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lovemeer_g (18)   ranked 647 out of 3,703 in had children 5 years ago

My 18 month old daughter has this habit of raoming in the entire house while she eats food. I learnt that it is a common thing for kids to do. But everone insists that a kid must sit in one place and enjoy food. I have tried baby high cahir also. But she wails till she is not let of the chair. I am at loss as of what to do. Can someone come up with suggestions?


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1. myLot reputation of 77/100. Zamboni (137)   5 years ago

hmm its hard to say what to really do.my son was like that for many years and it can be very frustrating.turns out he has add tho.
do you still have her highchair? maybe if you put her in it and watch her reaction.if she dislikes it tell her she can sit on a big girl chair if she stays in it-if not she has to go back in the highchair.

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2. myLot reputation of 90/100. kris182_2000 (2720)   ranked 1,398 out of 3,703 in had children   5 years ago

You really need to have your child sit while eating.

She may be too young to understand it, but try to explain to her that she may choke on her food and there may not be anyone around to see it happen.

That is a great concern for anyone, and it should be one for you as well.

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3. myLot reputation of 98/100. patgalca (6608)   ranked 156 out of 3,703 in had children   5 years ago

I would nip it in the bud NOW! If she wails to get out of her high chair, let her out but don't give her anything to eat. If you stand your ground she will soon learn. Right now she is learning that she is the boss because you are giving in to her. If you let her do this, you will have kids like mine. They leave wrappers, bowls and cups all over the house. Granola bar wrappers, cheese string wrappers, popsicle wrappers, popsicle sticks. The other day I went into my daughter's room and found 3 separate cups, all with juice still in them.

Also, when milk is spilled on carpet it must be washed well because it will smell. Gross! My kids take their bowls of cereal around the house, put it down, then do a cartwheel or something and knock the darn bowl over. We have tried to insist they eat at the kitchen table but at 10 and 13, we are not there supervising their every move. I suggest you stop it now before it gets as bad as it has in my house. And like I said before, she is manipulating you. You have to let her know who is boss.


myLot reputation of 98/100. roniroxas (5916)   ranked 148 out of 3,703 in had children  5 years ago

i agree with you patgalca, we should discipline our kids as early as possible. if he/she gets his/her way now he/she will always get his/her way everytime. you should give kids tough-love. you love them but you have to discipline them.

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4. myLot reputation of 91/100. mansha (4849)   ranked 352 out of 3,703 in had children   5 years ago

my daughter is eight months old and she sits at a place whne she is really hungry and as soon as her stomach fills up a little she will start roaming around. This thing my son also did so What I used to do is while feeding them , I never moved from my place after them. I used to call them to me and they return and she also does when I call, her hopefully like it happened with my son she also will learn to com,e to food instead of food running after her,lol. You also do the same thing stop going over to her with food and keep sitting at one place , eventually she will come to you, may be you will have to feed her inthree shifts instead of one but keep doing that and in a week she will get the message that mom is going to keep me hungary if I don't go to her. Try feeding her when she is really hungry instead of fix time that also will encouraghe her to concerntrate on food and you will see slowly that only will match with your time schedule too.I hope it helps.

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5. myLot reputation of 52/100. cloud_kicker_32 (3796)   ranked 363 out of 3,703 in had children   5 years ago

First off hun..you have to remember you are the parent.and u cant give in to things or she will always have u wraped around her pinky and know it lol..Its only common to arents that allow this..if u dont have a problem with it.go ahead..If u want her to sit in her chair and eat..make her sit there.,.and if she asks for food while walking..explain she cant that she has to sit..and when shes really hungry and learns your the boss about it..she will sit..i have been there,..and many many messes on the carpet and i wished that i enever let him in the first place..but i learned from my mistakes..but hun..its up to you..if u dont mind..thats your child and house and no one elses! but if u dont..ya best start now..lots of luck!


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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. Katrina901986 (241)   ranked 114 out of 3,703 in had children   5 years ago

My suggestion is put a couple of toys on the highchair that we she is not borred with eating food. I do not know if you have tried that already but if not try it. That is the only thing i can think of or a boster for the chairs that are at the table and tell her that she is a big girl now and can sit at the table while she eats and you sit at the table and have something to drink that way she knows she has to drink at the table as well.

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7. starbug (14)   ranked 3,142 out of 3,703 in had children   5 years ago

my my 19 month old grandson does the same thing. it drives his mother crazy. however she tries to put sesame street on while he is sitting in a walker. or put music on, because he loves music. and kinda make a game out of it, so it will be fun.keep her occupied with something while she eats.

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8. myLot reputation of 98/100. poppoppop111 (3282)   ranked 26 out of 3,703 in had children   5 years ago

my daughter used to do this too. she has a hard time sitting still for anything and would refuse to sit at the table to eat. so i put her food on her little table and let her walk around and come back for bites. at first i did find that this helped her eat more. but after a while she got too busy playing and would forget to come and eat. so at age 3 i said enogh of that cause she wasn't eating anymore. i put her at the table and she sat there the entire meal and never asked to get down. we eat at the table every meal now. so i just think wait a few months, then try putting her at the table again to see if she'll stay. if she's eating i don't see why you can't let her walk around.

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9. myLot reputation of 97/100. ronita34 (2178)   ranked 691 out of 3,703 in had children   5 years ago

There is not much that you can do and if it does not bother you to let her walk around while eating than it is fine. However in saying that you must also keep in mind that if you do in fact choose to let her walk around rather than just making her stay in her high chair than this will go on into toddler and childhood. My baby is two and i have a hard time keeping her from walking around although i do not allow it. She makes a big mess which winds up being the ultimate problem!

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10. myLot reputation of 59/100. flagbabygirl (672)   ranked 1,417 out of 3,703 in had children   5 years ago

I think that you have to make your daughter sit and eat. I had a hard time with my son for a while and he oved to wander. I though it was no big deal but, since I allowed it to happen he started getting used to it and too advantage! I finally had to start making him eat at the table. It took time and effort but now he eats for me and site in one place! thank goodness.


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