caharin

@caharin (19)

Philippines • Age 48

Joined myLot 20 years ago

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Would you date your friend's EX???

hottie0728 @hottie0728 (1732) • United States 21 Feb 07

I never see myself dating my friend's ex. I would feel awkward about it and I will just spare her my respect on not dating any of her EX.

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caharin if she's hot, then WHY NOT?? no seriously, if i happen to like her and if i'm sure that they're both over each other, i definitely would. it wouldn't hurt to try if it really was us meant to be together as long as nobodygets hurt in the process.

22 Feb 07

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Trust: is it FREE, or does it have to be EARNED?

Denmarkguy @Denmarkguy (1845) • United States 22 Feb 07

This morning I was reading an email from a friend, and got to thinking about the way we TRUST people. I think most would agree that trust is very important. However, I frequently run into the debate over whether trust is...

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caharin Trust is freely given at first, but not by everyone. Most people who have had bad experiences in the past have difficulty in trusting again. That's when trust has to be earned. It's hard enough to lose your trust in someone you never expected to betray you,...

22 Feb 07

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do i look good enuf for having a girl friend

sid_is_crazy @sid_is_crazy (135) • India 22 Feb 07

hi guys n gals...just have a look at my innocent face n tell me whether i am liable to get a gal or not

dating

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caharin lol! you're a funny guy, just the fact that you had to ask that either meant you have very low self-esteem, or you're just trying to be funny. i agree you're crazy. man, you should see my friend! you'll consider yourself lucky when you do... as long as...

22 Feb 07

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Guys how do you really feel about dating a successful career woman?

ukchriss @ukchriss (2097) 21 Feb 07

Chatting to my eldest daughter I asked if she had found herself a nice boyfriend yet? Basically, she replied she thought men seemed to be intimidated by her success. She has a good job working in a Travel Agency, she has...

dating

finding a partner

good job

intimidated by her success

successful career woman

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caharin Well first I'd like to congratulate you on raising such a fine daughter! Nice to hear that whatever experiences one may have can be used to turn his or her life around for the better. About the question, that shouldn't really be an issue. If my woman is...

22 Feb 07

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Age Difference: Does it really matter?

LightninStrike @LightninStrike (5915) • Saint Vincent And The Grenadines 13 Feb 07

We all know about people who get involved in relationships with persons that are way older or younger than them. What do you think about that? is it a good idea? will they have enough to share? much controversy about this one i...

age difference

love

relationships

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caharin I'd say it depends on who's looking. It shouldn't really matter as long as these two people willingly and lovingly commit to each other. Other people say it's not good for two people with a very big age gap to be together but they don't really have any basis...

22 Feb 07

Do any of you pay attention to the myLot population number?

jbrowsin66 @jbrowsin66 (1321) • United States 16 Feb 07

I can see it growing every day. Do you think in the future they will be able to afford all of us? :)

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caharin I honestly have no idea how many people are now on mylot. I rarely have time to post, much less check out the mylot population. But the way I see it, the population will keep on increasing as long as people keep shouting out that mylot really pays. If more...

22 Feb 07

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He must be blessed

youless @youless (114112) • Guangzhou, China 10 Feb 17

I watched a movie called Hacksaw Ridge. It is a movie based on a true story. I must say that it is very dramatic. Desmond Doss is a soldier but he has never wanted to touch the gun because he believes in God strongly. He wants to...

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caharin I watched a movie called Hacksaw Ridge. It is a movie based on a true story. I must say that it is very dramatic. Desmond Doss is a soldier but he has never wanted to touch the gun because he believes in God strongly. He wants to save people's lives rather...

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selling my kidney

SWIPER @SWIPER (8) • United States 22 Dec 06

apperently no one understands why i want to sell my kidney. first of all thanks for your concerns and responses, i don't get it though. What's the big deal? I need money! I'm an ex con. tired of doing dirt. I want to be productive...

why i want to sell my kidney

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caharin well since you put it that way it is good to help someone else in need of a kidney, but you should also think of yourself. you're selling your kidney because you need money to make your life a little better but for how long? only a few weeks? months? i'm not...

22 Dec 06

A twist on an old question.

meeandnotyou @meeandnotyou (2548) • United States 19 Dec 06

There are many of us here on myLot that have tried many ways to earn money online in the comfort of our homes. Unfortunately with all of our efforts, trust and hard earned money, at times some unseedy company has left us holding...

making money

money

scams

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caharin Oh, I've been scammed. Too many times in fact, but I am still in it. I've been scammed by a lot of hourly, daily, even weekly programs. But I haven't stopped trying. It's a known fact that these type of programs may be here now and gone tomorrow, so before I...

19 Dec 06

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Living together vs Marriage.

itsjustmeb @itsjustmeb (1212) • Canada 19 Dec 06

What do you feel is more important these days? Being married and having a family, or just living in a home in a commonlaw relationship? I mean so many people are getting divorced before they flush the toilet in the morning, it's...

marriage

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caharin Being married is important, but you don't jump into marriage the minute you feel you're with the right person. You can imagine the dilemma when you're already married to a person you don't even know that well. In this day and age i think it's just normal...

19 Dec 06

What are U doing right now?

saeedsid @saeedsid (1119) • Pakistan 16 Dec 06

I am just listening to songs right now:))

eating

listening

working

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caharin yep, especially if can make money from it. usually in my job i get put on hold for like an hour.. and you can imagine how boring it can be when not doing anything.

16 Dec 06

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Is experience the sole source of knowledge?

ubermensch @ubermensch (136) • Philippines 15 Sep 10

People always agreed that experience is the best teacher. Maybe, it is because through experience we can learn something about the world. People cannot simply know what is yellow, blue, green, etc. without having seen the color....

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caharin People always agreed that experience is the best teacher. Maybe, it is because through experience we can learn something about the world. People cannot simply know what is yellow, blue, green, etc. without having seen the color. People cannot explain the...

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Living on Interest

madonna143 @madonna143 (1737) • Philippines 10 Dec 06

Did you know that some people actually live on the interest of their money? It's simply called L.O.I. simply put as living on interest. I would like to share this goal of mine to be like some people whom i know who actually and...

banking

living on interest

money

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caharin oh, that's my ultimate goal. i'd like to be able to just stop working and live on interest from my investments and savings. i wish i could say i'm closer to that goal, but i'm not. i'm still trying, and won't stop until i get there. i've heard of some...

16 Dec 06

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Have You Ever "Skipped" The Holidays?

susangpyp @susangpyp (40) • United States 16 Dec 06

When I was a therapist many of my clients had big problems with the holidays. Several raised the possiblity of "skipping" the holidays, going on vacation or just not showing up. People seemed resentful about buying gifts when...

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caharin yes i have. i skipped last christmas coz i was at work, and i was the only one at the office that time. i didn't have anything else to do anyways so i just chose to work. friends invited me but i wasn't feeling all jolly last year.. this year i guess i'll...

16 Dec 06

What are U doing right now?

saeedsid @saeedsid (1119) • Pakistan 16 Dec 06

I am just listening to songs right now:))

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caharin i am at work just browsing mylot while waiting on hold for our client on the other line... this is pretty much what i do around these times..

16 Dec 06

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Why do many people not believe that money can be made online?

achyuta @achyuta (2851) • United States 16 Dec 06

Why do many people not believe? There is money to be had online. I think the primary reason is the scammers around. Also I think there is a sort of job mindset in most people. People prefer to work for others rather than work for...

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caharin i guess it's because a lot of people have either known some people with bad experiences online, or they have experienced it themselves. personally, i believe it's possible but you can't earn much without a lot of persistence and some investment. there will...

16 Dec 06

what type of TV shows do you watch?

CollectingMyThoughts @CollectingMyThoughts (304) • United States 16 Dec 06

I like to watch Desperate Housewives, Lost, CSI, CSI Miami, Law & Order, and the occasional “lifetime channel movie” on my TV . How about you? I’m always up to try out a new show I really like to listen to...

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caharin i watch Desperate Housewives, Lost, Grey's Anatomy, House, 2 and a half men, Joey, Numbers and a howle lot of anime... it's fun and it's the only other pastime i have at home when i'm not on the internet...

16 Dec 06