aflyingbutterfly87

@aflyingbutterfly87 (16)

China • Age 39

Joined myLot 20 years ago

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Death 4 yrs ago today

Ravenladyj @Ravenladyj (22902) • United States 26 Sep 07

the father of my kids commited suicide...I have been thinking about it a fair amount lately and I can't believe its been that long :-/ Sometimes it seems like it was only a yr ago ya know....but its been 4 yrs....Hopefully (though...

death

loss of loved one

suicide

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aflyingbutterfly87 I think it's very hard for everyone who lost one he/she loved,but seems everything is there,all we can do for the rest of us is keep things going, coz life goes on .yes ,we may felt sorry,sad ,blue,but the more important thing is the present life and the...

26 Sep 07

38 Year old Female with 25 year old male

rhondalee1969 @rhondalee1969 (6) • United States 25 Sep 07

I am currently in a relationship with a younger man, who is 25, he wants to get married, but I am so afraid because I am older, I don't look my age, but my concern is that when I do start to look it is he going to leave me and...

younger men

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aflyingbutterfly87 As the society is developing ,there are more and more people getting married like ur case,nowdays people is getting start to accept the truth, why can't u matter the age so much? I know ur hesitance,life is full of the unpredictable, u can't control everything...

26 Sep 07

In times of giving up,what would you say to yourself to keep you motivated?

grecychunny26 @grecychunny26 (9482) • Philippines 10 Sep 07

Me, i tell myself these lines " I thought you want to resolved this things on your own and now you are giving up. I thought you are a lady now, a lady is strong because she is now grown. Don't be a cry baby , you can't resolve...

lines

when giving up

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aflyingbutterfly87 Never give up is my lines ,but sometimes u really feel so bad that u can't move things on,coz the truth is always much complicated and tricky that u think before, so there must be a period of time u felt very frustrated and disspointed.In times of giving up ,i...

26 Sep 07

Who will bring to your mind first when you are sadness?

cici6880 @cici6880 (656) • China 23 Sep 07

Mom is the first person who I bethink when I feel chagrin or angry.Once I had a wrangle with my roommate and both of us seemed to be strangers for about a week. I feel so upset and uncomfortable further more my examination got a...

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aflyingbutterfly87 I didn't think this question untill these days i occationally figure out everytime when i'm sad the first person i will contact is my friend, the person who have not seen each other for a long time, but i'm sure i can trust him and he can gave me the comfort...

23 Sep 07

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should i blame my dad for leaving us?

jHoEn16 @jHoEn16 (2043) • Australia 21 Sep 07

its been 24 years since my dad left us... until now it was still a big ? for me what really happened and what are the reasons why he left.. all i know is that he left us when i was only 5 months old on my mums tummy.. i...

my parents

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aflyingbutterfly87 Different people have different experience,just because these experience make u differ.I have not a friend like ur experience,so i could not say for sure ur feeling,but i know it's really hard for u to accept this truth.Facing this question, blame or not ,we...

21 Sep 07

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If you could pick a name for yourself what would it be?

brew2x @brew2x (3094) • Philippines 20 Sep 07

Hi everyone! This is just for fun =) I've heard my niece before complaining about her name because it is really short, she said why isn't she named Elizabeth because her classmates mostly have long names. Then I've realized it...

name

people

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aflyingbutterfly87 I still may choose Cathy for my name, coz C is my capital of my family name,and i like Y to end my name when i sign it.It's very simple but i like my name.

21 Sep 07

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Have you ever met people who think they are better then everyone else?

mari123 @mari123 (1861) • China 20 Sep 07

Some peoplee look down on those who are not as perfect as they are. I am beginning to not pay attention to them and I do my best to stay away from people who put others down. I just figure that what comes around goes around....

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look down on

people

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aflyingbutterfly87 I have met such kind of people,i just ignore it and do it on my own way,sometimes i also get hurt.It doesn't matter.

21 Sep 07

a good teacher

aussiedream @aussiedream (272) • China 21 Dec 06

What makes a good teacher? What is ur expectation of teachers? DO u expect them to be omniscient and omnipotent, or as human as you are?

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aflyingbutterfly87 well,i think to be a good teacher should have a lot of knowelge in his speacific areas in which he is teaching,he will also learn with the time,but the most important thing he should have the real care with the students,he know what the students need and...

21 Sep 07

Shilpa come out from Big Brother Show?

wildbynature @wildbynature (623) • India 19 Jan 07

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aflyingbutterfly87 ?????

19 Jan 07

how did you deal with the failure?

aflyingbutterfly87 @aflyingbutterfly87 (16) • China 21 Nov 06

i felt very sad cause i flunked the self-exam.

flunk

where are you come from? We can become friends?

gongleigo @gongleigo (966) • China 12 Nov 06

friend

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aflyingbutterfly87 hello,i am cathy,i am from China,where are you from.i wish we can be friend.

21 Nov 06

Does look really matter??

shar_25 @shar_25 (1339) • India 21 Nov 06

Will looks be the criteria for you to make friends/BF/GF and any kind of relation. Or will it be some other quality?? For me its the personality and the attitude of the person that is more important. Looks come at the end. What...

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aflyingbutterfly87 no,i don't think so.maybe a goodlooking can give others a fice impression,but that's not mean look matters everything.i think the inside is more important than the look.people should understand others by communicating day by day not just the good face.

21 Nov 06

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how do you ease the stress in your life?

aflyingbutterfly87 @aflyingbutterfly87 (16) • China 19 Nov 06

when i felt the pressure on me ,i liked watching the cartoom or a very excellent movie,sometimes i would like to have a chat with my mother,in those way,i will feel much better.what about you?

stress

do you like drinking tea?

aflyingbutterfly87 @aflyingbutterfly87 (16) • China 16 Nov 06

i like it very much,espeacilly the Chinese tea.

tea