bananamanuk

@bananamanuk (835)

Age 45

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do you get shy when someone stares at you?

ronreyes @ronreyes (4724) • Philippines 13 May 07

I, myself, is a very shy person. It's been a part of my personality ever since I was a kid. I think it's natural! I know a lot of us also feel the same way when someone stares at us especially when they stare from head to...

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bananamanuk I think it is often very hard to make eye contact when talking to people or more especially when someone is talking to you and all you are doing is listening because it almost feels as though you are staring at them, which makes you even more self conscious....

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Did I do something wrong???

makingpots @makingpots (11915) • United States 3 Aug 07

Driving through my neighborhood yesterday I was watching as a man and lady got out of a car parked on the road and walked up toward a house. The lady (probably in her 60s) twisted her ankle as she stepped up on the curb and fell....

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bananamanuk Certainly this is an interesting dilema. One thing I will say is that just because the husband said "No" doesn't mean he was being rude or even if he was abrupt. Some people deal with traumas in very different ways. Often it seems to me, men, including myself,...

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Astrology Question

wooitsmolly @wooitsmolly (3613) • United States 4 Aug 07

Do you believe in astrology? Do you read your horoscope? I can't help but to believe in astrology! I mean, I do and I don't.. I don't want to, but I find myself reading my horoscope all the time and believing it. I always...

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bananamanuk In my opinion, there is no harm in reading your horoscope, I frequently read mine in the newspapers. It's something that has been practiced for very many years. Some people believe everything they read, some people dismiss it all out of hand. I personally have...

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Have you ever thought about writing a novel?

tinamwhite @tinamwhite (3252) • United States 3 Aug 07

I have thought about it several times in my life but for one reason or another....I never have... Two days ago, I decided to give it a try...why not me??? Every author began like this one page at a time...I am finding it quite...

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bananamanuk I have never written a novel but I have seriously considered it. I know that I have an interesting story to tell, however I am unsure whether it should be a fictional account using made up characters or if it should be a real life account of exactly what has...

4 Aug 07

Rainbows...Do you love them?

yammydudes @yammydudes (865) • Philippines 3 Aug 07

Do you love rainbows? I love to view rainbows. It reminds me that there is hope, there is really hope... How are rainbows formed? Sunlight is composed of light of varying wavelengths. Short wavelength light appears blue,...

rainbow

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bananamanuk I think rainbows can look really nice, especially if you have a good vantage point from which to view them. Often you'll see two together, one very striking and colourful and a second that's a little dimmer. It's great when they form and you have a very dark...

4 Aug 07

Do you find cemetaries interesting or creepy?

loved1 @loved1 (5328) • United States 26 Oct 06

I love to go looking around in cemetaries! There is so much history there to read on the grave markers. I will only go during the day though because it is too creepy at night!

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bananamanuk I certainly do not find cemetaries creepy, I actually think they are often the opposite, they are usually by their very nature, peaceful environments. In some ways I think it is very nice that people take the trouble to read headstones of people that they...

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How much time do you spend at Cemetaries?

BlackBay @BlackBay (584) • Canada 2 Aug 07

I was just wondering if anyone has lost someone and if you visit there resting place? How much time do you spend there. My mother-in-law passed away 6 years ago and my father-in-law spends alot of time there. I mean a 3-4 hours...

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bananamanuk Hello, I go to the cemetery usually once a week and will spend maybe 30 mins there during which time the grass is cut and the flowers changed or re-arranged. I find it hard to say that someone is doing something wrong with regard to visiting the cemetery,...

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What Is The Hardest Thing About Learning To Drive?

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 4 Jan 07

I passed my test back in 1989 after failing my first test. I hated roundabouts, it was a roundabout that I failed on. It took me ages to master them, thankfully I don't give them a second thought now, but then I found them a...

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bananamanuk The hardest thing about learning to drive is having enough confidence and assurance in yourself to be able to learn and succeed with it. I am also extremely worried as it always seems that you need to have eyes up your rear end because people, especially in...

26 Jul 07

Do you click on the ads of discussions?

argie713 @argie713 (1809) • Philippines 18 Jul 07

I always try to click the ads of my discussions. I think this would help mylot gain more money and us too. I have noticed that many ads are displayed now. I hope this would mean more earnings in the future. As a mylotter, I...

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bananamanuk I try and click on the ads too as it must be one of the ways that the owners of Mylot make some money to be able to pay us for the conversations we're having. How else could it be done? Of course the adverts also relate to the interests we have so it's not...

26 Jul 07

Washing at 30 degrees

rainbow @rainbow (6761) 6 Jul 07

In England we're being told to do our washing at 30 degrees due to global warming. It's also meant to help lower your electricity bill. I have to use "Fairy snow" as I have sensitive skin and have used the "Fairy honey...

energy saving

washing

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bananamanuk We've got one of the Hotpoint Aquarius machines, and it's a great machine at that. Very simple to use and has excellent economy settings, to halve the loads to reduce water consumption and to be able to select spin speeds and temperature as well. As a result a...

26 Jul 07

Should the right to bear arms be repealed?

estherlou @estherlou (5015) • United States 12 Jun 07

I just read an article that suggested that perhaps we need to get rid of the 2nd amendment to the constitution and just get rid of the guns that way. Here's the...

2nd amendment

amendment rights

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bananamanuk I think it really is time that the right to bear arms is something that seriously needs to be looked at. It may have been the case that the right to bear arms was a form of protecting ones family and belongings many many years ago before democracy and the rule...

26 Jul 07

Office Work - Do you carry it at your home?

ranjeetkolarkar @ranjeetkolarkar (1595) • India 26 Jul 07

I like to spend quality time with my family, whenever I am at my home. Hence I never carry my office work to my home to be done from home. I find it very inconvenient too. I would rather sit out late in the office and leave the...

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bananamanuk Personally I would prefer to bring some work home with me because I find that it is quieter and more relaxed I tend to find the that office is usually quite uncomfortable, it's usually too hot and there are too many distractions so bringing work home can be...

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Shaving Blade - Which one do you prefer?

ranjeetkolarkar @ranjeetkolarkar (1595) • India 23 Jul 07

I am using a gillette mach3 razor and blade and find it very comfortable. Prior to shifting to mach-3, i was using a single blade and razor for shaving. I had tried the twin blade for quite some time but found that the twin...

razor

shaving

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bananamanuk I think i've worked my way through every Gillette Razor on the market as it seems every time they release a new one it's so much better than the last, so I'm now using the Fusion and it does shave very close and smooth.

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It's Booked, I'm Off D-Day October 10th

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 24 Jul 07

I've done it! I walked into the travel agents today, cool and calm and I enquired about Rhodes and straight away before I changed my mind I booked! TWO WEEKS in Rhodes 10th October! So now I've got a date! It is more...

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bananamanuk Well done you. That is such a big step to take and really good move. Personally I LOVE flying, I always have, in fact I am a bit of an aviation freak at heart, I go and watch the planes and photograph them. However, when I lost all my confidence, I couldn't...

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Should I get my tongue pierced?

argie713 @argie713 (1809) • Philippines 24 Jul 07

A lot of my friends are getting their tongue pierced. They say that it is cool to have your tongue pierced. I like the idea and I'm thinking of getting my tongue pierced too. I'm having second thoughts though. I asked them if it...

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bananamanuk The way I think of these things is that it is your body and you are probably old enough to consider the options about what you want it done and what pleasure etc it will bring you. I suppose a piercing isnt like a tattoo in that it's less obvious, but I still...

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The Luxury Of A Lie In

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 11 Jul 07

How often do you get the luxury of being able to lie in to whenever you want, without having to worry about getting up, setting the alarm clock or worrying about having to be somewhere? And when you do promise yourself a lie...

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bananamanuk I try to have a lie in every weekend, that's usually because I am so tired after the preceeding week that I just want to catch up on sleep, recharge my batteries and at least reduce the bags under my eyes. But having said that, wanting a lie in and actually...

22 Jul 07

Have you ever felt bored on mylot?

coolcat123 @coolcat123 (4387) • India 12 Jul 07

Truly,I have never got bored here at mylot responding to discussions and starting new discussions.Till now I have made many friends by the means of mylot.I enjoy each and every moment when I am on mylot.I have got addicted to...

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bananamanuk Short answer, yes I have felt bored sometimes because I seem to come across the same questions time and time again and as a result they are just not worth responding too, in fact many of them are not even discussions they are just a waste of time. So yes, that...

22 Jul 07

Have You Ever Been Mistaken for Being of Another nationality?

urbangirl @urbangirl (1456) • Australia 10 Jul 07

Lookswise I have been mistaken for: lebanese, spanish and when I have opened my mouth my accent has been mistaken for English and Israeli. How about you?

mistaken nationality

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bananamanuk I have, adn almost all of the time it happens in the USA. I don't mean to be rude but I think there are a lot of people in America that have a very US-centric view of the world, there is not enough exposure to the international issues, international television...

22 Jul 07

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What Kind Of Fool Am I?

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 16 Jul 07

Some would say I've made my bed now I've got to lie in it. I am a 36 year old man, I'm supposed to be mature I am not a 12 year old child and yet I am stuck somewhere where I don't want to be. I am a complete fool I know that...

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bananamanuk Well first off, you're not a fool, you're just someone that is trying to live a life that you want to live, you're trying to be successful in the things you do, you are trying to have a home and people around you that care. If those things are not going the...

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