wife prefers divorce to cooking chicken for her hubby.

oh come on! really? why would someone not want to cook chicken! hehe and well i think though she does not want to cook, i think the divorce s too much!!

Belief is a major conflict between married couple. If you will get to marry a person whom you know has a different belief, you should first accept it before you settle down because it may cause problem. They should respect each others belief and accept if but not necessarily do the same way.

Ok, first of all, I think nobody should try to force his/her significant other into doing something he/she doesn't want to, even if is something as stupid as not wanting to cook chicken because of being a vegetarian. I mean, cooking meat isn't the same as eating it, and as much as I know that vegetarians are really intolerant people, probably because they aren't eating properly, I don't see the problem on cooking something you're not eating, and respecting that others want to eat it. But again, that doesn't mean she should be forced to do it if she doesn't want to.

This is one of the reasons some couples should not marry. Didn't they each know what one was like before they married. Assuming he new she was vegetarian, did he say although you are vegetarian when we wed, you must cook me meat. Well kind of that way because no one is really forced to do anything. But my point is assuming they knew how each one was why would they have married and perhaps think they could change the other. Sadly no one can change a vegetarian to eat meat. I suppose it is best to divorce because if he knew she was a vegetarian and is forcing her to cook meat the what else would he try and change her to do. Sad they did not realize prior to marriage.

I think there're similar issues between many couples, different religious, interests, hobbies and view of life etc. How to say? Finding out the difference between them and discussing seriously together to see if both can accept and live together. After marriage, respect each other and make suitable compromise. Wish they could find a suitable way to sort out this problem and wish them good luck!

well i cannot blame her for sticking to her beliefs but i think this is something that the two of them should have talked about before they were married but i think if she really cared about her husband then she should be willing to cook anything including meat for him and his friends (for when you marry you get friends and family along with a spouse) and i think if he really cared about his wife he would not make her do anything she does not want to but that is in india and the us customs do not apply all the way over there

well if he forces her to do something she isn't comfortable with then of course she should divorce him. he is not respectful if he forces her to do anything. if she is a vegetarian and he is not, then when he wants meat, he should cook it himself. I would never expect a vegetarian to cook meat for me.

I thin the hubby should respect his wife's choice. In my country, some people married with other with different religious. Sometimes one can not eat pig meat for his/her religious, while the other one can. So to make sure there is few conflict in the home, one side should make a concession on it. If a person really love his/her partner, I think he/she will respect his/her partner's choice.

Cooking a chiken is not big deal but i think main reason was her husband was not respecting her beliefs and wanted things done only his own way so she dumped him.

I don't know if it is grounds for divorce, but I don't blame her a bit! I mean, if she is totally against cooking an animal, then he is wrong to force her into it. Furthermore, I would not be forced into doing that.. if he wanted to feed his friends chicken, then he could cook it himself. I think he did that as a power play... I think it is wrong to force her when she is a vegetarian.

Yes mostly it happens in village areas. But i want to say life is somewhat understanding and give and take eachother. Divorce is a big thing which can seperate each other and for chicken its silly thing. If husband is good he can compromise himself that her wife doesnt feels to cook chicken in house so that he can fulfil his desires in some hotels. If a wife is good she can understand her husband feelings and she can tolerate and start learning how to make chickens and make avoid her husband to eat outside. Compromising is the toughest way that couple wont do in a needed time.

I am surprised by this news. If you are such a strick vegetarian how come you marry with someone who is not? Is the husband usually agreed with that fact? Is he just now his friends are comming over making such a point out of it? There are enough great meals you can serve your guests without them noticing there is no chicken (meat) on the table. I believe you can never force someone to do something you don't want to. For me this is also a sign he doesn't respect her at all. Since he is making such a big deal out of it (suddenly?) I think divorce is the only solution. Pity they can't find an other solution. The husband can make the meat himself for intance. If I was in the same position I would let my husband cook what he wants.