From now on when people say that they are popping in i am going out.  

I have had enough of people that seem to know how to phone me when they want something aswell as when they need some imformation on things.I think this week aswell as all the other times this person has let me down has pushed me to the limits.

I do understand. I have others,my aunt as well others who seem to like to deal me misery and they either don't show or just stop by.
I usually not dressed for company ......and I was taught to have something to eat or drink for company.
I have locked my front gate due to the neighbors across the street and with my aunt who just stops by after church and NEVER asks me to go with her, I leave the front door shut.
She has a cell phone , she can call or stay away

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That makes perfect sense to most of us, but I have had friends that it did not ever occur to call, they just showed up. That is really awkward and annoying when you do not have a real regular schedule and you have things planned that you need to do. We even got to where we would hide our car so they would not drop by.

That's funny about hiding your car, lol! I don't think there's any way I can hide mine, though.

I hate all the waiting around and they still do not turn up and no call to say that they are not going to turn up either.I told a few friends that i was having company come round so they could not come to see me on both of the days that they had told me that they were going to come.I thought if there was noone else here then they could have a chat and talk about everything they wanted to as that way it would be more relaxing for them.

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I think that they are taking me for granted and to be honest with you with one of them i have got used to it,but the other one it is not like her to let me down.I think that its the thing of feeling like people using me as they come round when they want things aswell as they ring me when they want something.

It makes me think if i am the only person that they let down all the time.I think that if they knew that they were not going to turn up then they should at least let me know as that way i could have been doing other things rather than waiting around for them.I do not care if i see them anymore or not as long as they pay their bill that they owe to my club.

Well that explains now why they did not show up. I hope it all works out better soon. :)

I think it is rude for a person to make arrangements and then not turn up aswell as not even bothering to leave a message to say that they are not going to come.They have a home phone aswell as a mobile phone and there is always a phone box which there is one of those outside of their house.

I am just soo fed up with people letting me down and these are the people that i have known for years aswell as people that i thought were not the kind of people that would use me and let me down.I am soo fed up and there is still no word from one of them that leaves messages in my facebook inbox yet they have even been on facebook.

I do not care what reason they are going to give as there is no excuse if they have a home phone aswell as a mobile phone and facebook and there are other ways to let me know aswell.If they do not want to come round then why say they are going to come round.I have had enough of being messed around and when i see the people i will not have time to stop and chat.

Oh yes i had thought of saying to this person is it ok to pop up with some wine and then not show up just so it made her stay in so that she knew how it felt.I do not care if she even sees me now and to be honest i do not think that when i see her there will be too much to talk about.

You could tell her "thanks for showing up; come again when you can't stay so long." just to be sarcastic...

I just think that they could have at least let me know that they were not going popping in by giving me a call.I think that it is rude that there was no phone call aswell as there was not even a message to say sorry thet they did not come.In future i think what i will do is go out and if they just happen to come round then i will say i am on my way out so i cant stop.