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myLot reputation of 95/100. cream97 (22359)   ranked 362 out of 32,950 in life 2 years ago

My mom died when I was seven years old.sad And every time Mother's Day comes, I am very sad. I miss her so much. I love her dearly. I never get to spend this special day with her. Since I have my own children, I am able to spend this day with them, which makes it so special to me. Have you lost your mother when you was a child, how about just recently? I always say that anyone that still has a mother that is living is indeed blessed. Life is so precious and when it is taken away unexpectedly it can shatter many hearts. Like mines.cry I hope that you all have had a Happy Mother's Day even if you did not have your mom physically here with you.happy

 

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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)   2 years ago

Hi Cream

I am so sorry that your Mother died so soon.

What happened to her friend if you do not mind me asking?

Well my Mother is living, but sadly very far away from me.

And I can't see her, let alone talk on the phone, I have only a few minutes every month on this phone and it is used for doctors.

So my friend, yes I also feel anyone is blessed to have and be near their Mother.

I truly hope the day was good for you.

Here is a video that my son made for me..I hope it cheers you Cream:
He did not have money but this is more valuable to me.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lr45tNQO04Y


myLot reputation of 95/100. cream97 (22359)   ranked 362 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

Hi, OceanTiara. Thank you for this Youtube link. I am going to have to get my husband to look at the computer system. I am unable to view any Youtube videos. I was able to yesterday. I am glad that you sent it. My mom was hit by a car. It is weird how it happened. I heard that it was a hit and run. And then again, I heard that she was purposely just raped and murdered. He body was found alongside the road. I think that they said that she had been drinking. It is all a nightmare to me!fear I am her oldest daughter, and I have a younger sister that is still living. Till this day, I really don't know if she was murdered or if she was just killed accidentally. My heart broke when I discovered that she was dead. She died at a very young age. From what I have been told, she died when she was about 27 or 28 years old. Her death is my weakness. That is why I am so sad when Mother's Day comes. I am unable to share this special day or any other day with her. I always ask God what would it be like if she was alive and here with me. I mean her death is like a fairy tale. It is just so hard to believe that she is gone. Sometimes, I used to imagine that she was still alive and that she ran off somewhere. I imagined me passing by her in public and saying, this is my mother. I wondered what she would look like now. I know that she was dead because I saw her in her coffin. My aunt has pictures of her when she was in her coffin too. It is very scary to see.cry It breaks my heart to see her gone and no longer in this world. I need my mother here with me, regardless if I am adult. She birthed me. And this is my attachment that was broken when she passed away.sad


myLot reputation of 98/100. OceanTiara (6977)  2 years ago

hugsOf course you need your Mother, we always do us girls Cream..that is such a terrible thing to happen.

What a loss for you!

And you were old enough to realise and see her in the coffin too.

You must be devastated of course Cream..I am so sorry and all I hope is that somehow you can get some love from us here..

And I hope truly that your dear Mother did not know anything and just went to heaven peacefully xoangel


myLot reputation of 95/100. cream97 (22359)   ranked 362 out of 32,950 in life  2 years ago

I pray that her soul made it to to Heaven too. I hope that she is able to see me, my kids and my baby sister and her daughter too. I wonder what she is thinking. I only have dreamed about her twice in a dream. And, I think that she visited me once when I was devastated over a boy that broke up with me when I was in high school in the ninth grade. I did not see her face, but I felt her arm. I picked it up and dropped it back down. She was the only person that I knew of, that I had this size of arm length and thickness. I was very scared. Because I thought that my cousins happened to get into my bed with me, when I was asleep. They all had their own bed in this same room with me. When I turned the light on, they were sound asleep in their own beds. I told my aunt about this episode and she told me that it was my mom coming to watch over me. I guess that was her way of saying that she loves me and that she is watching over me. It probably hurt her to see me in so much of pain when the guy from school broke up with me.cry

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2. myLot reputation of 97/100. katsmeow1213 (7758)   ranked 126 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

My foster mom died in 2007. My real mother is alive, though we aren't close. We've had a bad relationship my whole life, which is why I had a foster mom. Won't get into details, it's pretty sad most of it. I did go see her on Friday.. but I do not consider myself lucky to still have her around. I'd rather have my foster mom!

My husband lost his mother back in March, and Mother's day was hard for him, even though he hasn't been able to do much for his mom in the past years. May is too difficult of a month for us with our wedding anniversary this past Friday, and my birthday coming up Wednesday, and my oldest son's birthday this Thursday.

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. celticeagle (15745)   ranked 481 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

Wow! That is tough. My mom died back in the late nineties due to cancer. I think of her on that day. And my grandmother who was like a mother to me. I had a nice day spent by myself partly. Hope everyone on here did as well.

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. AmbiePam (20765)   ranked 374 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

I am blessed to have my mother with me still. She is undergoing some health issues that make me wonder how long I will have her. It makes me sad when I think of how vibrant she used to be. But I don't care. I'll take her any way I can get her. I love her no matter what. She spent so long taking care of my sister, me, and my dad. If I need to help take care of her for the remainder of her life, than it is my privilege.

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. 3SnuggleBunnies (8027)   ranked 117 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

My Mom died last September so her passing is still fresh in my memory. I can relate about being a child though as my Dad died a few weeks short of my 5th Birthday. So @ 33 I am w/o a parent. But on the bright side my Aunt (my Mom's sister) who's always been like a 2nd Mother to me (& my Grandmother was my 3rd Mother!) has really stepped up even moreso with wanting to do more with my kids and act as their surrogate grandmother on my side of things. Wich is awsome! As she's always had more interest in them than his parents or my Mother did at spending time with them. I do need to get over to my Mother's grave and see how it's looking and have a chat with her... but I fear I'd have to have hubby drive as I might get a lil too emotional to drive.

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6. myLot reputation of 82/100. spalladino (11857)   ranked 439 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

Hi cream! Yes, my mother is still alive but she lives very far away so I don't get to spend the day with her on Mother's Day. Since I can't, I like to surprise her with something that says how special she is to me. This year I sent her an antique necklace with a clasp I know she'll be able to operate. I hope you had a great Mother's Day, too. happy

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7. myLot reputation of 96/100. weasel81 (2111)   ranked 1,581 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

sorry to hear about losing your mum at such a young age. i'm sure she has been looking down over you all your life helping u, when you need it and being there in spirit.
ok i'm very lucky, my mum lives only just round the corner from me. this year i was able to spend more time with her, and i got to spend more time with my son.

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8. myLot reputation of 96/100. carmelanirel (12216)   ranked 357 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

I was thirteen when my mother died on May 4, a couple weeks before Mother's Day. I had made a wooden giraffe in wood shop that year for her and never got a chance to give it to her. I ended up giving it to my oldest daughter because she likes giraffes. And ironically my youngest son was born, 26 years later on the same date, which means I'll never forget when she died..I do miss her, but I do have my children who are a blessing to me and I enjoy them and happy to be here for them..

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9. myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48777)   ranked 956 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

hi cream oh I missed my mom so much when she died and felt so bad as she got Alzenheimer disease and at the last she did not recognize me and it hurt me in both ways,knowing she did not know her own daughter and in seeing her confusion as she knew she should have known me. that hurt too as we were always so close. So then I was in my sixties now I am in my eighties and my son is fifty. He wished me an early Happy Mothers day Saturday night and spent some time with me too. that was the best gift and today all us moms here got two long stemmed roses.Happy Mother's day cream and good luck. God bless.thumbuphugshugs

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10. myLot reputation of 77/100. jilshi (257)   ranked 10,735 out of 32,950 in life   2 years ago

Thank you for sharing all the stories. i am blessed because my mother still alive and she is healthy. i hope that she can had the chance to see me get marry.

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