Help me make him jealous (I know it's petty)
By maezee
@maezee (41985)
United States
July 26, 2011 9:24pm CST
I need some advice from all of you here. (And yes, like I said, it's petty). I'm looking for advice on how to make a guy jealous or at least catch his attention. This VERY hot and cold son of a family friend (see discussion: Mama's Boy) cannot make up his mind. He won't ask me out (too shy or uninterested? there's the question...) and rejected my offer to hanging out first of all. At this point I thought that oh, he's not interested, and so I decided it was time to move off of him and to another person and quit wasting my time. Then, lo and behold, I am hanging out with this guy friend I have had since forever (we are COMPLETELY AND 100% PLATONIC btw), and we are huggers, and we ended up running into Hot-N-Cold Mama's Boy. I didn't realize it at the time, but he was apparently totally jealous (So says his mom, who knows everything about everything and who he tells everything to, who promptly told me the next day at work and proceeded to ask if my huggable guy friend was my boyfriend.) This irritates me to no end. How dare he be jealous? I mean, the jealousy is over the (false) pretense that my good guy friend and I were dating, which we are most definitely not, but how dare you be jealous when you have the chance but pass it up with me?
Anyway I unfortunately have to see this hot-n-cold Mama's Boy at a wedding this weekend. I know it sounds horrible but I want to make him unbearably uncomfortable and jealous. I decided that I will do a bit of tanning, wear plenty of makeup, I have the perfect shirt with the perfect amount of cleavage, and I am going to try to have GREAT hair that day. We will see if that catches his attention. Oh and I am going to try to be as social as possible and have as much fun as I can. FUN always makes people jealous right? LOL. Why are the guys who are interested in me always immature and never know what they want!!!??
Any other advice, on the guy sitch or how to make him jealous??
AND YES - I KNOW THIS IS PETTY!
4 responses
@wiguen (551)
• United States
27 Jul 11
here you go, don't you have a very good looking friend i mean male that looks good in a suit, so go with him make sure he looks good pay attention to him not to you mama's boy, be very flexible with him ignore him, and you'll see. if you can't find o sexy guy there contact me i fly there just kidding. so we guys don't like to be going after all the time, you are a pretty girl so it will not be hard.
@bounce58 (17380)
• Canada
30 Jul 11
Yes! We guys are petty too!
And if you showed up this weekend with that great hair, and perfect shirt (with the perfect amount of cleavage), and tanned (not so sure about the make up) and having so much fun, then I (or any other petty guy like me) would surely catch all the attention needed!
@LetranKnight25 (33117)
• Philippines
27 Jul 11
Hello maezee
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I don't know what really got you into doing this scheme? Do you think it's best to leave him alone and never text him again? If he's shy and doesn't want to mingle with you then it's his complete loss. He chose a life of being too close to his mom and thus got the reputation of being a Mama's boy. frankly, it's not a good reputation as for women prefer independent men ( i THink). maybe you should shove him off, that would have been more nice, they already have problems getting to know what they want in life and frankly, i doubt if they even have the vision for their future or be a good bf. my advice? Don't do it. He would probably take it the negative way though instead of being challenged.I believe you got more important things to do than make this Mama's boy 
Jealous.
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I don't know what really got you into doing this scheme? Do you think it's best to leave him alone and never text him again? If he's shy and doesn't want to mingle with you then it's his complete loss. He chose a life of being too close to his mom and thus got the reputation of being a Mama's boy. frankly, it's not a good reputation as for women prefer independent men ( i THink). maybe you should shove him off, that would have been more nice, they already have problems getting to know what they want in life and frankly, i doubt if they even have the vision for their future or be a good bf. my advice? Don't do it. He would probably take it the negative way though instead of being challenged.I believe you got more important things to do than make this Mama's boy Jealous. 