Mitzi72

@Mitzi72 (20)

United States • Age 54

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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Befriending an ex

reykja @reykja (121) 2 Mar 07

I was dating a guy in May. After 3 weeks he started accusing me of falling in love with him, said I was not his girlfriend etc etc while he was the one who was chasing me for almost 2 months before we dated. However, after our...

friends with an ex

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Mitzi72 If you want to be friends with him, then go ahead and just ignore his crazy antics. Do not let him stop you from being who you are or keep you from being with who you want. He will eventually get over the stupidness by acting normal or coming out and telling...

2 Mar 07

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My ex-send me a birthday wishes. What should i do?? Reply @ Ignore??

xabimaru @xabimaru (340) • Malaysia 26 Feb 07

I just have my birthday and receive many wishes from friends and relatives but few presents (i am getting old) lol. The only thing that is still in my mind is that, my ex-girlfriend also sent me a birthday wish but i still can't...

heart broken

love

relationship

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Mitzi72 I think of it this way. If an old friend you hadn't talked to in years sent you a birthday greeting even though you hadn't seen or spoken to them in years would you reply? I myself say a birthday greeting doesn't need a response. It is just words. A gift would...

28 Feb 07

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Ex-husbands/Ex wives?

suracizgurl @suracizgurl (51) • United States 8 Nov 06

Do you get along with them? My ex-husband is a demonic soul!

exes

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Mitzi72 I have 2 ex-husbands. No children with either. I get along great with my first ex if I see him. Give him a hug and talk like old friends. The second one I will talk to if I have to but could do without it. The funny one is that I get along great with his other...

28 Feb 07

Long Distance Relationships.......Do u believe?

rahuldmhatre @rahuldmhatre (736) • India 11 Feb 07

So i was wondering, what do you guys think of long-distance relationships. Would you get involved in one? Have you had one, was it a success? These are my answers: 1. Would you get involved? No..never..waste of time and money...

long distance relationships

love

relationships

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Mitzi72 I agree that falling in love with someone over the internet, even with phone calls and visits is more like falling in love with the idea of a relationship or the idea of love. You have no basis for reality with this. 1. I have before and would never again. 2....

28 Feb 07

A divorce question

margieanneart @margieanneart (26423) • United States 22 Feb 07

State if you are a male or female. What did you feel like the moment you received the court papers that you were divorced? How long were you married? I was married for 6 years. I stood on those court steps and felt such freedom...

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Mitzi72 I am a female who was married for 11 years. When the day of my divorce came up I was up early and the court house an hour before the time it was scheduled. My husband didn't even show up. I was so relieved and happy to be divorced I called all my family and...

27 Feb 07

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Childern of Divorce

Bytemi @Bytemi (1553) • United States 23 Feb 07

OK, I need to vent a little here and then I would like your comments, whether you agree with me or not, if you stay on topic, I am going to give you a positive rating. There have been many discussion that I started on MyLot...

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Mitzi72 Thank God for you!!!! You did the right thing by showing you were not a sub-human. You deserve all the love and emotional support you can get and NEVER make due with less than that. You did the right thing by putting into practice that a woman does not deserve...

27 Feb 07

Is it too late for him?

hothash007 @hothash007 (488) • India 23 Feb 07

hi this is the story of one of my neighbour and school mate.when he told this tears were coming out of his eyes.this made me to think and discuss it here. He had a girl friend and there relation broke up on last monday. what he...

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Mitzi72 He needs to talk to her to see if there is a chance. What caused her to lose feelings? Was there a reason that could be addressed or is it just over? These are questions that need answers. My ex-husband killed all the feeelings I had for him slowly over time...

27 Feb 07

Do you need to spend time before getting married ?????...

srockl @srockl (63) • India 25 Feb 07

Well before marrying a person I guess we need to spend an ample amount of time so taht we know each other from inside out.. And then decide.. If we donnot do so will we end in a mess after marrying ???..What do you guys have to...

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Mitzi72 Yes, Do not rush into a relationship. Spend alot of time with the person to learn all you can about your compatability with them. If what you feel is real there is no reason to rush into it, the feelings will last.

27 Feb 07

Guys: Back off the custody battles

Radicalpatriot @Radicalpatriot (665) • United States 23 Feb 07

I have never understood the rationale of battling over "custody" of children. I have raised two kids and in the event of a divorce, my position was always clear: If you, the ex-wife, wants custody, you are welcome and that will go...

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Mitzi72 It is a matter of love and not every mother is more qualified to raise the children Children not disposable and it is wrong for someone to say it's to much trouble or too expensive to fight for your child. Some men and alot of women use them as chess pieces in...

27 Feb 07

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Wife wants a divorce after making bankrupt

vikrantsharma81 @vikrantsharma81 (27) • India 25 Feb 07

My wife wants a divorce from me after having ripped me off of my entire money and making me almost bankrupt. What do you suggest will be best for me in such a situation.

divorce

family

relationship

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Mitzi72 Get a good lawyer and the divorce and make sure it never happens again.

27 Feb 07

How to stop him from trying to run your life?

mystic_0318 @mystic_0318 (937) • United States 25 Feb 07

My husband and I have been married 12yrs and it's been a bad 12yrs. He has beat me, degrade me, he is a acholic/drug addict. He has been in jail most of our marriage from the drinking and drugs and assult. We are seperated now and...

controling

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Mitzi72 First off get a restraining order/Order of protection to keep him from contacting you in the future and Second, file for divorce or if your state requires it first make sure you have filed a Legal Seperation and then Divorce. He is back in jail so do it now...

27 Feb 07

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how often should u say i love u to each other?

rb_baguio @rb_baguio (288) • Philippines 27 Feb 07

is saying i love you every minute u r together do ur relationship any good?

love

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Mitzi72 I feel you should say it when you feel it. If it is being said out of habit or just because you think you should it loses it's meaning. Showing love is more importanat that just the words.

27 Feb 07

Is it right to stay in amrraige that is unhappy just for the kids?

SheraPop @SheraPop (84) 27 Feb 07

I want out of my marriage... I took my vows seriously and promised to stay for better or worse to the man I married... but he has changed and if I were stood in front of this man at the alter I would laugh and say No Way!!! We...

relationships

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Mitzi72 No it is not right for you or your children. As you said you married the man at the altar and if he is no longer that man you need to get out. Your children do not need to see that side to where they think that is what marriage is about. Think of it this way,...

27 Feb 07

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People that make you ashamed to be {insert religion here}

Leca @lecanis (16647) • Murfreesboro, Tennessee 27 Feb 07

Are there people within your religion that make you ashamed? What is it about them that bothers you, and how do you deal with it? For example, I'm pagan. I've known some pagans that are well-read, knowledgeable about their own...

ashamed

bigmouths

religion

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Mitzi72 I have a brother who is a Hare Krishna. I was raised in a Baptist School/Church where my Father was a deacon and also attended a (Pentacostal) Assembly of God Church/School. I do not claim any religion because to me my relationship is with God not the close...

27 Feb 07

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I need Motivation to exersice

Michele21 @Michele21 (3093) • United States 27 Feb 07

I know I should exersice every day but it is so much easier to sit on the couch and be lazy =) I want to be in better shape and get rid of my tummy. Please help...if you have any good tips, ideas, motivation, words or wosdom I...

health

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Mitzi72 Find an exercise buddy, I am the same way I need someone to talk to and exercise with to keep my mind on it

27 Feb 07

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My younger brother has 3 girlfriends- should I interfere in his lovelife?

Rexy_leigh @Rexy_leigh (1189) • Philippines 27 Feb 07

My younger who is now is now in sophomore college is living with me here in the city, since our parents are there in the province. I do try to talk to him every now and then to see if he's doing fine with his studies and life in...

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Mitzi72 Your brother is still young and still in school. It is better that he have several girls he goes out with (as long as he is careful) than to rush into a serious relationship. I don't see a problem with you talking to him about his life and all he is doing, but...

27 Feb 07

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