bryelee

@bryelee (451)

United States • Age 48

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My husband doesnt want to hep much with the kids

happymomndad @happymomndad (1035) • United States 26 Jan 07

He is a realy good man but he doesnt like wtching the kids so I can do things alone for a change. I love going to the gym and he doesnt want to watch them for it or for me to go out for a ladies night every now and again. He loves...

getting away from children

parenting

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bryelee I don't like watching my kids all the time either but its not far to push ALL of the house work one to 1 person. My husband works full time and he still comes hoems and helps me out where needed. Tell him its tiem to grow up. Your not his mommy so stop acting...

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Kicked out of the wedding party, after buying the dress...

imadriscoll @imadriscoll (2228) • United States 26 Jan 07

My friend came over last night a little upset. A good friend of hers asked her a little less then a year ago to be a bridesmaid in her wedding. My friend, who had helped the boyfriend propose, gladly excepted the...

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bryelee The lady is then responsible to buy ehr former friend the dress abck. The dress was for the wedding and she should ahve either let ehr participaate or pay for the dress. Sounds like this lady is jelious she isn't the only one planning a wedding.

26 Jan 07

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Why do you think it is so easy for some children to be mean?

hockeygal4ever @hockeygal4ever (10021) • United States 26 Jan 07

I've seen some very rude and ignorant children in my years as a parent. I've often wondered what occurs in their world that makes them think it is ok to be mean and evil to others? Do you think they all are mistreated at home...

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bryelee I think children until they grow up learn learn how to behave reflect what is going on at home. Most young chidlren do not form their own opinion but say what their parenst say. In a stable home they learn to be responsible and to think for themselves....

26 Jan 07

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HELP! I need advise...

sexysilver @sexysilver (928) • United States 25 Jan 07

... for my best friend. She suffers from depression & bipolar. But her Dr took her off her medications because she got pregnant. Since being off her medications she has attempted suicide twice, and been hospitalized. Her doctor...

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bryelee She should go abck to ehr dr. Tehre are meds safe to take during prega nd I am suprised a dr would take her completly off knowing her problems. Sounds like hubby is a big on the controlling side. Your frind should seek help.

26 Jan 07

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Home Birth Bashers

birthlady @birthlady (5609) • United States 21 Jan 07

My goodness, I posted a discussion about the benefits of home birth, and with the responses I've received, you'd think I'm from Neptune. I have had responses saying home birth is unsafe. Home birth is dangerous. Home birth is...

advantages of home birth

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bryelee I didn't want a homebirth with my children. There are some wonderful stories about home births that's true. One the other hand if something were to go terribly wrong I think its bets to be in a hospital. The reason giving birth isn't a big deal in thsi day and...

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Can a women really be president?

bgreg2 @bgreg2 (45) • United States 20 Jan 07

I don't think so. The problem wouldn't be with the president "herself", but in the men who would be required to follow under her. Not alot of men, i blelieve would put their lives on a line for a women boss. Sure, a lot of guys...

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bryelee I think we can. I don't agree that men would be embarassed. A lot of woman today hold high positions and in gov posistions. Sounds like the story you gave was about a bunch of immature men. I think for every guy like that there are 5 more who would accept...

21 Jan 07

Movement to ban smoking in cars with kids grows

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 19 Jan 07

UNDATED During a recent drive, a New Jersey state senator caught a glimpse of the driver in the next lane. She was puffing on a cigarette, windows rolled up, two kids in the car, filled with thick smoke. That did it....

smoking

smoking in car with kids

where you cant smoke

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bryelee I'm all for the new law. I don't smoke. I did grow up with a fatehr that smoked like crazy, he never cracked the windows and I suffred through breathing the smoke. I hate the smell of cig smoke even if its just a little bit, it makes me sick. Unfortunatly...

19 Jan 07

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My 15 year old son stole from me...

maxine553 @maxine553 (107) • Canada 19 Jan 07

I am not sure how to deal with this, it was only $15.00 that was left on the dishwasher for my husband to grab milk and bread. My son and I were the only ones home, my hubby came in I asked him to grab it as he was going straight...

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bryelee Stop it now while he is still young. My older sis is the biggets theif and will steal from ANYONE! My mom never did anything about her and she is just a mess now. You need to get help for your child, its a little bit now but if he thinks he will get away with...

19 Jan 07

Men say I am living in Dark Age!

oceandefender @oceandefender (23) • Philippines 18 Jan 07

This is nothing but a personal choice. Whenever men would know that I am leading a quite conservative view on the sanctity of marriage and other moral issues, they would say I should grow up because I am still living in Dark...

personal belief

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bryelee Its much better that you seep with as many men as you can before marriage and contract at least 1 STD. Give me a break, you need to stick to your guns and any man that pushes only wants you for your body. Don't let these men push you to do something you don't...

19 Jan 07

Who should pay for the wedding?

reinydawn @reinydawn (11643) • United States 18 Jan 07

I was reading a topic about parents paying for college and I was wondering how people felt about paying for the daughter's wedding? I know that traditionally, the parents of the bride are supposed to foot the bill, and the...

daughter

wedding

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bryelee When I got married I paid for my own wedding along with my husband. I don't think the parents should be expected to pay for the wedding. Especially now that the divorce rate is so high and weddings can get ridiculously expensive!

19 Jan 07

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What is your opinion?

Pekachu @Pekachu (1112) • United States 18 Jan 07

I myself have a mentally challenged child so what i saw deeply effected me .Some of the participants on American Idol were obviously mentally challenged and it broke my heart to see them be laughed at and told they were terrible....

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bryelee I agree its sad. But my question is why do the families allow them to audition? I don't blame the judges, I blame lack of commen sence from the families. I mean its one thing to allow a hobby and allow them to take voice lessons but to go to an audition like...

18 Jan 07

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How To Get No Through Their Heads

candygurl24 @candygurl24 (1880) • Canada 18 Jan 07

Ok, this one isn't on a child getting no through their heads, it's on those relatives that just don't know what no is! A family member of mine is constantly giving my children toys etc that they really don't need, and that they...

parenting

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bryelee Just take what they give you and donate it to someone who could use it. Either that or constnatly battle with someone who is ignoring you.

18 Jan 07

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Does A "BAD" Child Make You A "BAD" Parent?

rlangley @rlangley (56) • United States 17 Jan 07

What do you think? I would like to see how everyone responds to that question! I had a relative of mine over the holidays tell me that my newly turned 3 year old is "Just BAD!" And she demanded to know why I couldn't seem to keep...

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bryelee I agrew with the other responces you got, soudns liek a typical 3 year old. I don't think its ok to call a young child bad. I would have told this person off, the moron probably has never been around a child before. A lot of older people do that and by older I...

18 Jan 07

Would you rather be the girl or the wife?

madonna143 @madonna143 (1737) • Philippines 18 Jan 07

My friend suddenly asked me about this scenario: Would you rather be the wife who did not know that there is a girl or Would you rather be the girl who knew that there is a wife? As the wife, what you do not know won't hurt you....

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bryelee I wouldn't want to be either. I don't think as the other woman you are being told the truth. That isn't necesarly true, true you know there is a wife but chances are the guy is saying he is leaving her. I feel for the wife, the new woman would be naive and...

18 Jan 07

Muslim Discussions

Sawsen @Sawsen (793) • United States 18 Jan 07

I'm starting to feel that people are just posting anything because they know people are likely to respond. For example, today I have read 3 discussion topics about Muslims. I find that extremely pathetic, especially since these...

muslims

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bryelee I think people just want to make money and they are posting stupd discussions or things they know a lot of people will comment on.

18 Jan 07

An annoyance that comes without a cause

putri @leny34 (8506) • Sidoarjo, Indonesia 4 Jan 20

Hi all.. today is a very annoying day for me. I don't know what caused me to be annoyed today. suddenly when I wake up and then I sit in a chair. and suddenly my annoyance appeared, I was confused about what was causing me...

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bryelee Hi all.. today is a very annoying day for me. I don't know what caused me to be annoyed today. suddenly when I wake up and then I sit in a chair. and suddenly my annoyance appeared, I was confused about what was causing me annoyance today, finally I tried to...

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Are you ever ready to start your family?

granpasbluigrl @granpasbluigrl (67) • United States 17 Jan 07

I've been married for 8 months now... I know right now, at this moment were not ready to have a baby. But are you ever ready? You know... we say, "we want to be able to afford the baby. we want to be financilay stable." but that...

baby

maternity leave

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bryelee Re you ever ready for a baby? I say no. I had my 3 in my mid to late 20's and I have 3 little girls. I can say I wasn't really ready becasue your life completly chnages when you have kids. Also my middle daughter is being cessed for autism so you can never...

18 Jan 07