celiayun

@celiayun (11)

China • Age 40

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Advice for a friend with a broken heart

cynddvs @cynddvs (2948) • United States 22 Jan 08

One of my childhood friends just recently found out that her boyfriend has been cheating on her. They have a 6 month old baby together and she loves him dearly. But she is having a really hard time deciding if she will ever be...

alcohol

cheating

family

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celiayun the solution is simple,but the process is hard.she must know whom she cares more,the kids or her bf.If she choose kid,then talk to her boyfriend seriously after carefully thinking,try really hard to work problems out.If he is not willing to make effort,leave...

23 Jan 08

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what do you choose one,your kids or your husband

lynkawaai @lynkawaai (17) • Japan 21 Jan 08

for me,ofcourse my kids,,how about you??

kids

parenting

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celiayun my husband.Kids are young,they will have their future,friends,and lovers.they won't lack love from people around them.they have plenty of time to enjoy life.If I were married(I am not in marriage now),my husband will be the one most important to me,I am not...

23 Jan 08

living with my husband mother,father,my husband kids to his ex wife..

lynkawaai @lynkawaai (17) • Japan 21 Jan 08

im living with them,and we have a own child,my husband mom,doesnt like me,and his kids hate me,what will i do?anybody can help me?i will tried to talk to them but its not work,give me an advice to make have a long patience with...

difficult situation

life

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celiayun Talk to your husband,let him know all your feelings,then you both make great efforts to change the situation.If he didn't care for you,then he does not worth the pain you are taking,leave him,if you can't,just take care of your own kids and yourself.That's...

23 Jan 08

What kind of husband would you like to have?

lucy67 @lucy67 (819) • China 22 Jan 08

Would you like to have a husband who can't earn much money but can help you with housework and look after the kids or a husband who can earn lots of money and has high social position but has little time to be with you and the...

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celiayun er,it's hard to choose,I think every woman would like a husband with high income and a lot of time to be with the family.However,it's rare to find such a guy you like.so I would like a hunsband with income higher than average,and more time than those people in...

23 Jan 08

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Having Babies...Old Fashioned or New Trend...

twoey68 @twoey68 (13627) • United States 18 Jan 08

This discussion isn't meant to be judgemental or anything towards anyone but I am curious about something. How many women or couples waited to have children till they were married? If you have more than one child, do they have...

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celiayun you are not old-fashioned,you are a individual,you can choose the way to live your own life.In my opinion,having baby without knowing the father is no big deal,but I prefer the idea of having baby after marriage.

22 Jan 08

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1 person

Who Can Get A Real Love?

Bluestream @Bluestream (235) • China 16 Jan 08

We often hear of some man who can not get a female to love him because of his poverty. Without enough money, it is always hard to court or woo a female. It is always the case in every country and from ancient time till now. But we...

love and wealth

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celiayun I do think money is important,because money garantees a life in peace,but what really matters is the love,in my opinion.because maybe sometimes money is hard to earn,but we still can make a living.

22 Jan 08

love v/s parents

hemant_sharma25oct @hemant_sharma25oct (9) • India 20 Jan 08

hi! i have a situtation to which my friend is facing in these days === the problem is this that the girl with whom he is in love is pressurising him to leave his parent for her.plz tall me what should he do?

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celiayun If his parents have not done sth really bad to the girl,then I have to say,the girl is not worth him leaving his own parents and my respect.

22 Jan 08

Forced Separation

milondali07 @milondali07 (334) • United States 22 Jan 08

Could you imagine being separated by your true love because your country is telling you that you cannot be with them? The only person who ever listened to you and who really cared? Well in Saudi Arabia that's one woman's situation...

forced

separate

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celiayun well...I am the kind of person believe in personal freedom,I am not in that hard situation,I can not feel what they feel,however,I know,if she really love him so,she could not might give everything up for being with him.My suggestion is that,try to persuade...

22 Jan 08

how do you know when you've already found your one great true love

loudhummer14 @loudhummer14 (535) • Philippines 22 Jan 08

what are the signs for you to determine you've found your one true love. The one you'll be loving for the rest of your life whether you end up together or not.

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celiayun I have not found my great true love in my life,but I think I do know wether it's true or not when I come across one.In true love,you feel safe,believe in him/her,need him/her like the air you breathe,maybe you do not have such strong feeling ,but you do need...

22 Jan 08

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Do you believe in First Love Never Dies?

ian_mbm1986 @ian_mbm1986 (12) • Philippines 22 Jan 08

For me, yes, I am believe in this phrase. How about you? Give me a reason why did you believe with this phrases, just curious. hehehe

first love

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celiayun I am believe in this,because after so many years I found no other relationship as pure as it...what I want to say is,er,the purity and sweetness we had in those years,in the relationship,has gone...

22 Jan 08

Still be friends after parting?

jamesarmstrong @jamesarmstrong (251) • China 17 Jan 08

to begin with, I'm single.ha-ha Could lovers be friends after parting? I have seen some of my classmates' blogs about the subject.They ever believed that their love would be everlasting. but after reading their blogs I know that...

friend

love

part

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celiayun a few days ago,I saw some words like below:If you and your ex's still be friends after parting,then maybe you both were not really in love or one of you devote much more than the other.I don't know if I have expressed myself clear,but I do friend with some of...

22 Jan 08

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