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tgetter @tgetter (2) • United States 29 Sep 07

My mom past away from cancer in Dec of 2003.She was my best friend, my everything.I thought after a few years that it would'nt hurt as much, But it does.Sometimes I feel so lonely and lost with out her. It was so hard to see her...

lost love one

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butterfly_1_4 i just lost a good friend to cancer a few days ago. the funeral hasn't even happened yet so yes, there is someone who understands what you are going through. i feel like a part of my heart is gone. the friend that i just lost was an amazing woman. no matter...

30 Sep 07

AMac07 @AMac07 (11) 29 Sep 07

Let me start off by saying, I hardly ever post here. I don't see it as a viable way of making money, and I struggle to contribute on here, even though I think this place is full of interesting debate and discussion. However,...

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butterfly_1_4 i understand where you are coming from. i myself am a recovering addict/alcoholic and have been clean and sober for almost 4 years now. i have been in several abusive relationships and have had someone force themselves on me before. so i find it very hard to...

30 Sep 07

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miamilady @miamilady (4910) • United States 29 May 07

What do you think was the root cause of your divorce? Did your ex cheat? Did you grow apart? Did he or she turn out not the be the person you thought they were? Do you blame the ex for everything or were you partly to blame? Is...

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butterfly_1_4 my divorce is coming about because my husband choked me into unconciosness with my daughter in my arms and my son watching. I refuse to put up with that kind of behaviour. If the person that I am with feels that they cannot trust me then they should not be...

19 Sep 07

mrs_lidwell @mrs_lidwell (115) • United States 17 Sep 07

This is an update for all you ladies that had tried to give me suggestions on what to do with my period problems a couple months ago. I finally went back to the doctors last friday about it. He now wants me to go to the hospital...

health

menstral problems

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butterfly_1_4 i haven't read your original posting but i understand about having problems with a period. I have to take a large amount of narcotics to control the pain and have had to do so since i was 13. to date i have seen 37 specialists and as yet none of them have been...

18 Sep 07

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 17 Sep 07

The great pessimistic philosopher, Schopenhauer, once sat dejectedly on a park bench. He was weighed down by his thoughts and troubled by his inability to understand the meaning of life. A police officer, taking him for a tramp,...

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butterfly_1_4 i myself, though i am not rich or famous, was very unhappy with my life and turned to drugs and alcohol. I quit almost 4 years ago now but feel that having the disease of addiction has allowed me to have a new look on life from what i had before. the 12 steps...

18 Sep 07

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butterfly_1_4 @butterfly_1_4 (15) • Canada 17 Sep 07

Why is it that some people just can't let go when a relationship ends? I left my husband several months ago due to abuse and he still calls me his wife and acts like he and I are going to get back together. I told him that I was...

relationships

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butterfly_1_4 i have a free alarm system that sends a signal direct to the police with a priority one response call and because of my ex's record they send a minimum of two cars. i am also trained in jujitsu and some weapons, plus a little bit of hand to hand combat. my...

18 Sep 07

butterfly_1_4 @butterfly_1_4 (15) • Canada 17 Sep 07

Why is it that some people just can't let go when a relationship ends? I left my husband several months ago due to abuse and he still calls me his wife and acts like he and I are going to get back together. I told him that I was...

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butterfly_1_4 don't worry darlin' there's no way i will withdraw, i am well and truly done with him

18 Sep 07

ctrymuziklvr @ctrymuziklvr (11057) • United States 17 Sep 07

Mine is a toss up between my ex and my sister. My sister is 2 years younger and we never got along a day in our lives...even as kids. We are now 60 years old (she is 58!)and we still don't even communicate. She lives in PA and I...

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butterfly_1_4 my worst relationship would be the marriage i am trying to end. I left it a little over 3 months ago because he decided he should be able to do whatever he wants including becoming physically abusive. He obviously thought i would stay, guess he doesn't know me...

18 Sep 07

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lifeis2good @lifeis2good (1183) • United States 17 Sep 07

Our 14 year old son went to his 1st High School Dance on Saturday Night. It was the Homecoming Dance. I drove him and 2 of his friends to the dance and one of the friends parents were going to pick them all up and bring them home....

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butterfly_1_4 I would say ground him for at least two weeks and if he wants to go to something like that again you will be the one picking him up. Or you could do what my mom did to me the one and only time I ever pulled a stunt like that. She picked me up from school for...

17 Sep 07

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jcyap888 @jcyap888 (721) • Philippines 17 Sep 07

i got this friend who work as a house helper. She been bothering from what his husband is doing, (he has girlfriend and he is always visiting her. until he confess that he loves the girl.) she is very confuse and at this moment...

seperation or work it up

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butterfly_1_4 You're friend needs to do what is right for her. Unless he is willing to be faithful I doubt that she will be happy. Not only that but there has been a major violation of her trust. It is not possible to have a healthy and happy marriage without trust. So...

17 Sep 07

butterfly_1_4 @butterfly_1_4 (15) • Canada 17 Sep 07

Why is it that some people just can't let go when a relationship ends? I left my husband several months ago due to abuse and he still calls me his wife and acts like he and I are going to get back together. I told him that I was...

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