I just made a fool of myself today:(  |
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My boyfriend and I had a little fight yesterday. It lasted for a few minutes, then we were back to being happy again. Not until today, when I ruined the whole thing with just a text message (SMS). A close friend of mine sent me a message this morning, and she asked if I'm alright, and what had happened to me yesterday. I gave out the story, like normal girl friends do, and to my utter surprise and terror, I accidentally sent one of the messages to my boyfriend's phone number! The part where it got really bad for us, and it sounded like I was talking some bad things about him. Moreover, all the names of the "involved" are there... I hurriedly explained the whole thing. Now he's not replying... He hasn't sent me any message since this morning.:( And I'm not sure if he ever will, or if he ever could understand how girls talk, or if our relationship could be fixed again, or if I could live this embarrassing, sad day out...:(
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1. anonymili (2503) | 2 years ago | I'm very surprised to hear that you were able to get THAT much information in a text message to someone that your bf would be so upset, I understand you say there were a series of text messages but you could start by sending him a text saying that you were telling your best friend why you were upset yesterday and you were only part way through explaining it when you sent him the message by accident and that you can even show him the later messages to him to prove that you weren't just slating him. Guys don't know how we think, my ex overheard a conversation between a close friend and me years ago but only heard part of it, my friend was talking about my ex's friend and said how she thought he was really hot and I said "yeah XXXX is pretty good-looking, who wouldn't agree with that?" That's the bit my ex heard but what he didn't hear was me saying "It doesn't matter how good looking he is though, he's an arrogant git and I'd never fancy someone who fancied himself so much and he's a real male chauvinest pig as well!" My ex was really hurt thinking I had been admiring his best friend when I was trying to make a point that looks aren't everything. I am crossing my fingers for you that your bf understands you were just sharing a bad experience with a friend and that you are relieved it's all over now and that things are ok between you and him again. Maybe you can even show him your post here!
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| moneyhunter (12) | 2 years ago | This is good, I can't agree more. Thanks for the opinion
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laptopchick (225) | 2 years ago | Wow, thanks, Anonymili! Thanks for sharing your story, too. I appreciate it. Hearing part of the story, or reading it, can really be interpreted into something else... I just hope he believed my explanation. By the way, I'm from the Philippines, and yeah, we can pretty much talk about anything thru text messages here... Thanks for replying, Anonymili!
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mango_nectar (221) | 2 years ago | very well said:) I've had my own share of misunderstandings thanks to conversations that were overheard, messages that were misread, etc. I hope your bf understands!
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laptopchick (225) | 2 years ago | Haha.. Thanks, mango_nectar! Good sense of humor.:) It's good to know I'm not alone in this kind of thing guys... Thanks, everyone!:)
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| 2. pawandavuluri (11) | 2 years ago | dont worry frnd every thing will be alright and i think by the time you see my response you are with your boyfriend but any way let me tell you one thing never ever share you love life with others coz it hurts our future performances so keep hide your emotional, romantics, quarels with you by this time onwards i m saying this because i too have same problems with my girls friend and it cost my love that's why.... it's ok it is a best day for you because you learned something from your mistake bye take care
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laptopchick (225) | 2 years ago | Thanks, Pawandavuluri... There are just times when girls really need someone to talk to. Sometimes, we'd like to think and rethink what had happened, and we want our girl friends to give us advices. That's the reason why we share... but just to our very close friends, anyway. But I appreciate your advice. Thanks, Pawandavuluri!
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3. marina1981 (530) | 2 years ago | don't be scared, try to talk to him face to face and explain him everything, tell him you did a mistake. I hope he will understand!
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laptopchick (225) | 2 years ago | Thanks, Marina... I'd do that for sure, the next time we'll see each other. We're in a long distance relationship, so we kinda rely on text messages, and phone calls for the moment.
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| 4. deemple (34) | 2 years ago | i think you have offended him so much.but then,everything has happened.you can't take it back.so accept what's going to come.if you were meant for each other,everything will just come along fine at a certain time.just keep your fingers crossed.if no solutions made,find another but be careful the next time you're into a relationship.find reservations to yourself if possible.take time.
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laptopchick (225) | 2 years ago | Yah, that's what I thought, too... It just happened. Maybe it has a purpose or something. Maybe it's meant to happen. But I learned my lesson. I would double check the recipients name before sending anything. haha kidding.:) I'd be careful next time...
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5. kgwat70 (10092) | 2 years ago | I hope that he will understand at some point and that you two will be talking again and continuing your relationship. It must have been pretty bad for him not to respond to you at all. Hopefully he will not want to break up with you over a text message you sent. I will keep my fingers crossed for you that he calls or text messages you back so you can talk about it and clear things up hopefully.
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laptopchick (225) | 2 years ago | Thanks, kgwat!! I'll keep my fingers crossed, too.
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6. raijin (6735) | 2 years ago | Friend, you did an honest mistake, so I think you have to calm yourself first. Though I feel that I should blame you, I think there's no use of doing it so. The best thing to do is approach your man, explain to him everything, and if possible, also bring your friend that you said you were talking to at that time. Bring her, just in case you need someone to back you up. Forget about the things that you accidently send to him, all you have to think of right now is to how you would solve your misunderstandings. I hope that you would do the right thing. If you love each other, then I think only the both of you can patch things up!;) CHEER UP!
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laptopchick (225) | 2 years ago | Thanks, Raijin! I'm actually starting to feel better now... But I wouldn't be totally happy unless he'd treat me good again. By the way, we're in a long distance relationship, so I can't just "approach" him that easily. I'll just pray we'd be ok asap...
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raijin (6735) | 2 years ago | I'm sorry, I thought you were living at the same place..
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laptopchick (225) | 2 years ago | It's ok... No need to say sorry.:) He lives in a nearby city. He comes by whenever he finds time. So I guess I'll just make it up to him when we meet again. For the meantime, I'd make great use of the text messaging technology....
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7. rhadoo2006 (318) | 2 years ago | the best thing to do when you fight with someone you should speak with him not with your friends, because you and him are involved not other persons, if you were in his place how did you react?
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laptopchick (225) | 2 years ago | Yeah, I understand... I'd feel bad, too. But the thing is, we patched things up yesterday. And this morning my friend asked about it... I narrated the story, but accidentally sent the "bad part" to my boyfriend's number. It was only one of the messages in the series. I told my friend everything is ok now, and that we had patched things up minutes after we fought. But I couldn't deny the message I sent to my boyfriend sounded bad. And it was only part of the whole thing. Nevertheless, I shouldn't have responded to my friend's question, if I knew this would happen...
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8. maddysmommy (10215) | 2 years ago | Instead of texting him, why not wait until you two meet up again and talk to him about what happened. Give him time to get over it, then talk it out. I totally understand where your coming from when it comes to sharing issues that concern your partner with your best friend. I do it all the time, to vent, to release tension and stress, for guidance, for advice but mostly for her just to listen. It will be ok, just give him time.
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laptopchick (225) | 2 years ago | Thanks Maddysmommy, thanks! It's good to know someone does the same - the sharing thing. It lightens up the load, right? Yes, I think I'd do that. I'll give him time to get over it, and when he's ready, we'd talk... Thanks, Maddysmommy!
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| 9. honeybabe_83 (31) | 2 years ago | hi there! wow, that's kinda embarrassing but dont feel bad now. accident do happens. no one is perfect. things will be ok. he'll come around once he's cooled down. so just relax and have some patience.:) when he comes to you, just have him listen to your explanation and apologized for things what he read what you texted about him. it happens to me before and i came to him and explained to him personally just to make him believe that i didn't mean it. if you can't take it to wait for him to come around for couple days, try to come to his place or call him to talk.:) i hope this helps a bit. good luck and i hope things will be alright between you two.:)
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laptopchick (225) | 2 years ago | Ok, honeybabe.. I'd do that. I'll wait until he's cooled down. Same thing happened to you before? It's good to know you came out as a victor of the circumstance. Thanks for the answer, honeybabe.:)
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| honeybabe_83 (31) | 2 years ago | your welcome..:) yes, it happened to me alot times.. people make the mistakes... no one is perfect, you know?:) things happens when couples fight and say each other bad things behind the back. it's only the anger inside us that sometimes needs to get it out to a friend and feel better. it's all normal. just talk to him once he's cooled down already... if the fight still continues, whatever decision you both have made, make sure you prepare for that decision and be strong:):)
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laptopchick (225) | 2 years ago | Thanks, honeybabe...:) I'm wishing things will get better soon...
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| 10. Julie80 (49) | 2 years ago | don't try and make up on a text message..if he doesnì't answer,call him. eplain everything even face to face...it's the best thing
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laptopchick (225) | 2 years ago | Yes, Julie, I'd do that the next time we'd see each other again. We're relying on phones because we're on LDR... Thanks for the advice, Julie!:)
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