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myLot reputation of 98/100. re08dz (1099)3 years ago

Fears; most of us have them to some degree or another: from a fear of flying to spiders they can often affect how we carry out our day to day lives.

Some our fears may be considered irrational by some, yet to us these things are downright terrifying.

But when does something cross the line from a general dislike/fear to an acutal phobia?

For example I don't like some spiders ('specially huntsman 'cause they tend to sit up high on a wall and stare down at you with an evil expression:-) ) and to some degree they will change how I do things - can't sleep at night if I know there's one in the house - even though I know it won't harm me etc. but I wouldn't say I was arachnophobic as other spiders don't have the same effect on me.

Anyone else have a fear (rational or not): how does it effect you and how do you overcome it?


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1. stigmademonico (94)   3 years ago

I Have a teeny tiny fear for spiders . But i think i have a phobia about Dark Waters .. Abuot something lurking underneath it!!

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2. myLot reputation of 89/100. Tanya8 (1452)   3 years ago

I think fear becomes a phobia, when you have a panic response to whatever it is that you're afraid of. I have claustrophobia, and my husband has arachnophobia. We don't have any poisonous spiders (or even spiders that bite) where we live, but he starts sweating, hopping up on furniture and screaming at me to get spiders out of the house when he sees them.

I feel the same way in elevators; I can force myself into them using reason if I have to, but the second the doors seem to be taking too long to open, I feel the adrenaline coursing through my body and my throat constricting.

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. emeraldisle (8978)   3 years ago

I think the level of how it effects your life and day to day living is what seperates the two. I have a fear towards palmetto bugs. If I see one yes I can kill it if I have to, in other words if no one else is around to do it for me, but if it isn't dead yeah my feet will stay up off the floor till it is but it won't keep me from doing things that need to be done. Still it is just a major fear.

On the other hand I have a phobia when it comes to crowds. This will keep me from shopping, going to malls, doctor's offices, sometimes even the route I take to places if the traffic is too crowded. It can even keep me at home instead of going to family gatherings due to having too many people there. This is something that effects how I live and how my daily life progresses.

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4. myLot reputation of 83/100. nobodyspecial (933)   3 years ago

We all fear something...a phobia is essentially a deeply rooted fear that has no basis in fact.

A fear becomes a phobia when one, confronted with the object of fear, enters into a panic state. This panic state can be anything from hysterics to 'freezing'.

A phobia can also be contributed to by paranoia...a certainty that if such and such happened the result will be disasterous to the person experiencing the phobia.

Phobias can be incapactitating, simple fears over come.

Phobics can be 'healed' and become functional in the area of the phobia, but they will rarely completely over come the fear.

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5. myLot reputation of 88/100. krislouiebaby (2125)   3 years ago

my mother has fear from caterpillars,especially the brown one oftenly found in guava tree we call it here in the philippines as (dadangkal), i do not know why she is afraid of that thing, everytime we show caterpillars to her, she scream and shout, and almost catch her breath,,,until now she is afraid of it, she is almost 60 yrs old, we dont know how she will overcome that fear...

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6. myLot reputation of 46/100. sahergul (657)   3 years ago

well... it happens to all buddy in some way in some type... and with time it one rid off...

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7. grashal26 (79)   3 years ago

Yes it may be phobia.

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8. myLot reputation of 78/100. iknowitall (347)   3 years ago

Im only scared of two kinds of spiders the Black Widow & the brown recluse, because they are the only ones that can hurt you around here, A few weeks ago I had fixed myself something to drink I sat my drink down then picked it up agian a few minutes later put it up to my mouth and there was a giant spider in it... it must have drop from the ceiling...It was brown, I never actually seen a brown recluse, so i looked it up on the internet... and to my horror i seen that it was a brown recluse...
Other than that im insanely afriad of hieghts...roller coasters(that go upside down)oh and flying


myLot reputation of 78/100. iknowitall (347)  3 years ago

boy that sucker does look creepy in that pic... I dont like him either


myLot reputation of 98/100. re08dz (1099)  3 years ago

Icck on the spider in the drink

LOL yeah they're not pleasant (harmless but creepy)- what's worse is that if you try to get them off the wall or ceiling with a broom they chase you:-) (or at least this one did)


CyberSquirrel (33)  3 years ago

I almost drank a spider once a few years ago. My wife and I were staying in a motel and that night I got up to get a glass of water. With the lights low I stumbled to the sink and picked up an empty glass, proceeded to fill it from the faucet and lifted the glass up, put it to my mouth and I felt something on my lips like a stray hair. I put the glass down immediately and turned on the light to discover the spider still on the glass. Whew! close call. this gives me the willies.


myLot reputation of 94/100. tammyr (3436)  3 years ago

a brown recluse is notbig, it's body is about the size of a dime and with legs slightly larger than a quarter. If it was giant it was something else unless the fear enlarged the percieved size. it is not hairy, either BTW.I looked this up the other day and do not remember where i found it but all the sites i checked out said the same thing. I have fear of these spiders and a few snakes but only to a degree. because of the damage they do. i have a phobia of being dog bit. i know the difference, it is somrthing you can not control. if you do not know the difference you most likely do't have a phobia.

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9. myLot reputation of 69/100. jal1948 (1299)   3 years ago

fear is something which we know about,phobias are something we are afraid of for no reasons and affects our functioning as normal human beings,ex heights,closed or open spaces,fearof animals,berds,insects,etc,to over come these phobias is to use the gradual exposure technique and autosuggestion,try it and see,it works.

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10. myLot reputation of 91/100. LovingIt (2244)   3 years ago

Ummmm. I would say that you do have a phobia where this particular type of spider is concerned.

The only irrational fear that I have is of dead animals. It makes no sense, I know, but I am terrified of them. It doesn't matter if it's an animal I knew or not, or what kind of animal, if it's dead and I see it, I absolutely freak out and there is no way I can handle disposing of it.

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