akmalia89

@akmalia89 (41)

Indonesia • Age 36

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Who complains more /man or woman?

kalav56 @kalav56 (11464) • India 20 Mar 13

A discussion today got me thinking. Be it in relationships or anything else, we hear a lot of nit-picking among women when compared to men. One discussion about mother-in-law and the question that people do not talk so much about...

relationship troubles

women attaching importance to trivia

women tend to omplain more

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akmalia89 man is from mars and women from venus. have you heard this book tittle? man is tend talk their oppinion rationally and women is like to talk what they feel. that why i think the women does have a lot to complain.

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How can I improve my Emotional Intelligence?

habibti320 @habibti320 (925) • United States 18 Nov 12

Hello Mylotters! There are many emotional qualities that I like about myself, such as my resilience and independence. However, when it comes to relationships, I feel that I hit a certain plateau emotionally. I'd like to learn...

emotional intelligence

inner strength

resilience

vulnerability

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akmalia89 i think you can read as much as you will. but emotional is something that develop by time. not some like instant noodle that can be made for 5 minute. in need process. i think you should improve your emotional by start with small issue first then gradually...

19 Nov 12

fun by the waterfalls

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90717) • Philippines 18 Nov 12

Yesterday, after most of the guests were gone in my boss’ patriarchal house where we attended the fiesta, we decided to go to the waterfalls’ place that my boss is endorsing. Together with my boss, her son and her boyfriend and...

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akmalia89 a had twice on waterfall like you told us. it very fun. and i want to repeat again sometime. especially when the waterfall is from hot water/sulfur spring. my body fell great after bathing there. but don't over your self by sitting there for over 1 hour. your...

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Have you ever met this situation?

slim116 @slim116 (52) • China 18 Nov 12

I have a friend,and he have a girl friend.And they love each other so much. The boy is a engineer,and the girl is a college student. They have been in love for three years.And they originally intended to girl after graduation...

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akmalia89 yeah. this maybe sound mean for everyone. but i think long distance relationship is very hard to maintain. not because the distance. but also sometime we realize in the process that our relationship is not strong enough. my suggestion is they should be...

18 Nov 12

how many of your discussions here have died?

Cutie18f @Cutie18f (9546) • Philippines 17 Nov 12

I mean discussions you have submitted but which did not get any response. I have quite a number now, in fact I have lost count of them. Or have all your discussions been responded to? If not, what do you think accounts for the...

death of discussions

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akmalia89 yeah i started discussions while ago. sometime discuss have died cause their no much mylot member like it. or just don't ring the bell. or we were not reply the comment.

18 Nov 12

How to use the myLot search as your default search engine

Milamber52 @Milamber52 (115) • Belgium 25 Jan 11

Hi myLotters! I had some problems figuring this out but I've searched until I found it. I wanted to spare you some time and give you a great way to earn a little bit more (: In Chrome: - Right-click on your address bar -...

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akmalia89 thanks i will try it now

18 Nov 12

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Addicted To Working Online

JessyBlue @JessyBlue (536) • United States 11 Jun 12

I don't really have a question, just some random rambling that others might relate to?! Today so far I have been working online for about seven hours, and still going. Right now I am viewing a video for money (but haha I'm not...

online work

up late

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akmalia89 yeah im working online too. but i do as part time. when i had time after home from my offline work. i do some online. but some how i realize. i don't get money fast enough to get pay. can you help me here?? what should i do? where do i can get extra money for...

18 Nov 12

Are you an ape?

Mavic123456 @Mavic123456 (21891) • Thailand 18 Nov 12

Science says, "Million of years ago, humans and apes came from apelike ancestors. Their theory: That man was a combined environmental and genetic factors that produced the variety of etnicities"....

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akmalia89 yes we do have origins. i wont say that my ancestor is ape. i don't really like the idea that human are from ape. when they say that human is from ape. then why there is ape till now?? if all human race ancestor is ape. then don't you think all the ape will...

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Why are so many people addict in investment sites?

cobalt20 @cobalt20 (1318) • Philippines 17 Nov 12

I am not really an addict in investment sites. I have already experience it such as High Yield Internet Programs or HYIP. They are scammers like Megalido, Levelinvest and others. Profitclicking seems good but I do not think it...

investment make extra money

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akmalia89 i like quick money too. but i read at many website and blog. and learn that there is no easy and quick way to make money online. and the blog said that we must be careful with any invest site that offer to much money. and when they said unrealistic, i'm sure...

18 Nov 12

I forgive but never trust them again

hlfbldmom @hlfbldmom (743) • Philippines 15 Nov 12

I thought I could trust her. Then I told her what she promised she wouldn't tell. And he told someone my biggest secret. I'll always forgive someone no matter what she/he have said and done to me. But, I will never be able to...

friends

life

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akmalia89 yeah. i'm totaly agree with you. trusting someone is difficult one. especially when that person betray you once. but, there is lesson that we can learn that we cannot give our secret to someone else even to our close friend. may be we can trust them, but...

16 Nov 12

i should avoid taking a nap

hotsummer @hotsummer (13882) • Philippines 14 Nov 12

i don't feel good anymore every time i wake from taking a nap. because i think i had enough sleep already. feels like my head is out of blood because of lying down too often. i was not planning to take a nap but when i just sit on...

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akmalia89 yes, i guest nap is good for us. but i don't want to scare you. if you feel like always fell sleepy when you are sit and doing nothing/boredom. you should consider there is health issue in you. you may get sleepy because lack of exercise/sport.

15 Nov 12

My pay increase starts today

courtknee525 @courtknee525 (3742) • United States 12 Nov 12

I'm really excited because today is the first day that my hourly rate will be increased. When I went into work on Saturday I sat with the manager and signed a paper for the pay change that came along with the new position I was...

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akmalia89 i' glad you are happy with your new payment. i'm glad to hear that from you. make your best day in your work place

15 Nov 12

not looking so hot after baby :(

corkscrew07 @corkscrew07 (7) • United States 13 Nov 12

I just had a baby about a year ago and i figured that i would have lost all the weight by now but i just cant seem to lose those last 15 pounds and tummy is to jiggly i used to weigh 114 before i got prego and not i weigh around...

mom

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akmalia89 oh girl. poor you. but don't sad. we all have been experience it. for me, at first it worry me. but my husband calm down me. He said that he still think that i'm still beautiful as always. i know deep down that my husband want to get kid badly. so he doesn't...

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Eating Disorder of pregnant women...

Magz1989 @Magz1989 (271) • Philippines 13 Nov 12

Yesterday, i asked my brother to climb up the ripe papaya in our backyard then when he open it i just taste a bit and i don't like it. Then, I made him buy avocado and then when i taste it, though i want it but i don't like it. I...

sour taste buds

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akmalia89 yeah, i've been like that. it very normal. when my pregnancy is 3 month i get sick. i want to trow up when i see a food around me. but when my pregnancy is 6 month. i like to eat. i want to try many food and fruit that i can see around me. but like you, i also...

13 Nov 12

A way to save money in a unique sense

SomeCowgirl @SomeCowgirl (32189) • United States 24 Mar 12

I was responding to a discussion here that actually sparked this one. There are ways to save money that some have utilized and it's quite unique. I USED to have a friend to whom's bf would take his money and cycle it. That is to...

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akmalia89 i think you should go to a bank. and save there. instead trusting to someone else. it saver.

24 Mar 12

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First Day of Vacation...

louienavalta @louienavalta (12) • Philippines 24 Mar 12

So today is my first day of summer vacation. I got back here in my hometown last night and was really tired. So i slept in a little during the morning and woke up by lunch time. I was really looking forward to the summer vacation,...

life student

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akmalia89 yes i have a tips first all, you should relax. it a vacation everyone is ok to relax and enjoy the moment. and if we want to productive in aur vacation. we must do planning. plan how many hour you spend to work and how many time you spend to relax in 24 hour...

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Would you do this in public?

bluemoonpavilion @bluemoonpavilion (4658) • Singapore 21 Mar 12

I know there is no rule against doing this but we should observe some social etiquette right? Just the other day I boarded a crowded bus, and very luckily got a seat. Beside me, the guy moved a bit and gave me a little more...

social etiquette

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akmalia89 ill just ignore them. because i don't know them. and i think i will not see them any more.

22 Mar 12

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