Stelmaria

@Stelmaria (12)

United States • Age 45

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do you think santa cops idea would work?

spoiled311 @spoiled311 (5500) • Philippines 2 Dec 08

The members of the Philippine Police Force of the National Capital Region (NCR) have devised a way to thwart criminality in very crowded places this Christmas. Although the season brings merriment, it also brings out all sorts...

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Stelmaria The members of the Philippine Police Force of the National Capital Region (NCR) have devised a way to thwart criminality in very crowded places this Christmas. Although the season brings merriment, it also brings out all sorts of criminals, including the...

2 Dec 08

Help, my marriage is fallling apart!!!!

Lydia1901 @Lydia1901 (16351) • United States 9 Feb 07

On Saturday, my husband told me that he has this emotional connection with this girl he met in class. He claimes that he had this same connection with other two women before. But, one of them didn't want anything to do with him...

marriage

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Stelmaria But there is a difference between being unsure if you want to be with a man you loved with all your heart from your past and were separated from by circumstance and not by choice- you had unresolved feelings you needed to work through, and although you are...

22 Feb 07

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What Is Something You WON'T Tolerate In a Relationship?

miraclefreebies @miraclefreebies (3043) • United States 2 Dec 08

I am human and was born on earth, so I should know that there's no such thing as THE perfect relationship, but there are lines that should never be crossed. I can get along with anybody, be the greatest friend, the best wife,...

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Stelmaria I am human and was born on earth, so I should know that there's no such thing as THE perfect relationship, but there are lines that should never be crossed. I can get along with anybody, be the greatest friend, the best wife, the best person etc., but one...

2 Dec 08

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Should I try for a third?

marief2rnurse @marief2rnurse (2704) • United States 22 Feb 07

I've had 2 live in relationships that failed. One was with an irresponsible guy who started to cheat on me so I ended it. The second one was with a guy who was 40 and could not commit. I have 3 kids and I am very happy with them...

relationships

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Stelmaria I think there is a difference between giving up on men and giving up on live in relationships. As a mother, I would not have a man live with me until we were married. Keeping separate residences is important- not just to make sure you don't lose your own...

22 Feb 07

at what age would u prefer to get married???

dihearted @dihearted (2688) • India 5 Jan 07

marriage the most important discussion in mans life... so what do u think at whats the ryt age for getting married???? or at what age did u get married do u think that was the ryt decission?????

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Stelmaria I think it depends on the person. Everyone matures at different rates, and if you aren't mature enough to care for others more than you care for yourself, a marriage won't work. I've been married twice, I got married at 19, and I was divorced at 22 and...

30 Jan 07

Do you feed your kids food you won't eat yourself?

rachelcaron @rachelcaron (1679) • United States 29 Jan 07

Do give your kids food that you, yourself wouldn't eat? I do because I know he needs healthy foods. I don't really like tomatoes, but I will feed him tomatoes. There are also certain vegetable combinations that don't sound...

parenting

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Stelmaria I agree with you about Chef Boy R dee! That stuff is nasty, but my son loves it. Personally, I try to eat vegetarian as much as I can (notice I say eat vegetarian, not AM a vegetarian, lol. I do eat chicken still). In my situation though, my husband...

30 Jan 07

children sharing rooms

wmaharper @wmaharper (2316) • United States 29 Jan 07

I have a four month old and a two year old (both boys), the four month old currently sleeps in the play room in his bassinet at night, but sleeps in his crib in the boy's room during his naptime. We would like the boys to share a...

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Stelmaria I have a 5 year old daughter (almost 6, she keeps reminding me) and a 4 year old son. My ex-husband kidnapped my daughter when she was 3 years old, and ended up with full custody (long story, believe ME). But when I have her for visitation, they share a room...

30 Jan 07

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Dogs

scorpiobites @scorpiobites (298) 11 Jun 08

Veterinarians have found that adding one teaspoon to quart of drinking water helps keep your pet free of fleas and ticks.It's also effective ear rinse to keep it clean,just dip cotton swabs and gently clean inside the ear.

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Stelmaria Veterinarians have found that adding one teaspoon to quart of drinking water helps keep your pet free of fleas and ticks.It's also effective ear rinse to keep it clean,just dip cotton swabs and gently clean inside the ear.

11 Jun 08

Would you Go into the Army? Why wouldn't or would you join?

kevkentis @kevkentis (590) • Jamaica 29 Jan 07

I know i wouldn't. Why should i join the army dont tell me about serving my country, dont tell me that, God made you to live and serve him not to serve the land or the country, or better yet he said thou shalt not kill am i...

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Stelmaria My husband is in the Army. He joined almost 3 years ago, for a number of reasons. 1) We needed the stability and security that the army could give us. The pay may not be a lot, but it's money every 1st and 15th that you can bank on. And while he's in...

30 Jan 07

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