aris76

@aris76 (13)

Indonesia • Age 48

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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Why are you still single until now?

Jared @kimian55 (132) • Alamogordo, New York 30 Jan 11

Why are you still single? Do you blame anyone for it.. I know people who blame others because they are single you know. They say there too good, some say no one is good enough, some just have a delusion that their so good to be...

love

single

still single

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2 people

aris76 I'm not a single but I could understand Ur problem. I think U shouldn't blame anyone or finding some reason. In relationship, U must be open each other so U can share ups & downs. No one perfect, so U must be able to accept the negative sides of Ur...

30 Jan 11

Are you a Good Listener?

carrine @carrine (2743) • Philippines 30 Jan 11

when somebody is talking will listen attentively? like for example you are in a group then somebody is talking then will you listen? or when a friend of you is sharing something on you will you listen? honestly when i attend to...

a listener

a speaker

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4 people

aris76 I'm as similar as U, if my friend is sharing on I'll listen to N' sometimes I give some advice. In a seminar, I'll listen to if the speaker is good enough, but if he/she is boring, maybe I'll sleep or go to the toilet for smoking. I think I'm a good listener...

30 Jan 11

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could you help me about my life....

omarkiller1 @omarkiller1 (22) 30 Jan 11

I've been confuse on which will I choose from the two: love or studies My parents have been encouraging me to stay on track with my academics and establishing my life but the side effect out of it is that I tend to get...

love

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2 people

aris76 I think U could walk on the two choices, love N' study, because love could encourage U to finish Ur study. Love will spirit Ur life N' make Ur life more valuable.

30 Jan 11

My boyfriend is 20 and I am 21,what do you think of girl older than the boy

emilieyang @emilieyang (94) 30 Jan 11

Many people say that the age, the height or any other things won't be a problem if you two really fall in love. But in this relationship, I am older than my boyfriend , also a little more mature than he does. In my opinion, he...

love boyfriend

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4 people

aris76 Relationship isn't depending on age or height but the harmony between the both of you is more important. If you feel pleasant N' safe beside him, I think you should continue your relationship. You must be open each other so you can share your boyfriend ups N'...

30 Jan 11

Betrayed by a friend: should you forgive or not??

jacrosealbert @jacrosealbert (107) • Philippines 27 Jan 11

my cousin's best friend is also her workmate so they are always together, going home together etc....( every thing best friends do...) My cousin is a graphic artist so she's on the creative side and her best friend is also a...

betrayal

forgiveness

friend

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3 people

aris76 I've ever been betrayed by my friend. He took away our bussiness money. We're still friend but I never get a bussiness with him anymore. Looking for a friend is more difficult than looking for an enemy.

29 Jan 11

What would you do if you find out a friend has been spreading rumors about you?

inkyuboz @inkyuboz (1392) • Mandaluyong City, Philippines 29 Jan 11

There was this one time in college when a friend of mine found out that her so-called "best friend" has been spreading news around the campus that she has been sleeping around. Malicious rumors such as this can really spread like...

end of friendship

friend

rumors

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6 people

aris76 i'm not that kind of friend. i'll find the explanation why he/she did that. looking for a friend is more difficult than looking for an enemy.

29 Jan 11

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How old are you at myLot ?

topffer @topffer (42156) • France 29 Jan 11

Years ago, I learned that asking her age to a woman was not polite when she was more than 25 years old. In real life, if a woman does not look very young, don't take the risk to be impolite ! Passed 25 years, a lady is always 20...

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7 people

aris76 Age difference isn't important to me. I like to be my self N' I never hide my age.

29 Jan 11

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Is it wrong to steal food if you are starving?

MarappleStiffy @marapplestiffy (2182) • Philippines 28 Jan 11

I had posted earlier this week about my problem with one of my students, so I'm now searching for articles and videos about people around the world who are starving and just thought of the question above... What do you think?...

starvation and stealing

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aris76 Stealing is wrong whatever the reason. But if someone steal some food because he/she is really starving, maybe we can appologize him/her. starving is our responsibility.

29 Jan 11

how to increase ram using software?

suyash091 @suyash091 (120) • India 29 Jan 11

are there any way to increase ram or graphics memory such as by using eboostr. dont tell bout eboostr.

graphic card

speed

video ram

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aris76 No, U can't. U must increase ur ram physically because there aren't softwares to increase ram capacity.

29 Jan 11

Does the weather affect your mood?

nyka08 @nyka08 (403) • Philippines 26 Jan 11

Today is mostly cloudy and it almost seems like it's going to start raining. i can't explain why, but i can't help myself feeling gloomy all of a sudden. the cold windy air and the sound of the rain falling on the roof makes me...

feelings

mood

weather

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3 people

aris76 i agree with U about "the people around me are mostly the ones that contributes to how i feel", but i think U forget about our job or task. because sometimes i have a bad feeling if i get much job to do.

27 Jan 11

What browser to use?

GermansZaharovs @GermansZaharovs (14) 26 Jan 11

I had tried many browsers and can't find any perfect. At the moment I switched to Chrome to check how this browser works, before I used firefox but in last weeks it slowed me down... Chrome looks fine but I can't used to it yet,...

browser

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4 people

aris76 I suggest U to use Opera Mini because it fast N' easy to use. Opera Mini compress the page up to 90%, that's why it's faster than the other browser. In Opera mini, U can adjust the speed. U can setting the speed in automatic, on, or off.

27 Jan 11