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myLot reputation of 79/100. mercedlegurpa (809)   ranked 947 out of 19,255 in questions & answers 2 years ago

I hate to burst other women's bubble but what they're feeling is not true love. There's a lot of downsides to it-most of which put you on the losing end. Some are flirting because they believe it boosts their self-esteem, but there are some many ways to make someone feel good about themselves. A better way is to rework their lives. Like one should get into a hobby for example or if it's their social life, they one should make new friends or connect with those they've lost touch with. One should asked first - what did I get from flirting? Admiration support? Well then surround yourself with people who can legitimately give you that. Change departments, jobs, weekend gimmicks. Transform your life.

 

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1. myLot reputation of 89/100. tuyakiki (1826)   ranked 28 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   2 years ago

Certainly,I will.. If he is someone so hot like Tom Cruise or Brad Pitt!!lol


myLot reputation of 79/100. mercedlegurpa (809)   ranked 947 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

Thanks for responding.

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2. myLot reputation of 92/100. Angelwriter (1833)   ranked 5,369 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   2 years ago

Never. I find it unethical. If I were married, I wouldn't want to feel that kind of hurt if I found my husband was cheating on me, so I wouldn't want to be a party to it with someone else's husband.


myLot reputation of 79/100. mercedlegurpa (809)   ranked 947 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

Well said! Kudos for you! Thanks for responding.

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. TheAdvocate (1410)   ranked 4,725 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   2 years ago

Nope, not gonna happen. That spells heartache with a capital H. If he can do it to someone whom he has made a commitment, what will stop him from doing it to me in the future?


myLot reputation of 79/100. mercedlegurpa (809)   ranked 947 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

Hi TheAdvocate, we should raise the flag to do right and not being immoral. You belong to the moral group. Thanks for responding.

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4. myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (48719)   ranked 992 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   2 years ago

no mercedlegurpa I would never date a married man as I would
not want to break up a marriage and besides to me thats imoral
and I like to be able to face myself when I look in the mirror.
Not that I am going to date anyone at my age. Your discussion
is a great one. one time we helped this woman and her drunken
husband as we felt sorry for her and the kids. but she kept on
coming onto my husband and he was too dammed innocent to realize
it.But when she ran up to him, threw her arms around hin, and bussed him on the mouth with her damned legs wrapped around his hips, I had had
enough. I yanked her off, told her that if she ever did that again I would thumbdownbreak her scrawny neck. she did get the picture.dunce capdunce cap


myLot reputation of 79/100. mercedlegurpa (809)   ranked 947 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

Hi Hatley, if I were in your shoes, I would do the same. But your husband sure does loves you and I'm happy for you. You unleash the woman in you. Thanks for responding.

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5. myLot reputation of 77/100. thedataminer (310)   ranked 798 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   2 years ago

I personally wouldn't date a married man because I want to live my life as much as possible the right way. For other women reasons to avoid dating a married man would be 1) it probably wouldn't go anywhere (marriage) 2) be hurting another person even indirectly and 3) just plain wrong. I guess if your not worried about where your soul is going after you die then you might date a married man.


myLot reputation of 79/100. mercedlegurpa (809)   ranked 947 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

You are absolutely right! Thank you for responding.

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6. myLot reputation of 90/100. kent_help2smile (5080)   2 years ago

NO, I will not date a married man. Unless he is already certified divorce. Simple as that no buts to be needed.


myLot reputation of 79/100. mercedlegurpa (809)   ranked 947 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

Yes singles are better and less complicated. Thanks for responding.

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7. myLot reputation of 97/100. lelin1123 (9051)   ranked 140 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   2 years ago

thumbdownI would not date or be a mistress to a married man. It would be wasting my time and its just not the right thing to do. I would put myself in the wife's shoes and know I wouldn't want it done to me. What goes around comes around. I believe in having and maintaining good karma. Its just a wrong thing to do and I just don't understand why there are so many women who would waste their lives on someone elses man.


myLot reputation of 79/100. mercedlegurpa (809)   ranked 947 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

Now these days there are few women who prefer to be of high morale like you. Keep it up! Thank you for responding.

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8. myLot reputation of 93/100. ada8may21 (1744)   ranked 4,198 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   2 years ago

Never in my life I would date a married man. I dont have any plans of becoming a mistress. I would rather stay home and be lonely and alone than date married man. My life is already miserable so I would not enter into such thing that makes my life more miserable.

I dont care if he is hot as tom cruise or brad pitt. I still dont want to go for a date with a married man. Certainly a big NO NO NO NO


myLot reputation of 79/100. mercedlegurpa (809)   ranked 947 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

Kudos for you girl! Some women thinks that flirting boost their self-esteem. They're even proud if a married man would get involved with them. These women too are hungry of attention and being tagged as a home wrecker? Well they just don't care. I think they have no conscience.

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9. myLot reputation of 73/100. niship2009 (657)   ranked 2,354 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   2 years ago

Sometimes, life is so miserable for married men that they really feel the need of a break through and if I can support mentally someone who is really fed up with life then I am ready to do it. Finally, it is not necessary that if you love someone you should get married and if you have got married means you should love that person.

Love and relationships are two individual things and that is the reason, I would really support a married man if he needs a new life within.


myLot reputation of 79/100. mercedlegurpa (809)   ranked 947 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

Life is what we make it; you're right about love and relationship. But for me if you love someone you will not hurt him or her. You will even try your best to protect that person you love. Being a cheat is hurting the one you love. Would you feel hurt or devastated if you were in his wife and kids shoes?

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10. myLot reputation of 93/100. penrockerchic (1003)   ranked 4,413 out of 19,255 in questions & answers   2 years ago

It's definitely a big NO for me. It's inappropriate. Think of it this way, if you were the wife, would you want to have your husband date another woman? Besides, I don't need men to boost my self-esteem. Furthermore, there's a lot of hot guys out there who aren't committed to anyone.


myLot reputation of 79/100. mercedlegurpa (809)   ranked 947 out of 19,255 in questions & answers  2 years ago

You're right girl. Singles are much better and less complicated. Kudos for you!

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