adinata

@adinata (106)

Indonesia • Age 35

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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When you are in trouble.

think_twice @think_twice (553) • India 29 Oct 11

Sometimes when I am in trouble, I feel very helpless and don't know what to do. The only way that left to my hand is to pray & pray to Almighty. Only that gives me relief and sometimes strength. But really those situations...

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adinata when i got some troubles in my life make me zonk andd don't know what to do too. when i'm in trouble everything gonna seems so blue and make me wanna cry and shoutin' out loud. Many people do some stupid things when they're in trouble. some of them just abuse...

29 Oct 11

Would you marry someone who is attractive but lacking in intelligence?

Awinds @Awinds (2468) • United States 2 Aug 11

Let us say there is a girl or a guy you find extremely attractive - this person is a ten on your scale. You have been dating them for awhile and you know that their light bulb is not the brightest. They are the kind of person who...

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adinata Beauty appearance isn't the most important thing in my opinion for a long term relationship. because for me, the beauty girl only great to admire. Beauty and attractive appearance but didn't supported by beauty brain and awesome mind set are totally failed to...

4 Aug 11

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what do u feel after coming back here after a long time??

vinay049 @vinay049 (1878) • India 4 Aug 11

For me,this has happened many times.i left mylot for studies and then come back after a long time.but whenever i do this,i have noticed that my friends here have also left it and i am not able to get any response from new guys and...

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adinata Hahaha this is my return to mylot after the long long journey out. the only thing that i remember before i left mylot that i have almost $1 but now i only get nothing on my earnings point. yesterday i left mylot because i felt a little bored and busy with my...

4 Aug 11

Do You Look Older or Younger For Your Age?

cutelilbastart @hexeduser22 (7418) • Philippines 25 Oct 09

Nowadays anti aging creams are a hit in the market. They are somewhat expensive but still people are buying it. If it really works I really can't tell because I haven't had the chance to use one. We all age and that's fact,...

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adinata My friends said that my face look older than my age. At the first day on college when they firstly met with me they think that i am their senior. Well, sometimes it make me hurt. I fear become old and then someone come and told me that i look older make me...

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What is the best way to start the day

kumbarn14 @kumbarn14 (735) • Pakistan 25 Oct 09

My feeling is to close your eyes and smile to yourself and it brings lightness to your heart and then your open your eyes yet with the smile on. Please do experiment this and let me have your response.May God bless you. Amen.

start day smile heart

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adinata The best way to start the day is pray to our lovely God hope for His bless to follow us where ever we go. Ask for his protect to guard us from the devil's plan that could damaged our soul. Maybe we should wake up early got stretching and then read the bible....

26 Oct 09

do you think your dream can foretell something in the future?

sunxiaoyang010 @sunxiaoyang010 (169) • China 25 Oct 09

i had a terrible dream this afternoon in which i lose two of my tooth.but what is more terrible is that my roomate told me that the dream mean my parents will be ill .do you believe a dream can foretell something?

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adinata I don't know is it true or just a myth but sometimes i looking for the meaning of my dream every time i had a nightmare. It make me want to find out more. Sometimes i believe and scare with the meaning of my dream but until this second nothing happen to me....

26 Oct 09

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Should I forgive my friends?

soleya @soleya (1100) • Latvia 25 Oct 09

Ok, I just found out that my friends went on a trip all together and didn't even asked me if I want to come with them. I got very upset and now don't know what to do. I guess my friends don't care about me at all if they acted...

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adinata Soleya, forgive your friends. I think it just a little misunderstanding. Trust me, everything is gonna be alright soon. Never follow your temporary emotion. Better you ask them the reason why they leave you alone. I think it will be more wisely if you solve...

26 Oct 09

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My friend got HIV, what should I do?

Fulltank @Fulltank (2882) • Philippines 25 Oct 09

Its not a common question to ask nowadays, but its my first time of having a friend actually diagnosed with HIV. At first most of his friends felt sympathizes for him. But after several months, most of his friends had disappeared....

aids

friendship

hiv

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adinata Keep contact with your friend and never leave him alone. Imagine if you in his position and all your lovely people leave you and don't want to make a friendship with you. It is very sad, right? You should be always be his best friend. Keep supporting him and...

26 Oct 09

what do you think about Monday. Is it a good day or bad one?

sheenshaukat @sheenshaukat (2617) • Pakistan 25 Oct 09

It is Monday morning and I am taking start the new discussion here on mylot.com. I feel that Monday morning is good to take start of some work. I am feeling fresh after the relaxing day of week end. Do you agree with me that...

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adinata Oh my God, i hate Monday so much. Because Monday means i should go out from my comfort zone after the long weekend and go to campus and face my killer lecturer hear his boring lesson, and then go home with a lot of take home test and then i should finish it...

26 Oct 09

What Do you want for Christmas?

Lcrkar05 @Lcrkar05 (344) • United States 25 Oct 09

I want to get some video games, dollhouse season 1, nice set of pans and pots, and a few clothes. What would you like for Christmas?

christmas

holiday

season

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adinata I want many new cloth for my Christmas. A high-end laptop, new cellphone, a tiramisu cake, much pocket money. But above of that all i want God give me the new life. Maybe along my life i had made many fault and sins and this all need to wash up. And i think...

26 Oct 09

why do people sometimes lie?

flagella08 @flagella08 (5065) • Philippines 25 Oct 09

Everybody lies. It may only be “white” lies, but everyone tells lies or “omits the truth” sometimes. that's my main problem too. i can't air what's inside me to anyone. im very sensitive to the feelings of other people that's why...

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adinata Hahaha... it was an interesting question. Why do people lie? The answer is because sometimes the truth just to many hurt other hearts feeling. There's one moment when we have the truth in our hand but in the other hand we know if tell the truth to others it...

26 Oct 09

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What is your definition about success in life?

riani2009 @riani2009 (581) • Indonesia 25 Oct 09

Do you think you are suceessful person right now? What is your definition about success?

definition

success

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adinata I think i'm not yet a successful man right now but i'll keep trying to be successful man oneday. The definition of success is very relative, but for me success means you got what you want you take all chance that you found and life long together with the loved...

26 Oct 09

How Do You Handle Frustration..

amaine @amaine (2027) • Philippines 18 Oct 09

I have seen this friend of mine today, and it seems like she is very frustrated.. You see, she handles different problems and along with those problems, there are still problems associated with it.. Sounds complicated? Haha,...

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adinata I think there is too many things and problems in this world to be solve. So i decided to obey all unimportant things because i think it only make me tired and spend your energy. So i think, better just enjoy this life with all the problem in it. Don't be...

18 Oct 09

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How to get rid of pimples?

daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 7 Oct 09

I struggle with the problem of pimples. I have used a face cream to get rid of them, but it doesn't give a good result. Somebody told me to avoid oil. So, I stopped having chips. It is really sad for me not to have potato chips,...

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adinata You have to keep cleaning the face. Do not be lazy to wash the face after the move or before bed. Acne usually appears when the skin pores out the sweat and the dirt from the dust hampered. So basically kept guard hygiene. I also had acne but after diligent...

8 Oct 09

end of the world??

eliezl @eliezl (610) • Philippines 6 Oct 09

so many bad things happening lately...the global warming is one of the sign aside from the never ending chaos and war in some countries...storms, earthquakes have claimed the life of many people...crimes are increasing...the list...

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adinata Yes. Lately it's a lot of disasters in the world. And many forecasters are saying the end is near. But i think, sooner or later, the end will come, too. The only thing that we should do is to prepare yourself to ready to face this all. Think of this as a test...

8 Oct 09

How many good opposite gender friends do you have?

zhyair @zhyair (89) • China 5 Oct 09

They maybe your classmates, colleagues, friends grew up with you and so on. I have 2 or 3 ones, maybe less, I'm not sure since I don't how to treat someone as good opposite gender friends, which is really ambiguous. What do you...

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adinata I have many good opposite gender friends. I think life will be bland if we only friends with a similar gender. Sometimes we need something new in our life. If we talk with the opposite gender we would found many new things to share. furthermore, a different...

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Do you mind having some friends who are much younger or older than you?

hiddenwing @hiddenwing (3719) • China 6 Oct 09

What do friends do? When you are sad, they call, they're sympathetic, they ask about the pain you are going through, and then they listen! When you are happy, they can tell by the look on your face you've got something good....

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adinata I think have a younger or older friend was not a problem. During you feel comfortable with them. Both of them have their respective advantages. When you interact with the older one, maybe we could learn more experience from them, we could share or ask their...

8 Oct 09

What is your greatest fear when you get older?

careguarden @careguarden (5670) • Philippines 5 Oct 09

We don't like to get older but its' inevitable, well all go through that stage whether we like it or not. We do have some fear when we think about those time to come. My greatest fear would be when I can no longer do the right...

fear

get older

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adinata I am afraid when my old age can not do fun things that I often do when i was a youth like to go camping hiking into the countryside. Sometimes I also think the old me would be susceptible to disease and eventually the family trouble. Things like this are often...

6 Oct 09

Favourite month of the year

aweins @aweins (4199) • India 5 Oct 09

we have twelve months in a year . which month is your fav one and why is it your fav. ? you like the season, or is it the month you got married and born or some very special thing happened to you ? what is the reason behind liking...

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adinata I really like the month of December because I celebrate Christmas. A pleasant Christmas atmosphere, visit distant relatives and Christmas cuisine is of course tempting to be the main reason for Christmas after all, December is the last month of the year so...

6 Oct 09