candy_benj

@candy_benj (32)

Philippines • Age 42

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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what kind of leadership ability do you want your employer to have..?

raynejasper @raynejasper (2322) • Philippines 2 Jul 08

.. I am currently employed and it seems that I am looking for some characteristics that I would like my superior to possess or develop.. There are instances where we/I need some support from her for activities related to our jobs...

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candy_benj i think more than leadership an employer should have a heart for their employees...

2 Jul 08

Have you ever had exceptionally good hospital food ??

Sissygrl @Sissygrl (10909) • Canada 10 Mar 08

As many of you know, i will soon be taking a short trip to the hospital, and i am not to eat before i go.. I may be there up to four days, i'm hoping for one overnight stay and then i can go home.. This is my first trip to this...

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candy_benj I've been to like 3 different hospitals in my entire adult life and i have never been to a hospital that serves food that does not tastes as hospital food...

11 Mar 08

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What will you do if you find out that your husband has another child?

fieryfrost @fieryfrost (316) • Philippines 28 Feb 07

I was watching a show yesterday and this was the scenario. The wife thought that the husband was cheating, she noticed that he's been going to a different state every other weekend so she followed him once. There she sees him...

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candy_benj first i will feel really sad and mad but i will be very sure to one thing he will never get to that again.....i leave him definitely there is no sense of staying in a relationship with out trust......

28 Feb 07

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Do you ever feel like your child is a walking advertisement?

mememama @mememama (3076) • United States 25 Feb 07

It just hit me today that my son has baby einstein logos on his toothbrush, Elmo on his shoes, Diego on his jacket, spiderman on his pajamas, and Mickey Mouse on his t-shirt. He's only 18 months! Why does most everything have some...

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candy_benj admit it or not we want the best for our children and it includes clothes and things they need.my daughter is the same with your son she wears branded clothes, shoes and my, toys that are much expensive than the pants im wearing now. may be we parents wnat the...

26 Feb 07

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what would you do if your father has never been a good parent to you?

djmarion @djmarion (4898) • Philippines 25 Feb 07

i have a friend who always complain about her father, she said that her father doesn't have work and has not work for as long as she was born, her mother is the one who provide for them, aside from that her father also is...

beating

drunk father

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candy_benj i have the same story my father is the exactly like that, what i did is i take it positively and see it as a challenge to do good so i can get out of the house and live on my own

26 Feb 07

My ex wrote me a letter. Should I write back?

thyst07 @thyst07 (2079) • United States 24 Feb 07

We broke up when I moved to a different state. I moved on fairly quickly- he still hasn't. We did say we'd keep in touch, but I'm not really sure what to say to him. He keeps talking about how he misses me and that if we hadn't...

boyfriend

distance

letters

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candy_benj i guess responding to letter is fine as long as it is a friendly letter. you can tell him that your happy with your life now and he deserves someone much better than you, that he will always hold a special place in your heart........

25 Feb 07

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Secret of being happy

ajithlal @ajithlal (14716) • India 25 Feb 07

Is there any secret to be happy always? I have seen some people being happy always without any tension or problems. Whats their secret. I always wonder. I tries hard to be happy like them, but most times cannot due to work...

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candy_benj i think happy people live life by the day.

25 Feb 07

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New Mommy with Lonliness Issues

rachelzwo @rachelzwo (310) • United States 24 Feb 07

Not only am I a new mommy, but I'm also a soldiers wife and live in a city where I know no one. My husband is the only other adult interaction I get during the day on most days and if I do happen to speak to someother adult that's...

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candy_benj i've gone through that stage and its not easy what i don is to keep my self busy and try no to think of the lonliness. why not watch movies at home,bake or just make the best of the time while your baby is still young sooner or later the baby will be all grown...

25 Feb 07

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Do you regret getting married and wish you should have stayed single?

steney @steney (1418) • Philippines 24 Feb 07

I heard a lot of horrible stories about marriage and being married. How it feels 'right before the rite', and realize after the honeymoon stage afterglow that it was more like a life sentence one has subjected herself/himself into...

marriage

marriage regrets

staying single

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candy_benj yes, I have lots of things ion mind that I cant do because I'm married.

25 Feb 07

Hair Fall, What is the remedy?

waytovj @waytovj (268) • India 24 Feb 07

A lot of people are suffering with this problem. Hair fall can be embarrasing at a young age. Nothing seems to work. DOes Anyone know a remedy for this?

hair fall

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candy_benj just try to shampoo every other day.....

25 Feb 07

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Hair Fall, What is the remedy?

waytovj @waytovj (268) • India 24 Feb 07

A lot of people are suffering with this problem. Hair fall can be embarrasing at a young age. Nothing seems to work. DOes Anyone know a remedy for this?

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candy_benj i have the same problem before all i did is to shampoo every other day, try also pantene hair fall shampoo try it for a month ;)

25 Feb 07

"I Get No Respect"

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 24 Feb 07

When I was growing up, I was taught to respect my elders and not to talk back even if they were wrong. The youth of today I find in my experience talk back if they feel they are wronged. If you are outside and an older...

respect

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candy_benj in this fast pace world, what we are thought before may not be applied today but in that situation we must always keep our composure and keep in mind that we are educated individuals that dont buy such things, just continue put a brave face to everybody, what...

25 Feb 07

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1 person

"I Get No Respect"

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 24 Feb 07

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7 people

candy_benj in thi fast pace world, what we are thought before may not be applied today but in that situation we must always keep our composure and keep in mind that we are educated individuals that dont buy such things, just continue put a brave face to everybody, what...

25 Feb 07