I can't BELIEVE I did that!

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Have you ever done or said something at one point and then realized later that it probably wasn't the best idea? Let me explain what I mean with my own real-life personal experience... Near the end of last year, I was actively pursuing a new career because I just couldn't put up with my current position any longer. I was seriously on the prowl for a new job! Anyway, I interviewed with a mortgage company in my area and grew to really admire the organization altogether with its standards, work ethic, and so on. After the first interview, I was asked to attend a second interview - a great sign! However, following the second interview, I was informed the position for which I applied had already been filled. OUCH! I thought I was a good fit for the position and had all the credentials and experience they could've possibly wanted. Until this past Friday, I wondered why I didn't get the position. Friday night, a friend and I got together to discuss our continued job search. (We usually meet once a week to discuss our short-term goals in order to keep one another accountable.) Last Friday, we went over some interview questions and answers - we quizzed each other on what good responses would be. We got on the subject of reading and how much I LOVE to read. We started discussing how I "read" one or two audio books a week at work. The books keep me motivated and give my mind something to do while I'm working. ...then it dawned on me as we discussed it. I remember mentioning to the manager conducting the interview at the mortgage company how I keep my stress level down while I'm working - by listening to audio books while I work. I also mentioned it more than once. I didn't see listening to audio books as a negative thing, but my friend mentioned to me that it might've seemed like a negative thing to my potential employer because it seems as though I hold a higher priority on getting through audio books than concentrating on my work. I guess if I were in the manager's shoes, I might've seen it as a negative that this potential employee listens to books on CD while working. She may feel as though only half of my attention is on my work and the other half is on the book. What do you think? I was so grateful to my friend for being so insightful. I honestly never thought of my answer to the manager's question in that way, but if I were in her shoes I might've felt the same way my friend did. This was one of those times where I did something a while back that I would learn to regret later! Thankfully, I wasn't set on getting the job anyway. I'm sure that's not the only reason I didn't get it - maybe it wasn't to be in the first place. At least, that's the way I try to look at the situation! Have you ever had a situation where you did or said something and didn't find out it probably wasn't the best thing to do or say until a little while later?