arlena040

@arlena040 (252)

United States • Age 62

Joined myLot 19 years ago

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Responses (187)

arlena040's Responses

Being Adopted

davaoguy @davaoguy (319) • United States 11 Feb 07

What would you do if you accidentally knew you were just adopted? Would you still pursue on looking your real parents? Would you be mad at the adoptive parents who kept this secret from you? These are just hypthetical questions...

adopting

parents

relationships

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arlena040 i have been thro this and done this i am adopted. and i found out after my parents died .i was 30 years old when i learned the truth . and to be honest i could care less who my parents are. was i angry with my adoptive parents no i was hurt..hurt to know i was...

11 Feb 07

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Doese anyone like to draw?

leftconcerned @leftconcerned (10) • United States 11 Feb 07

I use to draw back when I was in high school which seems like along time ago.I liked to draw because it was a good stress reliever for me and it helped relax me.I dont have as much time to draw seeing I have kids.But I am hoping...

drawing

hobbies

painting

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arlena040 yes i love drawing and painting picture's . i find it so exciting to see a picture i created with my own hand and my mind.

11 Feb 07

NO, we dont send grandparents or old people to homes for the aged because....

raptor25 @raptor25 (9) • Philippines 8 Feb 07

we dont send our old folks in homes for the aged because they mean a lot to us. im asian, one time i talked to an american and he told me they send their old people to these type of place, and i felt really sad. our grandmother is...

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arlena040 well first of all i would just like to say not all americans send there loved ones off to nurseing homes. my sister who has had a trumatic brain injury has lived with me in my house for the last 15 years . my grandparents and my parents are all dead . but if...

11 Feb 07

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takin care of ur grandparent

smoke_n_it_up @smoke_n_it_up (2) • United States 11 Feb 07

i have a 87 year old grandmother we take care of at home shes on oxygen and gets nerveous alot doesnt want us to go anywhere or leave her with anyone else just to run to the store life has come to a stop for now dont know if we...

grandparents

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arlena040 well i would love to give you some helpful advice but i need to know more about how you are taking care of your grandmother . i mean who else is there to help you with her care ? and what country are you from i am asking this because here in the states we have...

11 Feb 07

Have u ever flirt?

ShahidKhan1479 @ShahidKhan1479 (1522) • India 10 Nov 06

Have u ever flirt?

flirt

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arlena040 Oh COME ONNNN i think everyone flirts. and if they say they don't i think they are not telling the truth. it's just human nature for people to flirt. and yes i have flirted .lol and i am sure my husband has to , thro i doubt he would ever admit it..lol

11 Feb 07

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Out Of Control Two Year Old

captainambosky @captainambosky (117) • United States 23 Jan 07

I have a two year old nephew who is just out of control!My sister doesn't know what to do with him.She is a single mother and the dad does not have anything to do with his son.He pitches fits that are crazy!If you don't do...

behavoir problems

children

parenting

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arlena040 well mad dog is right he has learned what he can and can not get bye with . i went thro some of this with my son . the 2's are just what they are called terriable 2's. but it won't last forever and now is the time to be teaching him what is aceptable behavior...

10 Feb 07

What would you do in this situation?

queenajasmina @queenajasmina (449) • United States 9 Feb 07

I was reading an article about a girl in Iran who may get the death penalty for kiling a man who tried to rape her. In her country, if a woman is raped she may be killed by her brother or father to bring the honor back to the...

death sentence

rape

women

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arlena040 i don't know what i would do . probably the same as she did . i think i would rather be dead than live in a place where there is no laws to protect me and men could have there way with me and know that i would be killed if they did. how stupid and dump can...

10 Feb 07

Which color would you like your hair to be?

findcutegj @findcutegj (1466) • India 2 Feb 07

If you get a chance to color your hair, which color would you choose? I would choose shining burgundy color.

color of hair

coloured hair

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arlena040 i would choose the color of hair i was born with and still have blonde.

4 Feb 07

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What is beauty? Physical or heart?

arjunfour @arjunfour (128) • India 3 Feb 07

Which should be more beautiful. They external appearance or the internal mind or heart. I feel your internal self should be beautiful

beauty

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arlena040 i think true beauty begins with in a person heart. if you have a good heart full of love for people and helping hand for those in need .then you are a beautiful person . you could be the most beautiful creature ever created but if you have a ugly heart .then...

4 Feb 07

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What do you think about Ringo?

Lecaro @Lecaro (1100) • Romania 16 Jan 07

www.ringo.com is a digital album for your photos... is real cool i keep there all my photos sorted in albums and sorted by calendar... is nice is place where you can share photos...

ringo

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arlena040 yes i have Ringo and i like it a lot . its really cool you can choose who See's your pictures and make some really nice friends all so .

30 Jan 07

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Where I find a good web-site that pay like mylot???

Waiter @Waiter (834) • Italy 8 Dec 06

Where?? Give me the link!!!!

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arlena040 hi i use a site online that does pay .how much you make depends on how much time you out into it . if you are interested email me at wv_girl9@yahoo.com i won't break mylots rules bye posting the link on mylot.

28 Jan 07

Euthanasea or Mercy Killing?

Andrew O @creationhub (3066) • Malaysia 27 Jan 07

We have often read articles, news on mercy killing. FOr one reason or another, it is so hard to say whether the action is right or wrong. Personally, I do not believe that life must be ended before time. In the sorrows of...

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arlena040 Hi i was faced with this decision when my sister was in a car accident , it left her with severe brain damage she was on life support . and i am the oldest of her next of kin . her doctors came to me and explained how her life would be . if she did live and...

28 Jan 07

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Are You The Jealous Type?

suzyangel08 @suzyangel08 (616) • United States 20 Jan 07

why are you the jealous type? don't you love your partner? you should always trust your partner with everything you have... you are with him/ her... they are not... always show your partner that you are willing to let them be...

jealous

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arlena040 i really don't consider myself the jealous type . but i have a few times let my horns show...lol, like when other woman have openly flirted with my husband . i would not say it was jealously so much as it was rage. why because i love my husband and i consider...

21 Jan 07

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Keeping Busy and Keeping Sane

Susan @HazySue (39265) • Gouverneur, New York 16 Feb 21

This meme is for all those mylotters out there staying home and staying safe. I know some of you are just fine with being home but there are those who are going a little stir crazy. Luckily, we have Mylot to keep us busy and...

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arlena040 This meme is for all those mylotters out there staying home and staying safe. I know some of you are just fine with being home but there are those who are going a little stir crazy. Luckily, we have Mylot to keep us busy and keep us sane. I learned a long...

16 Feb 21

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what do you with your earnings from mylot?

nishanity @nishanity (1650) • India 17 Jan 07

well i got my first payment form mylot this month and i am soooo excited!! at first i was in a fix on what to do with the money... i do want to keep saving it, but also wanted to spend a little bit of it just to get the feel of MY...

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arlena040 well i have not been active enough on my lot to get my first payment yet . but i usually buy something for my son or deposit extra money i have in his savings account at the bank . so i guess thats what i would do with the money.

18 Jan 07