A few years back I posted a discussion to help find my ex daughter.
By free_man
@free_man (7330)
United States
April 15, 2012 1:02pm CST
I guess I should state that I had sent his Aunt an email about these people that we know stealing my ex's stuff. We was at their house visiting and I seen a lot of my ex's tools. I was livid! This was supposed to be my ex's best friend. And he is stealing from him!
Well you all know my ex is dead. His sister found his daughter that he hadn't seen since she was about 9 months old. His ex wife made him sign some kind of paper taking all his rights from this child. Well a few days back I got this email from her she got real irate with me. Telling me I stole from her dad after I was gone. I hadn't seen him since the divorce hearing. Any way I wrote his Aunt again and asked her to tell my ex's sister to put a stop to it or my lawyer would put a stop to it. They did stop. I had been writting his Aunt for quite some time since he has passed on. And this little S told me to stop writting her dads family. I sent the email to his Aunt. She told me to just plain ignore her that I had every right to email her. What would you have done if this had happened to you?
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@OpinionatedLady (5965)
• United States
15 Apr 12
I am betting this kid has a lot of anger issues when it comes to her father and you seemed like a good outlet to dump them on. I wouldn't take it as anything but that and as long as the the people you are in touch with want to stay in touch that is all that matters. This girl is nothing to you now and can stay that way if she likes it. Mostly she is probably jealous of the time you got to spend with her Dad. Also you do not know what has been said to her. I see in many cases it is the mother/father poising the child's mind with lies or their own speculations that cause these problems. For all you know she thinks you are the reason her father wasn't in her life.
@OpinionatedLady (5965)
• United States
16 Apr 12
She never got to know him at all when he was alive? That is sad. Who knows what people think. Then when people say stuff and it is taken all different ways who can figure it out.
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@OpinionatedLady (5965)
• United States
17 Apr 12
So I am sure she has many issues. Ignore her and she may even come around to you later looking to understand the man she never knew.
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
16 Apr 12
Cut the ties with them all, is what I would have done. I would back off, as I don't need drama in my life. I would rather just stay to myself.
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@SomeCowgirl (32189)
• United States
15 Apr 12
Okay so if I am understanding this right, a child who had not even seen her dad's family in a VERY VERY VERY long time, that she could not even remember having seen them she was so young, is trying to stir the pot? She seems to really know nothing of you and is blaming at thin air. I'd have been mad myself and told her what for. How old is she anyway?
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@WakeUpKitty (8691)
• Netherlands
15 Apr 12
It's hard to say what I would have done, except by going on with my life.
I don't think there is much you can change about the future or what has happened.
You will never know what exactly happened as this kid was 9 months old, if your ex was really forced to sign or find it convenient at that moment to let go and start all over again. Also you can't look in the heart of the child. How she must have felt all these years.
There is no dad to blame, if her mother is still there you don't know how she is raised, what has been told to her, her past is not clear and you are just someone who was there and seemed to know the unknown dad.
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