress the public and I can't say I can blame them given the limited fashion choices out there.


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3. myLot reputation of 96/100. samafayla33 (1037)   ranked 613 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   2 years ago

i am a little heavy, i have a striped night shirt, but i hate it. Imperial blue is one of my favorite colors but it is basically solid colored. I also wear dark colors solid and if i wear colored clothing, i wear small figures. Several family members give me strange things, but I dont wear them but seldomly.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SusanLee (1121)   ranked 437 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

I have a couple of soft cotton tops that I only wear around the house because the stripes run horizontally, they make me look bigger than I am. The are so soft and comfortable that I even sleep in them sometimes.

I would give anything for the stripes to run vertically so I could wear them to work.

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4. myLot reputation of 62/100. redhotpogo (2272)   ranked 1,688 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   2 years ago

Fat people do have a poor selection of clothes. I would say they should stay away from stripes altogether, as well as animal prints, and basically any geometric design, but you don't have a choice. There's plenty of people who make clothes for fat people, but none that make anything good.


myLot reputation of 87/100. cmjune76 (234)   ranked 2,124 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

you are so correct with the statement, 'there is plenty of people who make clothes for fat people, but none that make anything good.'

I wish I could design clothes for this particular genre. I have been there, I understand!


myLot reputation of 62/100. redhotpogo (2272)   ranked 1,688 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

Maybe you should. Get a sewing machine, and some material.


myLot reputation of 97/100. SusanLee (1121)   ranked 437 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

Did you ever hit the nail on the head with that statement.

There's plenty of people who make clothes for fat people, but none that make anything good.

What I don't understand is why. The majority of the population is over-weight, with poor self-esteem because of the weight. Imagine the boom in the clothing industry if they really applied their fashion skills toward helping the over-weight woman find the right style, design and cut for her and a bigger selection to choose from.


myLot reputation of 62/100. redhotpogo (2272)   ranked 1,688 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

Maybe its because honestly no one is happy with being fat. People always say "I'm happy with who I am, I'm beautiful." But really who is happy with feeling like a sack of potatoes, having trouble moving, breathing, the rolls, the cellulite? So they're always thinking these are temporary clothes, someday I will be able to fit into something smaller. So the fat clothes aren't given much attention, because they are like photographs of bad memories. They put more emphasis on the smaller clothes because its where people want to be. They will cherish the little black dress they worked so hard to fit into. Just a thought. Someone should make some nice clothes for fat people though, they have a hard enough time with their bodies, their clothes shouldn't bring them down even more.

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5. myLot reputation of 87/100. cmjune76 (234)   ranked 2,124 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   2 years ago

Let me tell you.... nothing frustates me more than seeing polka dot prints, several other obnoxious prints and stripes on plus sized clothing! I see it from the cheapest of stores to the expensive boutiques. It is the designer fault but also the buyers for the store. Both of those parties OUGHT to know better!
The plus sized shopper often has no other choice... (and being sarcastic and thinking, well.. they could lose weight) does not help! there are less options for the plus size shopper too, which is absurd when medical field keeps telling us that there are more overweight people than thin! UGH!


myLot reputation of 97/100. SusanLee (1121)   ranked 437 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

Like I mentioned above, I work in a department store and the area we have for our plus-size women is very small.

Now, for the woman that is bold and wants to please herself and the rest of the world can go hang, I'm glad the 'wrong-way-stripes, tiger-stripes, leopard spots, ginormous floral prints, and polka-dots are available. (No, I'm lying to myself, the wrong-way-stripes should never be allowed on any smock-like top, sized over extra-large.)

That being said, those choices should not be the larger choice and that's the problem, those hideous prints and styles probably take up 75% of the space.

I wish I had the money and talent to do something about it. I know there are specialty shops that cater to plus-size women but they aren't main-stream.



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6. myLot reputation of 89/100. rapunzelcat (151)   ranked 11,867 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   2 years ago

And what's up with the teeny tiny little capped sleeves? Many, though of course not all, plus-sized women have heavy upper arms and those sleeves barely cover anything, might as well be sleeveless as far as I'm concerned. And I hear you on those necklines too. Some of them don't even cover the whole bra, depending on which one I'm wearing. Stripes, big tacky prints, ugly colors...it's almost like they WANT to make sure everyone notices that we're fat, and make us look even fatter!


myLot reputation of 97/100. SusanLee (1121)   ranked 437 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

Amen lol.

I have come to the conclusion that only about 2% of plus-size women aren't fat at all, just very tall and full figured.

The rest of us are just fat, pure and simple. We eat to much for the amount of calories we burn.

Now, have you ever taken a look at the bathing suits out there. I've seen two-piece suits, 3x and up with tiny triangles of cloth to cover those huge drooping boobs and spaghetti straps to hold up the whole mess.

I mean PLEASE!!! If a fat woman is going to take on a two-piece bathing suit, at least give her a top with the strength and coverage of a good bra, there, now there's a place to go with all those floral prints.

lol, I laughed when I read And what's up with the teeny tiny little capped sleeves?

I can't count the times I've had women digging through our plus-size summer dresses complaining about the same thing.

Here are your choices ladies, you can look like a big orange hibiscus with bat-wings or a walking kaleidoscope.

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. Professor2010 (7353)   ranked 384 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   2 years ago

Wonderful discussion friend
I am a bit overweight at age of 65, but my height is six feet two am 95 kg
I wear shirts that are plain, no patterns, no stripes..
Thanks for sharing.
Welcome always. happy
Cheers.have a nice day
Professor

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