arystine

@arystine (1273)

Philippines • Age 43

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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What can spoil your day?

tetris15 @tetris15 (539) • Philippines 12 Jan 13

It sometimes irritates me whenever I wake up to a sound of something so urgent but when in fact it could be done in a way that no one has to panic. This is sometimes what my mother does and it could literally spoil my day which I...

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arystine I just experienced this yesterday. I only had few hours' sleep and when I woke up, my husband told me that one of my relatives plan to visit our house and have all-night drinking session. I am so pissed when I learned about it, I feel like they are taking...

13 Jan 13

What are the simple ways to put a fight to its end?

nikkygupta @nikkygupta (48) • India 13 Jan 13

Sometimes, we find ourselves in a very difficult situation when an unknown person starts fighting with us and it becomes very difficult to come over the fight. What we can do in such a situation?

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arystine Let the person what you can do, like legal actions. This can discourage the person and might make him stop fighting. Scare him with all sort of things you can possibly do.

13 Jan 13

How do we get rid of useless jealousy?

shion13 @shion13 (85) • Indonesia 12 Dec 12

Everyone who has a lover must ever felt jealousy. Well sometimes there are kinds of nonsense jealousy (though jealousy doesn't really make sense since it's because of love). If we look at our lover flirt another person or the...

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arystine I don't think what you're feeling is useless jealousy. Remember: Us women have women's intuition. If you feel that there is something, then maybe you should not allow your lover and your bestfriend to spend much time together. It is normal to feel jealous when...

15 Dec 12

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Does your boyfriend/girlfriend cooks for you?

besweet @besweet (9831) • Ireland 7 Dec 12

Today my boyfriend called me and asked if I wanted to go at his place for lunch after work. He had a day off and I came back at 2 pm so I decided to say yes since I finished early! He had a surprise for me, he had cooked a very...

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arystine My husband does the cooking, he cooks for me every day. :) I do not know how to cook, except to fry. My only specialty is cooking pasta carbonara or white sauce. My husband is a chef so he can make even a simple meal very delicious. It's nice that your...

15 Dec 12

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Few lines about LIFE

Professor2010 @Professor2010 (20156) • India 28 Nov 12

A lady friend in love with a guy, who used to be depressed earlier now says, when I got enough confidence, I got him. Now my depression is gone. When I was sure of losing, I won. When I...

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arystine Life is short. You have to spend every moment that you can with your loved one because they can be gone in an instant. In life, try to be good most of the time, treat your loved ones well. You'll never know if that is the last time you spent together. Love...

1 Dec 12

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At what time of the day do you feel like writing?

besweet @besweet (9831) • Ireland 23 Nov 12

I prefer writing at night, or early in the morning. I think I get inspired more with the quiet environment of the night! During the day there are too many distractions. That's why I also post most of my discussions here late in...

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arystine Hello there. Actually there is no particular time of the day for me to write. I write when the inspiration strikes. One time I was even able to write in the wee hours of the morning because I was too angry and I need to unload my feelings. It felt good after....

1 Dec 12

Lack of proper sleep taking its toll on me!

cgicale @cgicale (137) • Philippines 1 Dec 12

I've had no proper and enough sleep this past few weeks and it's really taking its toll on my body. I keep on getting headaches and I easily get dizzy when I move quickly. I can also feel a vein around my left eye that keep son...

lack of sleep

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arystine I have experienced that several times before and it is definitely due to lack of sleep. I feel better after catching up on sleep and taking supplements such as vitamin C. Also, drink tea to detoxify. That "beating" feeling on your left eye may also be due to...

1 Dec 12

So it begins....December 1st.

Lucy Leyshon @RaineLockheart (219) 1 Dec 12

Well it's here. You can see this as either an 'End of the world' discussion or a 'Christmas is almost here' discussion. I have mixed feelings about both! I'm not prepared!

christmas

mayan

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arystine For me, it's "Christmas is almost here." It's also my birthday month. :) December is my favorite month of the year. There's something about the holidays that make me feel nostalgic. Sometimes I long to be young again because Christmas seemed to be joyful and...

1 Dec 12

Living your life

Jenny1015 @jenny1015 (13359) • Philippines 23 Sep 12

"When you were born, you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life so that when you die, the world cries and you rejoice." Wouldn't you want to live a full life? Everyday is a struggle for each and every one of us. But...

life

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arystine I feel like I live my life to the fullest each day. My profession allows me to travel and meet new people, encounter different kinds of attitude. Not all experiences are positive, but it allows me to be stronger and more confident. And I agree, life is a...

1 Dec 12

What's your favourite kind of movies?

codris @codris (781) • Italy 6 Nov 12

hi there poeple, io like to watch movies at home alone and with my girlfriend, my favourite kind of movies is horror, i like also sci-fi movies. When i watch horror movies i'm alone, my girlfriend doesn't like them. The better...

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arystine I like romantic comedies. This kind of movie is so heart-warming. On the contrary, I also like horror movies, especially Asian horror movies. Once, my brother and I even had a marathon of "The Ring" movies. :)

6 Nov 12

The Elderly....who should take care of them?

Jenny1015 @jenny1015 (13359) • Philippines 4 Nov 12

As I am reading discussions here at Mylot, I turned on the televisions and switched channels. Then one show caught my attention. It was a documentary about the elders who were put on a homage under the care of the government. Most...

elders

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arystine I could not imagine leaving my mom in a home for the aged. :( She took care of me and my brother and the least that I can do is to take care of her when she's elderly. Not only that. But also to give the best for her, make her comfortable in her twilight...

6 Nov 12

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same age, younger or older than you...who to choose?

annavi23 @annavi23 (6633) • Philippines 29 Oct 12

I just wonder what would you prefer most when picking someone to be in a relationship with. Well, you can share some of your experiences here and let's do the discussion going... For me, I prefer most of same age group, but...

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arystine I prefer someone older than me. My husband is six years older than me. I think I associate being older with being more mature, though it is not always the case. LoL!! I think I am attracted to someone older because I feel that an older guy would take care of...

4 Nov 12

How do you deal with those music tapes you do not listen to any longer?

williamjisir @williamjisir (22819) • China 31 Oct 12

I have lots of music tapes in my drawers and they are still very good after so many years. I am no longer using them, but I don't want to throw them away. I would like to give them to someone who is still using a tape-recorder for...

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arystine I still have casette tapes and I am keeping them for sentimental reasons. :) I make it part of a collection of my old things. Even if a collector will offer to buy my casette tapes, I don't think I will sell them. Sentimental value is priceless. :) Very few...

3 Nov 12

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Getting ready for UNDAS (all saints day)

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33117) • Philippines 31 Oct 12

Hello Lotters I could not really concentrate on my mylotting because of this nearing All saints day or Undas in Filipino. it's a tradition of Filipinos visiting the dead for one day, some visit early, some at the exact...

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arystine The coming days will be hard for me, as we will be visiting the tombs of my departed loved ones. :( But in some ways, Undas is some kind of a reunion with your relatives. Seeing my relatives will lessen the pain of visiting and reminiscing our loved ones. From...

31 Oct 12

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What will you do if you badly missed someone?

Ynrhea @Ynrhea (69) • Philippines 30 Oct 12

I can;t stop myself crying remembering someone, a person who brought me to this world. Seeing his picture, seeing someone look like him makes me cry. I really don't know if I already let him go. All I know is that I am still...

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arystine I will let the person know that he/she is being missed. I will send a text message, or leave a message on Facebook or by sending an e-mail. This way, if the person responds, there is interaction somehow. :) the pain of missing the person is lessened. :)

30 Oct 12

Religion doesn't matter...

lady Di @lady1993 (27221) • Philippines 26 Oct 12

right? No matter what a person believes in,as long as that belief turns him into a better person. So we should let them be and not try to convert them. i am tired of people convincing others too much to join this or that and...

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arystine I agree. As long as we are God-fearing, there is no reason why religion should matter. There is no hierarchy. No religion is above the others. Each has its own way of showing devotion to God. It is how a person worship and communicate with God that matters. It...

27 Oct 12

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Fashion time-What your clothes reveals about you...

aliahnicole69 @aliahnicole69 (231) • Philippines 25 Oct 12

Being fashionably aware reveals more about yourself,it is not about your age, your standard cost of living or the kind of job you are in to..but it talks about more about your personality on how you handle yourself. I am very...

fashion trends

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arystine I agree. It reveals a lot about your personality. When I was younger, I used to dress really formal. I wear lots of skirts and dresses. It was during first few years in my job. However, after three years, I finally decided to dress down, to wear pants and...

25 Oct 12