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ihsanul_aniq @ihsanul_aniq (1118) • Malaysia 1 Mar 07

Today is the fourth day since my soul mate start working. Actually i'm happy for her cause getting good jobs. But what make feel so upset is, she have little time to spend with me and sometime not at all. Old days, we at least sms...

relationships

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abhisree by the time i read all responses i realized there was no scope of advise so here is just a word of thanks to all of you because i was myself going through the same turmoil and reading through this discussion has made me think differently..thank you once...

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Giggles88 @Giggles88 (542) • United States 1 Mar 07

It just seems to be getting really old. There are no discussions that are interesting to me and the ones that are have already been done. It's just a waste of time for me now sitting here trying so hard to find a discussion worth...

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abhisree in a way i have started feeling the same.in fact nowadays i do not even log in here just because almost all discussions are utter wastage of time and as you said some which are good have already been answered.i have myself become very bored and i wonder why we...

2 Mar 07

coffeechat @coffeechat (1961) • New Zealand 29 Jan 07

In general, euthanasia is an act of killing painlessly - MERCY KILLING. If your loved one is in a hospital bed, brain dead with no hope to live except for the machines that keeps him/her alive, would you, as an immediate family...

euthanasia for terminal sickness

mercy killing

pulling the plug

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abhisree i know its very painful and unimaginable for what a person goes through when a loved one is on deathbed with no hope of surviving.my grandma suffered from cancer and by the time it was diagnosed she had only a few days to live. and once my grandpa learnt it,...

30 Jan 07

CatEyes @CatEyes (2448) • United States 29 Jan 07

Do you write your grocery list or do you just wing it? If you do write you own list, do you actualy stick to it and save money or would you save money if you had not written it in the first place? I have to say I like to write...

grocery shopping

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abhisree well i have to write my grocery list to remember it and not for budgeting.if i ever go without a list in my hand i remain clueless about what i wanted to buy and which brand or what quantity i wanted:)

30 Jan 07

abhisree @abhisree (520) • India 28 Jan 07

With stress mounting in people's lives, everyone seems to be getting finicky, tensed, irritable, short-tempered, having sleepless nights - all the initial signs of mismanaging oneself which eventually leads to depression,if...

depression

life

stress

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abhisree of course that does not mean that i disagree..just that doesnt work with me. but am sure people might see it working for them!!

30 Jan 07

abhisree @abhisree (520) • India 28 Jan 07

With stress mounting in people's lives, everyone seems to be getting finicky, tensed, irritable, short-tempered, having sleepless nights - all the initial signs of mismanaging oneself which eventually leads to depression,if...

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abhisree well thats a different perspective we have got here. i tried that but it does not work with me.staying low makes me low further.so i have to fight back.thanks for your response:)

30 Jan 07

Jewels @Tetchie (2932) • Australia 29 Jan 07

I am very concerned at how quickly people decide to take medication to solve their sadness issues. People are too quick to diagnose themselves as depressed and without taking other considerations into account, such as good...

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abhisree i dont believe in all that crap about chemical imbalance. if you ask me i personally feel that chemical imbalance is caused because of several other factors combined together like the wrong attitude, inability to cope up with stress; the wrong outlook toward...

30 Jan 07

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lifeis2good @lifeis2good (1183) • United States 29 Jan 07

I am the only one in our house who does the laundry and yes it seems like it's a never ending task. But I was wondering what you do when you find money while doing the laundry whether it's in a pant's pocket or falls out during...

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abhisree well i myself return all the money i ever get while washing the laundry but after reading your discussion completely i think it is not really wrong!! you are using the money for fun together and not alone so i dont see anything wrong in it..

30 Jan 07

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hottie0728 @hottie0728 (1732) • United States 29 Jan 07

Sometimes in our busy lives, we often forget how to appreciate what we have. We often forget how to say thank you on receiving grace, service given by someone or any small favors. How important is saying Thank you? I know I...

appreciate

thank you

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abhisree saying thank you is of course very important as it shows our gratitude for someone or something done by someone. i think in everyday life people do many things for us which go unnoticed. however it is essential to realize what others are sacrificing for us and...

30 Jan 07

abhisree @abhisree (520) • India 28 Jan 07

With stress mounting in people's lives, everyone seems to be getting finicky, tensed, irritable, short-tempered, having sleepless nights - all the initial signs of mismanaging oneself which eventually leads to depression,if...

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abhisree thanks for your response:)

30 Jan 07

abhisree @abhisree (520) • India 28 Jan 07

With stress mounting in people's lives, everyone seems to be getting finicky, tensed, irritable, short-tempered, having sleepless nights - all the initial signs of mismanaging oneself which eventually leads to depression,if...

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abhisree thats good that you can find these things as motivators!!to be honest i myself tend to curl up in a ball when depressed and i share it only with 2 people whom i am very close to. what you do can be said as survival strategy!!

30 Jan 07

abhisree @abhisree (520) • India 28 Jan 07

With stress mounting in people's lives, everyone seems to be getting finicky, tensed, irritable, short-tempered, having sleepless nights - all the initial signs of mismanaging oneself which eventually leads to depression,if...

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abhisree thanks for your response. really techie i find your opinions worth a read:)

30 Jan 07

abhisree @abhisree (520) • India 28 Jan 07

With stress mounting in people's lives, everyone seems to be getting finicky, tensed, irritable, short-tempered, having sleepless nights - all the initial signs of mismanaging oneself which eventually leads to depression,if...

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abhisree its great that you share such a good rapport with your friends. people who are close to us are vital in fighting against depression. my mum has been in depression for the past 20 years and yet she is not out of it. she had a traumatic experience after which...

30 Jan 07

abhisree @abhisree (520) • India 28 Jan 07

With stress mounting in people's lives, everyone seems to be getting finicky, tensed, irritable, short-tempered, having sleepless nights - all the initial signs of mismanaging oneself which eventually leads to depression,if...

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abhisree how very correct you are.my doc prescribed me anti-depressants too and i opted for it along with exercise and yoga which worked wonders.also as you said i took out time to care for myself-i gave myself long baths, massages, music, and anything that i liked....

30 Jan 07

abhisree @abhisree (520) • India 28 Jan 07

With stress mounting in people's lives, everyone seems to be getting finicky, tensed, irritable, short-tempered, having sleepless nights - all the initial signs of mismanaging oneself which eventually leads to depression,if...

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abhisree thats quite true for most of us. we all feel angry when depresses and try to stay alone.thats what even i did until i came to know that it increases depression and loneliness rather than reducing it!!thanks for your comment but you have not suggested a way of...

30 Jan 07

epenner @epenner (162) • United States 28 Jan 07

The state of California has proposed to ban spanking. Anyone caught spanking their child will risk facing fines and even jail time. Do you think this is right? Or is this just another way for the government to take away...

children

discipline

spanking

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abhisree spanking is a way of telling your child that u disapprove of something. is it necessary to be violent to get your message across? children learn very fast. if they get spanking from parents they might themselves get into physical fights. instead children can...

29 Jan 07

Backpack30 @Backpack30 (924) • United States 27 Nov 06

I would want to know who they were, but I probably wouldn't want to form a relationship with them. I'd consider the people who raised me my parents, not them.

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abhisree i dont think i would like to know.parents who brought me up and who taught me whatever i know are more important to me than parents who are responsible for bringing me to this world.

28 Jan 07

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