alfieboy

@alfieboy (14)

Ireland • Age 50

Joined myLot 18 years ago

All Activity

alfieboy's Activity

Does he deserve forgiveness? Oh come on!

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 5 Jan 07

My friend went overseas to work. He remained faithful to his wife for the first 2 years, came home and went back again for another job contract, this time a little longer. After 3 yrs. he had a relationship with a woman, his point...

family

forgiveness

marriage

1 response

alfieboy I would say to your friend to leave him. I had been going out with a girl for only a few weeks and over christmas got very drunk and kissed another girl in front of her. I then told her I wouldn't ask her to take me back, and besides a couple of texts...

5 Jan 07

•

1 comment

Should the wearing of seatbelts be legislated and why?

crazynurse @crazynurse (7482) • United States 5 Jan 07

Beginning Jan 1 in my hometown, the wearing of seatbelts is mandatory. Here-to-fore, it was mandatory, but an officer could not stop/ticket a driver for not wearing the belt as a primary offense....only a secondary offense for...

individual rights

law

seatbelts

3 responses •

1 person

alfieboy Since the mid 80's it's been illegal not to wear a seat belt in the UK. I now live in Ireland and we can get penalty points on our license and a fine for not wearing a seat belt. Funnily enough I always wear one when driving or sat in the front seat, but...

5 Jan 07

•

1 comment

•

1 person

My Children's Posts on Facebook Made Me Cry

Cristy @magallon (19279) • Philippines 19 Jun 16

When I opened my Facebook account this morning, I saw my daughters' and my son's posts about their father. They posted a picture of their father and wrote something for Father"s Day. As I was reading their posts, I just noticed...

5 responses •

3 people

alfieboy When I opened my Facebook account this morning, I saw my daughters' and my son's posts about their father. They posted a picture of their father and wrote something for Father"s Day. As I was reading their posts, I just noticed that my tears are falling. I...

19 Jun 16

•

5 comments

•

3 people

Don't you just LOVE being alone sometimes?

umjuna @umjuna (100) • Netherlands 4 Jan 07

Human nature is that people live in a herd. They do things together, watch out for each other and the strongest lead the weaker. So you basically need each other. And we hate being lonely. At least so do I, I love being around...

being alone

spending time on yourself

101 responses •

11 people

alfieboy I agree, there's many a time when I don't want to see or speak to anyone. I frequently go a whole weekend only speaking to the person behind the counter in the shop. I turn off my mobile phone so it will only accept text messages and ignore the world outside.

5 Jan 07

Favourite Song Lyric

alfieboy @alfieboy (14) • Ireland 5 Jan 07

Whats your favourite lyric from a song. Mine is "The she brushes off the dirt, from her greyhound skirt, an all the boys go" From July by Mundy

lyrics

mundy

music

3 responses

Would you stay on this Island?

BittyBiddy @BittyBiddy (2903) • Ireland 4 Jan 07

An Blascaoid Mor - the largest of the Blasket Islands, just off the coast of Dingle, Co. Kerry, Ireland. It is uninhabited having been abandoned in 1953 when the last 22 inhabitants left. Covered in furze and heather, its ruins...

holiday

island

67 responses •

11 people

alfieboy Where do i sign up.... modern life is full of stress and hassle. I'd gladly live somewhere that the modern world hasn't intruded upon and ruined...

5 Jan 07

•

1 person

To Whom do you believe more, Muslims or Christians?

robelyn0614 @robelyn0614 (30) • Philippines 4 Jan 07

I am Christian. I believe Jesus is Lord. Jesus' name can be found also in the Holy Quran of Muslims. One Muhammad says, in his website, that JEsus is not a Lord at all. Jesus is only a human.. What can u say?

11 responses •

1 person

alfieboy I don't believe in anything. It is documented that Jesus was a living breathing hunman being, if it weren't for the apostles and the bible that's all he would have been. I don't know much about the muslim faith, but my understanding is that muhammad is the...

5 Jan 07

•

1 comment

Do you feel better in the morning or in the night?

babykay @babykay (2131) • Ireland 4 Jan 07

I am wondering whether you are at your best in the morning or whether you feel better later, maybe at night time. I know a lot of depression sufferers say that the morning feels a lot worse for them, but others who cannot sleep...

depression

21 responses •

4 people

alfieboy I feel better in the morning. Probably because I have to get up for work and there is a purpose and something to do. Come 6 o'clock at night when i get home to a cold empty flat is when I start to feel depressed and this generally gets worse the longer the...

5 Jan 07

should i meet the counclllor?

harivinod @harivinod (781) • India 5 Jan 07

I suffer alot with anxiety, my self esteem is up and down which effects my relationships with people i love. I have times where i feel confident and really happy and then times where i wouldn`t say boo to a mouse and can`t find...

anxiety

depresion

doctor

4 responses

alfieboy My life seems to echo yours and i am currently having the same thoughts about visiting a counsellor. I know there are many demons in my past that seem to surface every now and then and affect my life. I am torn between visiting my doctor, but feel he wil...

5 Jan 07

Do You Find It Hard Letting Go Of The Past?

Brian @wolfie34 (26770) • United Kingdom 2 Jan 07

I know it sounds strange but I just can't let go of some of my past which comes to haunt me. Part of me wishes it was 1998 before I made a terrible decision, I gave up my beloved flat to live with my then partner, I really wish I...

35 responses •

5 people

alfieboy It's not strange at all. I though have it the other way round and find it very easy to forget the past. My attitude at the moment seems to be a bit like Robert De Niro's character in the film heat. "Never get too attached to anything that you can't drop it at...

5 Jan 07

•

1 comment

Way Too Many Sloppy Joes...

Jessica @missjessicadawn (3286) • United States 10 Jun 16

For the past three days I've been craving sloppy joes. I couldn't get my mind off them. Which is weird because I really don't eat beef that often. Only chicken, turkey, or fish. Finally, I couldn't wait any longer and I bought...

5 responses •

5 people

alfieboy For the past three days I've been craving sloppy joes. I couldn't get my mind off them. Which is weird because I really don't eat beef that often. Only chicken, turkey, or fish. Finally, I couldn't wait any longer and I bought the ingredients and threw them...

10 Jun 16

•

5 comments

•

5 people

Dates.. Who pays?

flares @flares (15) • Canada 4 Jan 07

So when you're out on a date, who pays for the dinner bill? Who pays for the movie? Who who who? Do you think its the guys responsibility to pay? Girls responsibility? Split? Whoever asks the other out's...

114 responses •

11 people

alfieboy If it was me and I had asked the girl on the date I would pay for everything. If she had suggested we go to a movie or for a drink etc. I would offer to pay for most things, but if she wanted to pay would let her.

5 Jan 07

Can it ever be cured

alfieboy @alfieboy (14) • Ireland 5 Jan 07

Looking back on my life, I now realise i've suffered from depression from an early age. This was probably brought on by events out of my control as a young child. It is only recently I have admitted to myself that I do actually...

depression

suicide

54 responses •

4 people

would you be able to commit suicide?

khalid111 @khalid111 (186) 4 Jan 07

i dont know about you but i dont think i would be able to , someone to do something like this must be so dipressed. i have a m8 that cousin just commited suicide by gasing him self out i the garage but wat i dont understand is i...

127 responses •

13 people

alfieboy and therein lies the problem with depression. There is still such a stigma attached to mental illness that people who suffer from it, try to hide it from the world and especially their close friends and family. People say suicide is a cowardly thing to do,...

5 Jan 07