archaven

@archaven (22)

Philippines • Age 34

Joined myLot 18 years ago

nothing weak is meant to survive

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Responses (11)

archaven's Responses

Coping with the loss of a loved one

carrier928 @carrier928 (52) • United States 4 Dec 06

After the recent loss of my father in law, who we were always very close to, I am left trying not only to deal with my own pain, but also to help everyone else to deal with their emotions. My husband was extremely close to him and...

loss of loved one

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archaven have you ever read the book "THE GiFT" by danielle steel? try reading it, it may help you change the way you feel about your loss and help you move on. People come to our lives for a reason, he may have been there for you guys to teach you how to be happy....

4 Dec 06

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Kids acting and dressing older than they are

kristypants @kristypants (305) • Canada 4 Dec 06

I was at the mall yesterday and I saw these girls. They couldn't have been older than 10. All of them were wearing make-up, tight fitting clothes, and shoes that had a bit of a heel on them. They seriously looked like mini 16 year...

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archaven im 17 and i dont like wearing make-up. i dont understand why wearing make-up is such a big deal nowadays. but maybe its because kids want to look older, so the try wearing make-up, acting like older kids when they really are still irresponsible..

4 Dec 06

How much Patience do u have???

kumar1977 @kumar1977 (7) • Taiwan 3 Dec 06

Hi all when u come across a situation like a person places a bomb or slaps u for no cause or refuses to pay you back the money what u lend him etc etc...., what will u do in those circumstances??? Becoz when i lend a...

ghandigiri means patience

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archaven patience is a virtue. but dont abuse it.

3 Dec 06

Age difference

cloudwatcher @cloudwatcher (6861) • Australia 3 Dec 06

Do you think a big age difference is detrimental to a happy marriage? Many couples have an age difference of five or so years, with the man older than the woman. Do you think a gap of 10-20 years is too much? What when she is...

age

marriage

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archaven age does not matter! it never does! as long as you fell comfortable with each other, nothing else matters!

3 Dec 06

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Britney Spears' Recent Exposure Incident: Did she do it intentionally or ....

em12ma @em12ma (396) • United States 2 Dec 06

was she just out of her mind?I was shocked to see yesterday in the E! News report about Britney Spears' exposure (of her not wearing anything under)and being photographed non-stop by paparazzis. I couldn't believe that a person...

britney spears

photos

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archaven shes trying to regain her popularity. she isnt that popular these days.

3 Dec 06

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How to curb these kind of child tortures? Are these people humans?

findcutegj @findcutegj (1466) • India 3 Dec 06

I was browsing internet, when i came across to this horrible act but last year a couple residing in Florida named John and Linda Dollar. As i really hate child tortures, this really came up as a worst nightmare story which was...

child tortures

florida couple accused of torturing children

how to curb child tortures

walk in closet

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archaven oh my god! how can people manage to even hurt kids? people like those should rot in jail. the children have rights to be well cared and loved. the government should take these things seriously. the future of this place DEPENDS on the children of today. what...

3 Dec 06

The Workforce and My Son

icequeen @icequeen (2840) • Canada 3 Dec 06

Here's my problem. My son is now 14. My boyfriend wants him to get a job, however..I feel he is too young yet. I would like him to concentrate on school and getting good grades. I think that he has plenty of time to be forced into...

working

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archaven it was just a few years ago when i was 14. and i really had to concentrate on my studies. i think its more important than having a job that age. if it really isnt necessary for hm to work, dont let him.

3 Dec 06

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Should none-Christians Celebrate Christmas and Easter?

Bexybean @Bexybean (4) 3 Dec 06

True that once, probably well over a century ago now, christianity was the main religion in England and the majority of people went to church on a sunday. However times have changed no and we are really multi cultural with many...

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archaven why not? its not the culture or religion that matters, its the togetherness of the family.. ^_^

3 Dec 06

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should i ever forgive my mum?

missy24 @missy24 (90) 2 Dec 06

i dont want to go into complete detail but here goes. 7 years ago my mum and my fiance ran off together on the same day i find out im pregnant. when i was 6 months pregnat i had a stillborn baby girl, and neither my mum or the...

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archaven a mother cant stand not talking to her kid forever, and a child cant stand not talking to his/her mom forever. a mother can never have that much of a hatred for their child, and the child can never have that much hatred for thier mother. you just have to...

3 Dec 06

Life with my father.

patgalca @patgalca (18181) • Orangeville, Ontario 2 Dec 06

My father passed away suddenly this past February. As Christmas approaches I am becoming more sad. My father was the only person who understood me, never judged me, never criticized me, always supported me. He was my best friend....

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archaven im sorry about youre father. but dont be sad, he's still there for you. you may not see him, but his memory will still fill youre heart with the love and care that he has given you before he passed away.

3 Dec 06

what women want?

kireet @kireet (137) • India 28 Nov 06

i mean what they want ina man

money pwer prowess

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1 person

archaven someone who cares and loves them for whatever and whoever they are... what else matters?? ^_^

29 Nov 06

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1 person