Girl ask married First

@Olleenz (3398)
Indonesia
October 9, 2011 2:03pm CST
Maybe sound ridiculous but I just wondering is that normal if girl ask /propose marriage to her boyfriend (no extra condition involved, pregnant for example)?
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@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
10 Oct 11
I think it's normal for a girl to ask a marriage proposal. There is nothing wrong about it...
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@Galena (9110)
9 Oct 11
why would it not be normal? after all, it doesn't matter who asks.
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@Olleenz (3398)
• Indonesia
9 Oct 11
Well .... in my country usually men who ask first.
@Galena (9110)
9 Oct 11
well usually it may be, but that doesn't mean something is wrong if the woman asks.
10 Oct 11
Traditionally it's unusual but these days it's more common. In the UK there used to be a tradition that the woman can ask the man on February 29th (in a leap year) though that's less relevant nowadays!
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• United States
9 Oct 11
Although it is not something I as a female would want to do first. It seems it has become the norm for some. Actually I am not sure it was ever considered not the norm as when it comes to love does it really matter who asks first? So as long it is something both want to do I think it is okay. I know that in some countries it is customary for the man to be asking but I think that when two people are in love and marriage is what they want it should be okay.
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@Olleenz (3398)
• Indonesia
9 Oct 11
Oh I see, seem like I still in conservative type
@huilichan8 (1378)
• Singapore
13 Oct 11
To me, tat's perfectly alright. We're living in e 21st century and nowadays, there's more equality between e sexes. So, there's nothing wrong w bat.
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@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
28 Oct 11
i think its ok if the girl would ask to marry the guy,but it is much ok if the guy is the one that will ask for it..
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@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
10 Oct 11
Here in our country,thu it is the boy who proposed marriage, but a girl can ask if the boy is prepared for it. So,it's not a big deal if the girl would ask the boy to marry her. So i guess that depends on culture of each country. have a good day
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