Japeth21

@Japeth21 (23)

Philippines • Age 34

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What kind of stress you have for today?

ardhidoank @ardhidoank (136) • Indonesia 20 Nov 12

Of course, Everyone experiences stress at time; adult, teens, and even kids. A feeling that's created when we react to particular events. It's the body way of rising to a challenge and preparing to meet a tough situation with...

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Japeth21 Yes, that's true. Stress doesn't choose whom it'll attack and everybody is a prospect except babies. Maybe, they are also stress but only for awhile... Am I right?? Well, personally, stress doesn't only requires our physical strength in order to get through...

16 Jan 13

i need some stress reliever

hotsummer @hotsummer (13882) • Philippines 14 Nov 12

i have been using gadgets like mobile phones and tablets to relief my stress but oftentimes they can add to my stress actually. as i become more busy learning how to use them and looking for more applications for them so i can...

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Japeth21 You say that using your gadgets is your stress reliever but then you've realize that it adds up your stress? Sometimes, doing our usual routines or if we already know about that something we tend to lost our interest and that may result to boredom which now...

16 Jan 13

i don't want to worry

hotsummer @hotsummer (13882) • Philippines 4 Jan 13

I'm a person that likes to worry. I'm tired of it. So i want to change my attitude and way of thinking. I want to be more positive in life. I don't want to think of many bad things that may happen in the future. I would like to...

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Japeth21 I believe in you that there are so many goods thing out there waiting for you. Just don't ignore them ^_^. Others always telling us that everyday and every time there are opportunities (so just be careful in choosing in those options... KIDDING) just choose...

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How do you cope up with stress

grace147 @grace147 (223) • Philippines 13 Nov 12

We face variety of stressors everyday in our life. At times, stressors are external while most of it are internal. In my opinion, external stressors are avoidable and perhaps manageable but what makes it a "stressor" is how we...

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Japeth21 Coping with stress comes in different ways. Some are simple and some were too complicated. The simplest way to cope up with stress is ("just try it") SMILE TAKE A DEEP BREATH TRY TO RELAX and SAY TO YOURSELF CALM..... but this may be simple to others but...

15 Jan 13

Stress and Anxiety

Emre1206 @Emre1206 (41) • Turkey 4 Jan 13

Everyone has a different technic to cope with stress and anxiety.I usually listen to some relaxing music such as classical of blues. What do you do when you get stressed?

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Japeth21 Me too usually uses of musics to cope up with stress. Sometimes, I usually sleep and watch movies when I'm just at home. But on outdoors and in class, I took several deep breaths and think positive and just smile.But don't forget to drink water it helps a...

15 Jan 13

Stress Management.......

mukesh414u @mukesh414u (86) • India 1 Jan 13

As long as the life is considered i heard it is collections of all struggles and happiness all the time... But when it comes about Managing stress, I have got to learn it from people who's been managing since long time.... Can...

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Japeth21 Yes, that's true. Life is bitter-sweet. Whenever I got stressed, in order to keep myself calm, I just close my eyes take a deep breath and say to myself "keep calm" and think positive as much as possible. Also you're right, learning from others on how they...

15 Jan 13

My number one enemy

aubrey @averygirl72 (38814) • Philippines 29 Dec 12

This year I made an extra effort to focus on stress management and indeed next 2013 I will focus more on it. I realized all the garbage thoughts I allowed on my mind is product of my anxiety and stress and with that I am sorry...

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Japeth21 Greetings!! Upon reading this I came up to realize that you're right, our number one enemy is our own selves. I admit I'm not that perfect and a sensitive person that's why I can't avoid thinking negatively when I heard and felt that people around me or my...

15 Jan 13

Where or who do you go to when you are under a lot of stress?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9460) • United States 27 Dec 12

Stress comes in all types. Big or small. Is there a place you go to when your stressed, something you do, or someone you talk too. I like to write in my journal when I'm stressed. Thankfully there are wonderful friends that I have...

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Japeth21 That's right. Stress comes in all types. Fresh and breezy places will help you to cope up with stress. Bright and colorful places like a place filled with flowers also helps in relaxing you. Better yet go to the place were you think you could relax or where...

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What‘s your way of escaping the stress?

sunshinesophie @sunshinesophie (794) • China 20 Dec 12

Stress is our biggest enemies,and there are many kinds of stress,some caused by work,some by friend,family,even by ourselves. For me,I would get rid of my stress from work by talking with my good friends,sometimes I don't need...

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Japeth21 I totally agree with you that stress is our biggest enemies. But sometimes a good motivator though. For me, when I'm upset, stressed/unhappy I usually listen from calming musics and relaxing instrumental music. Sometimes I just go out and play with my younger...

15 Jan 13

Training at your job

Heather Echola @GardenGerty (167574) • United States 8 Dec 12

I spent eight hours today doing training for Non Violent Physical Crisis Intervention, a requirement for some of the people I work with. I have had the class before. I have also had training at another job in a similar program...

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safety and security for all

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Japeth21 I admit that I don't have that kind of training like putting handcuffs and uncle chains or the likes. But I am fund of watching kung fu and martial arts movies and I trying some of the techniques there and even imitates their kung fu. And it's quietly fun and...

9 Jan 13

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Career planning

lldrwin @lldrwin (187) • China 7 Dec 12

Six months ago ,I started working.My company is an ODM ,who manufactured computers ,including HP,DELL,LENOVO,SONY,TOSHIBA and so on. I think I am not happy working here.The environment of our company look like most of employees...

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Japeth21 The decision depends on you. When you felt you are already driven out from your job and have totally lost your interest then you should better give it up. Because that might affect your working performances. But if you still felt and could find reasons to go...

9 Jan 13

To what extent does text messaging interrupt your work?

dolce_vita78 @dolce_vita78 (8062) • Philippines 27 Jul 12

You probably missed the deadline just because you were not able to accomplish a task due to texting. We may not know it but those few seconds that we read those messages and another few seconds to reply total to minutes or even...

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Japeth21 Honestly, I'm not fund of text messaging. I only send text messages when I need it and when I need to. I even only buy loads when I know I'm going to need it and when I have to response to some certain text messages. But sometimes, I send messages when I felt...

9 Jan 13

How to deal with irritating relatives?

rubyroy @rubyroy (824) • India 3 Jan 13

Relatives could be irrational,irritating relationship which you will have to tolerate whether you like it or not.Yesterday was the engagement party of my sister law's elder daughter. There was a slight misunderstanding between her...

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Japeth21 For me, not attending engagement ceremony is just alright most especially when you have something to do that time. Also, here in the Philippines, not attending engagement party would not give shame even if the elder brother from the mother side abstain from...

9 Jan 13

How to win my fist interview?

mayrylflores @mayrylflores (173) • Philippines 29 Dec 12

I will be having an interview next month. I wanted you to help me to win my first interview. I apply as a call center agent in one of the company here in the Philippines. I'm a fresh graduate and I want to have some idea what...

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Japeth21 Honestly, I don't have much helped in here but usually I always hear common question. That is how would they win their first interview. Some says just be yourself and answer those questions honestly.Others says that the common questions they are ask are more...

9 Jan 13

Everyday of opportunity

mayrylflores @mayrylflores (173) • Philippines 29 Dec 12

I spend every single day of my life doing something to improve myself. I read, write, sing and chat. I don't believe opportunity knocks only once but it does everyday. It is on ourselves to find it out. If we search, there is...

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Japeth21 That's really true. Honestly, I sometimes don't give much more noticed to that simple opportunities but in that same day I felt regretful for realizing that that was an opportunity for something. Maybe that something is for changes, improvements and the likes....

9 Jan 13

Dont stop learning

mayrylflores @mayrylflores (173) • Philippines 29 Dec 12

I graduated college and have a degree. I know learning takes place everyday. Improve yourself. Read and write. I always wanted to improve my talents and knowledge. I attended several trainings and drills because I believe...

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Japeth21 That's right don't stop learning and that learning takes place everyday. Changes are always there to deal with that's why we need not to stop learning. Reading and writing are not the only ways to learn in addition why don't take an eye around you for sure...

9 Jan 13

When somebody steps on your toes at work, is it time to move on?

bounce58 @bounce58 (17380) • Canada 13 Sep 12

I’ve been in this job of mine for just over a year. A few months ago, we hired a new guy who’s more experienced than I am (and I bet paid even more than I am!). Although we don’t exactly have the same job...

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stepping on toes

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Japeth21 When somebody steps on your toes at work, is it time to move on? Is this question enough to let go of your job? Think! For me, I don't mean to be harsh but that first question are only asked by those people who are insecure. Why let go of your job when in fact...

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