ahefty

@ahefty (41)

United States • Age 42

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a few spanks might not an abusive method?

clorissa123 @clorissa123 (4926) • United States 10 Mar 09

Okay, it is wrong to slap or hit your children, which might cause them traumatic experience later on in their life. It is also illegal to do so according to state laws. But some children deserve a few spanks before they understand...

children

spanks

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ahefty I dont have kids, but I think spanking is an ok thing to do. You dont even need to do it hard, its just the action and the child knowing that they did wrong. I hated getting spanked. It never hurt, but I got the message.

10 Mar 09

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Browser Help Please?

webeishere @webeishere (36313) • United States 13 Jan 09

I have used IE for the last 20 years of doing computer work etc. I hear all the talk of various other browsers here. I would like to know about the others as far as your experiences. Which do you use? Why do you feel it is better...

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ahefty I use opera. I haven't had any problem with it and it is very easy and quick to use.

14 Jan 09

What is your favorite thing about the relationship you are in right now?

idowrite72 @idowrite72 (2213) • United States 11 Jan 09

I would have to say that even though I have known this guy for many years, we are now able to talk about more things than we were before. There was a major event in our lives that lead to some problems with us and with some...

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ahefty Everything. I love everything about her. If she was gone, I would even miss when she was mad at me and ignoring me. Because I have faith that our love is real and even though I wear my feelings for her on my sleeve and she has a hard time expressing her...

11 Jan 09

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Why are most women annoyed when the toilet seat is left up ?

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 11 Jan 09

Most women I know are annoyed almost to the point of going ballistic when the toilet seat is left up and I cant seem to understand why. Personally I like when its up I can almost close my eyes and aim .In fact it is most annoying...

up or down toilet seat

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ahefty If we can put it down, they can put it up. Haha

11 Jan 09

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Do you think all Americans should be required to be organ donors?

profit100 @profit100 (12) • United States 11 Jan 09

If everyone in America would become a organ donor, I think more lives would be saved. Think about it, if you could save a life after you die how great would that be. Trust me you want need it. They're 1000's of people who need...

life medical

organ

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ahefty I dont think it should be a requirement. It is our bodies. We should be able to do what we want with them. Although I think everyone choose to. Its a very kind and generous thing to do.

11 Jan 09

What sort of Wedding do you want?

regal_aeros @regal_aeros (2605) • Singapore 6 Jan 09

Would you want to hold your wedding ceremony in the beach? Where your bridesmaids all wear straw skirts like the Hawaiian style? Or Would you like your wedding ceremony to be in a church? Or Would you prefer not to...

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ahefty Im not sure exactly what kind of wedding I want. But to be honest, I really dont think its up to me. I think its mostly up to her. I know that the wedding is more about the bride than it is about me. My fiance and I are planning our wedding right now. Its in...

6 Jan 09

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Your pick to win Superbowl?

jakeb1 @jakeb1 (562) • United States 1 Jan 09

Who do you think will win the Superbowl this year? The favorites to make it to the Superbowl right now are the New York Giants and the Tennessee Titans. It usually never works out this way. This weekend, there will be 4 wildcard...

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ahefty Im gonna say the Steelers and the Eagles will meet up with the Eagles winning. They're on a tear. I know the sexy pick is the Titans and Giants. Well, the Giants are pretty much worthless without Plaxico. I didnt think it would make that much of a impact on...

5 Jan 09

Do you think Barry Bonds should come back?

stinge @stinge (810) • United States 3 Jan 09

Barry Bonds never officialy retired from baseball. It was reported the other day that he just had hip surgery and would like to play ball this upcoming season. Many teams don't wanna deal with the so called media attention that...

barry bonds

baseball

clubs

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ahefty He might be able to hit .260 an thats somewhat sufficient. But he is a liability in the field. The only way that I would feel comfortable with him on my team as a GM would be as a DH. Therefore if he does come back, it should be with an AL team.

5 Jan 09

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Are You a Phone Person?

carolbee @carolbee (16230) • United States 4 Jan 09

Do you like to use either your cell phone or landline phone? I am not a phone person so will avoid making calls as much as possible. I only use my cell if it rings when I am not home and will answer the home phone when it rings. I...

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ahefty I have only a cell phone. I used to love talking on it. But now I dont really like talking. Id much rather text. I dont know why.

5 Jan 09

I think my cousin is still in love with his ex . . .

dorisday1971 @dorisday1971 (5657) • Philippines 5 Jan 09

Yesterday, my cousin (from my father's side) was in our house while his ex girlfriend (who happens to be a cousin from my mother's side) was also in our house for the post birthday celebration of my husband. They saw each other...

relationship

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ahefty Oh wow. What a mess. I cant even imagine. But, Im thinkin if he still has feelings for someone else he probably shouldn't have gotten married

5 Jan 09

being apart

tmariew @tmariew (32) • United States 4 Jan 09

How do people deal with being seperated from the person they love? I don't mean voluntarily I mean when circumstances force it. How do I make sure she knows I am waiting for her and how do I deal with the pain it's causing without...

realationships

seperation

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ahefty You just have to trust that it will work. My now fiance was gone for a month over in Europe this past summer. Not really an eternity, but it was still very hard. I did miss her every single one of those days. But, make sure you do try to keep as much...

5 Jan 09

College Football BCS ARE YOU HAPPY?!

Pitgull @Pitgull (1522) • United States 8 Dec 08

Are you happy about the BCS results? Please share your feelings, and do not hold back. Plenty of teams only lost 1 game... who do you think should have been 1 and 2 ?

bcs

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ahefty I do think that college football needs a playoff. Something like 16 teams. Sure that does mean that th 17th team will grumble about not being put in there, but that would be most likely a 10-2, 9-3 team. That isnt a premier team. But, when it comes to judging...

3 Jan 09

Season 3 Finally Starts January 16 on NBC!!

anniepa @anniepa (27955) • United States 29 Dec 08

Great news! FINALLY Friday Night Lights will be returning to NBC on January 16, which is earlier than I'd previously heard it would come back on. It's been playing on DirectTV since October under a deal reached with the latter and...

lights

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ahefty I really loved the first season of FNL. But I thought the 2nd season made everything work out too much. Landry and Tyra. Come On!

3 Jan 09

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Team owners are mad with the Yankees spending !

stinge @stinge (810) • United States 26 Dec 08

I've been reading so many reports for years now, and especially this year on how much money the Yankees spend on free agents during the off season. I am not a Yankee fan. But tas a sports fan, if a team has the money to spend,...

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ahefty This example is the biggest reason why baseball NEEDS a salary cap. Thats a huge draw to football. Eventually, your team will be a winner. But in baseball, the Yankees will always be up there, the Red Sox, and so on. But teams like the Pirates and the Royals,...

3 Jan 09

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What era do you think is the greatest era of all for music?

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 3 Jan 09

Well firstly I must ask if you think that such an ear exists and if so which era would you say it is? Some think it is the sixties and seventies because music was made with less instruments and music then had a social...

artists

bands

greatest era for music

instruments

michael jackson

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ahefty I think the 50's were the best. It was the start of rock and roll. One could argue that the blues of the 20's, or the swing of the 30's. Or even the country of the late 40's, early 50's were the best. But with rock and roll, it was a mixture of all of those....

3 Jan 09