aillsma

@aillsma (19)

United States • Age 46

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Dealing with difficult students

aillsma @aillsma (19) • United States 25 Jul 07

For all the teachers out there. How do you deal with students who do not want to learn. The ones that only like to disrupt class making it that much harder for those who do want to learn. I have seen different teachers handle...

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Your best/dream vacation.

aillsma @aillsma (19) • United States 25 Jul 07

I was just wondering what were the best vacation experiences people have had (locations, resorts, hotels, etc.) Also what are people's dream vacations?

best vacation spots

dream vacations

vacations

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Children do the cutest things

aillsma @aillsma (19) • United States 25 Jul 07

I know that my daughter is always doing the cutest things, as I am sure many children do. What are some of those things that your children do?? Here is one of mine:) When I am watching a movie, and my daughter wants...

Only child, Is it adviseable?

tbatenga @tbatenga (104) • Philippines 25 Jul 07

I have an only child (as of the moment). She is now 7 years old. I am 27 years old and is still thinking about having another baby. My husband wants to but I am still undecided. My relatives, parents tell me that it's better to...

only child

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aillsma Ah yes the pressure to have another child. I too have only one child, she is 2 1/2 right now. But ever since she was about 1 1/2 people (family, friends, and strangers alike) have been telling me I need to have another child so she has someone to play & grow...

25 Jul 07

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Wife as a cheater

jhoannapena @jhoannapena (342) • Philippines 23 Jul 07

Before I start previously I had questioned the faithfulness of men to their wives. Now I would like to tackle the motives of wives who cheat on their husbands. Why would a woman cheat on her husband if he is a good provider,...

wife cheater

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aillsma I agree 100% with both of you, however, not everyone thinks this way. In my eyes I never try to make excuses for other's mistakes, but I do try to understand the reasons they arrived at these mistakes. I believe that everyone comes to regret their mistakes,...

24 Jul 07

Wife as a cheater

jhoannapena @jhoannapena (342) • Philippines 23 Jul 07

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aillsma There are many different reasons for why people cheat. But I would say overall here are some reasons why a woman might cheat and leave her family. 1) (the worst one) Simply does not care about the family / husband. Is a selfish person who is looking for...

23 Jul 07

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Deathly Hallows Still Leaves Unanswered Questions ** Warning Spoilers**

aillsma @aillsma (19) • United States 23 Jul 07

I am sad to see Harry Potter End, but I first must say that The Deathly Hallows is the best of them all in my opinion. However it still left me with unanswered questions, Please share yours. Here are some of mine... What...

deathly hallows

harry potter

questions

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Deathl Hallows. Your opinion!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

aswinpai @aswinpai (186) • India 21 Jul 07

for those who have read the book.what do you think about Harry potter and the deathly hallows. how did you feel wwhile and after reading the book? what are your opinions of the book? did you like it? are you satisfied with the...

book

deathly hallows

harry potter

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aillsma I loved it!!!!!!!! It was the best book ever. I cried, I laughed, it really came with a lot of emotion. However I feel very empty that it is over, and still so many quetions that have not been answered. I won't give any spoilers, but I was searching the end of...

23 Jul 07

Spoil it for Everyone - Harry Potter Revealed.

Eskimo @Eskimo (2315) 19 Jul 07

Two days before Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows is due to be published, it is already for sale on E-bay. Some stores in the U.S. have sent out copies early by mistake (or so they say!!). It is reported that Deepdiscount.com...

books

deathly hallows jkrowling

harry potter

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aillsma It is actually true that they sent some copies out earlier. I received my copy yesterday, but Scholastic contacted me and made a deal in which I agree not to open the book until Sat. at 12:01. I am true to my word, so I have not opened the book, but it is pure...

20 Jul 07

What would you do?

Rheanun @Rheanun (18) • United States 19 Jul 07

If you had a friend and that friend did something that you basically begged her not to do? This is about an abusive relationship that a friend of mine is in. When she got involved she was still married to another man and she ended...

abuse

friend

relationships

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aillsma First, I have to say that this is common behavior for the victim in an abusive relationship. Getting out is very hard and in the abusers are often very manipulating. Second, there is one big weapon you have against this man. Her daughter. The best chance...

19 Jul 07

My 5 year old son was TOUCHED!!! And I'm DEVASTATED!!

April @cloud_kicker_32 (4635) • United States 17 Jul 07

Well folks..I am having so many emotions run threw my body i want to scream..hurt someone..cry...Today a few hours ago I found out that my son was touched and molested by a 12 year old boy!!! And this did it to his 5 year old...

sexual abuse

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aillsma I see that most people have told you to go to the police which is a good idea. I am sure it is hard for you to consider doing this to a friend, but you need to do what is best for all those involved. Unfortunately, the mother can not to really deal with what...

19 Jul 07

what would u do if you got cheated on and then found out your pregnant?

livingforthelord @livingforthelord (63) • United States 17 Apr 07

my cousin just found out that her boyfriend cheated on her. they have a one year old boy together. and she was telling me that she wanted to find a place of her own and move out of the house they share. the next day i went over to...

probelms relationship

relationship problems

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aillsma Your cousin needs to ask her self a few questions. First, does she have support outside of her bf and can she count on that support. If so, then she needs to recognize that she does not need the bf to make it through this pregnancy and then she can address...

19 Jul 07

A Bittersweet End

aillsma @aillsma (19) • United States 19 Jul 07

As I sit waiting for the final harry potter book to arrive, I find myself both excited with anticipation, and yet dreading the end. Since I first picked up the Sorcerer's Stone, similar to a child's anticipation the night...

harry potter deathly hallows

harry potter fan

harry potters 7th book

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Wouldn't you love to see Neville kill Bellatrix?

Carmenn @Carmenn (23) • United States 14 Jul 07

Revenge is sweet. Wouldn't you agree?

harry potter series

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aillsma Yes Please!!!!!! I think that Neville's character has been working up to that point. Getting stronger and stronger every book. To avenge his parents would be his golden moment!

19 Jul 07

What do you think about the latest movie "Order of the Phoenix"?

hsmom2boys @hsmom2boys (134) • United States 16 Jul 07

The more I think about the movie, the more I realize that it seemed like a cliff notes version of the book. So much was left out that at the time didn't seem important, but I've started rereading the book (I'm preparing for the...

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aillsma I agree 100%. The movie cut out a lot of important details that in my eyes made it very frustrating to watch. My husband who has not read the books, but hears parts of the story from me, was also disappointed in the movie. I enjoyed it to a point, but the fact...

19 Jul 07

Why does Voldemort need the prophecy?

snookumsnort @snookumsnort (313) • Philippines 18 Jul 07

I just watched the movie Order of the Phoenix. I was just wondering why Voldemort needs the prophecy. It was mentioned that he didn't have something when he first tried to kill Harry so he is looking for that something now that he...

harry potter

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aillsma It is needed because he did not know all of the prophecy in the past, acted on the little information he had, and in turn created a strong enemy is Harry. They say that knowledge is power, and in this case Voldemort lacked the power of knowing the whole story....

19 Jul 07