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deekshatatau (12)3 years ago

well i have a very gud frd and one can say a very good gal ....around 7 monthes bak she met a guy ...and that guy had a reputation of damn flirt ...and after accepting his proposal she wanted to break off and be free ...bt in the beginning that guy use made some attempts like threatening to keep her goin in the relation.bt after few days gurl even started to get serious and she told that boy abt all this bt the guy said ...the brutal truth is that that they can never be together in the form of a marriage couple so girl accepted this ..and again she was in that normal relatn...in that mean course thay had full fledged physical relatns and few daz b4 she realised that she is pregnant ...she told him and then boy supplied her wid aborting pills and they together passed thr that diff time.bt gradually 1 day she met a guy on net woe was perfect in all aspects acc to the girl and after all this time that guy is in love wid her and even she ...bt now that previous guy is still in her life and he is nt ready to leave her....he is even 3 yrs younger to her....he does all the acts to disturb the girl like fiting on small issues and girl is very disturbed as she has now got some1 she alwaz wanted in her life .BT NOW THE REAL QUESTN STARTS IS IS THE GIRL DOIN RITE...IS THE PREVIOUS GUY REALLY IN LOVE OR ITS ALL LUST???IS THE GURL DECIEVING THE 2ND GUY??AND THE BIGGEST PROB WID THE GIRL IS THAT ITS ONLY FEW WEEKS BAK SHE TOOK THOSE PILLS THER R STILL FEW CHANCES THAT THE ABORTION IS NT SUCESSFULL IT WILL ONLY B CONFIRMED WEN THIS MONTHE WILL END ....SO GUYS AND GURL THIS IS A REAL LIFE SITUATN WICH A GUD FRD OF MINE IS FACING SO PLZ ALL TELL ME WAT U ALL THINK AND REALLY I XPECT NICE AND GOOD REPLIES...........

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 86/100. swetha2rani (297)   3 years ago

It is just blowing my head off. I dont understand whether is it LOVE, coz' people in love would surely be true to one another and understand and face anything to live life together. I dont find the situation to be so then what else can it be rather than a time pass for the first guy or can be just lust or a free chance to get her whenever he wants it. I would ask her to break up that relationship forever and think twice before she would go ahead with another guy. On net people get to find many, I have one relative who married a guy she met on internet but tell u once he was able to get a chance to come to USA as a dependent on her he searched out ways to get H1 and later is wanting divorce from her coz' he is on his own now. that's not true love. say her that dont run back of guys, love would surely come in search of her one day or other.


deekshatatau (12)  3 years ago

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desire007 (1)  3 years ago

i dont fel that this is right

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. syndibee (440)   3 years ago

she needs to call the law on the first guy. he needs some help to let go of her. she is enabling his addiction to not her but separation by not just cutting him off altogether.
as for the second guy, if she's not ready to be honest with him about her relations with the first guy then she's not ready to be with him. i think she's a bit immature to be in adult relationships from the sounds of things. she needs to grow up a bit and enjoy guys in a more lighthearted way of friendship.


deekshatatau (12)  3 years ago

so wat according to u shd be done so that the problems can be solved????????????


myLot reputation of 94/100. syndibee (440)  3 years ago

according to me she'd have complete resolution of her first relationship before even attempting to get into another. and when she gets into another if she wants it to be a good relationship then she will have to be completely honest with the guy and not starting off with big dark secrets. she's setting herself up to get hurt or to hurt someone if she continues on the road she's traveling. it doesn't sound to me like she's ready for a sexual relationship and should persue friendships first.


deekshatatau (12)  3 years ago

actually they met on net and now as she alwaz wanted sum1 serious in her life ....woe will give her commitment for life and now she is gettinng tat frm this 2nd guy so.....

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. laydee (3975)   3 years ago

It's not love. The first guy is only there because he's sure she'd never leave and she'd do everything he wants.

Why would a girl stick with someone who couldn't really marry her? That's like becoming a mistress forever. Without security. Unless she herself is ok with that.

Plus. This new guy. She hasn't really met this guy. How could she be sure they're in love? Have she told him about her past? About the abortion and such? I doubt he'd still love her if she tells him so.

Plus come on. She's not yet over with her ordeal with the first guy, now she's looking for another problem.

Tell her to love herself for once. Stop with these guys for now. Give herself a priority. Take care of herself first. Then tell her to think about all the consequences of her action and be more mature, before she even thinks about love.

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