chandrikas

@chandrikas (47)

India • Age 45

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Clearly Define the Person You Want to Be

prudhvi27 @prudhvi27 (414) • India 21 Sep 08

Who exactly do you want to be? What kind of person do you want to be? What are the personal ideals? Whom do you admire? What are their special traits that you would make our own? It's time to stop being vague. If you wish to...

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chandrikas That's a fantastic discussion topic! I want to be independent in every action I do. I want to build a beautiful family and raise a wonderful daughter. I love cooking and want to cook healthy food. I want to do all my duties properly and on time. I want to do...

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Clearly Define the Person You Want to Be

prudhvi27 @prudhvi27 (414) • India 21 Sep 08

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chandrikas That's a fantastic discussion topic! I want to be independent in every action I do. I want to build a beautiful family and raise a wonderful daughter. I want to do all my duties properly and on time. I want to do Pujas to God regularly. I like to be very...

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How to rob the Feb.

routinezh @routinezh (2) • China 20 Sep 08

I am planning to rob the Feb recently, do anybody get some good advices here.

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chandrikas what is Feb?

22 Sep 08

Are you a family type of person?

ronaldinu @ronaldinu (12422) • Malta 20 Sep 08

I love my family, my parents, my two brothers and sisters. However I am not much of a family man. Although I do like to see them once in a while I do not seek re unions very much. Although we live short distances from each other,...

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chandrikas Yes, I am family type of a person. I love to cook and serve all my relatives who come to my place often. My husband's family is a big one and so are his friend's circle. So people keep coming and going. At times it could be a trouble, like when I am not...

22 Sep 08

What time do you go to bed?

BriNbai @BriNbai (912) • United States 20 Sep 08

It is 11:45 right now and Iam getting sleepy!! I think its because I had abusy day today. lately Ive been going to bed around 12 or 1230 but because I make myself not because I am sleepy.LOL I could stay awake all...

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chandrikas I go to bed any time between 10:30 to 11:30.

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will you give it back or just keep it?

punkix @punkix (658) • Philippines 14 Sep 08

if you happen to be walking down the street or riding the public transportation or anyting similar situation and you happen to see a person and then he/ she happens to drop his wallet and it is obvious that you see that there is...

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chandrikas I would definitely give it back to the person, because I have never wanted other's money. It is equivalent to stealing his money. If we take other's money, our money will be lost in someother way. And when the person finds his wallet is missing and cries or...

22 Sep 08

If Jesus will ask you to be his wife

ronreyes @ronreyes (4724) • Philippines 18 Sep 08

Would you accept his proposal? Imagine Jesus Christ, who (according to Wikipedia) has almost 2 billion followers who admires him so much; others treat him as the greatest man that lived in this world; and the one who shaped...

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chandrikas I don't think I have the qualifications to marry a great soul like Jesus. So, I will feel embarrased to answer him. At the same time I cannot reject him, as I will not go against the will of God. Also, it would give me the opportunity to serve him better, by...

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My brother got killed ....in a dream

ronaldinu @ronaldinu (12422) • Malta 21 Sep 08

Yesterday I woke up in the middle of night. I had a terrible nightmare. I dreamed that my brother got killed. I woke up with a fright but I don't remember the exact details. All that I remember is that I was frightened during the...

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chandrikas Hey Ronalidinu, don't worry. Because, they say if we dream about the death of someone, it means they have a long life. So, your brother is going to have a long life. Dreams in general are the result of the impressions and fears we have deep inside our heart....

21 Sep 08

breastmilk or formula????

elenivozaxojevon @elenivozaxojevon (20) • Philippines 21 Sep 08

I'm pregnant right now... What bothers me is what to give to my baby when she is born... Is it breast milk of formula milk.... I want to give her breast milk as much as possible but i am a full time worker... How am I going to do...

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chandrikas Yes, do give her mother feed as much as possible. Because, that will give her immunity against diseases in future too. Also, having mother feed will make her more attached to you. How long will be your maternity leave? Try to give her mother feed alone for...

21 Sep 08

Suggestions on how to get my daughter to stop stealing

scorpio19 @scorpio19 (1363) 17 Sep 08

This is an ongoing problem with my 13 year old daughter, she is always taking money off me, not hugh amounts but it's wrong regardless of the amount I think. I have tried everything I can possibly think of to try and get her...

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chandrikas Hi...I can understand your feelings. But please be relaxed as things will change and your daughter will stop doing this kind of things soon. Please try to understand, she steals those things, which she feels, she lacks. The only way to stop this is by giving...

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Homeless people

BriNbai @BriNbai (912) • United States 13 Aug 08

I live in a small city outside of San Francisco and i really enjoy going out to the city.Well every time i go there are tons of homeless people.I always try to have lots of spare change with me and I give it out.How about you?When...

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chandrikas I always give some money to those beggars, who pass by me on the streets. Whenever, I see lepors or beggars who are handicapped, I give more money. But, if I see some healthy people begging, I don't spare any money for them. Regarding, your friend's opinion, I...

18 Sep 08

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What is the one that scares you??? Is that ghost or darkness????

vidhyavini @vidhyavini (6111) • India 17 Sep 08

Hi everyone. Some do believe that there is ghost and some don't. The people who say that there is no ghost also are afraid of something. They have a fear when going in dark. I have seen a lot of persons like that....

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chandrikas I am neither scared of ghosts nor of darkness. Infact, once when a rumour arose that there is a ghost in one of locked apartments in our building, I went alone and saw through the window, but couldn't find any. I have a doubt that ghosts exist but not scared...

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would you adopt?

BriNbai @BriNbai (912) • United States 16 Sep 08

I have always wanted to adopt as long as I remember I knew that I wanted to adopt a child.I have told family and friends this and they always look at me like I am the weirdest person in the world. When I was really young I had a...

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chandrikas Yes, I want to adopt a child. Now, I am married and have a 5 year old daughter. So, I would love to adopt a boy baby. I don't want to have any more kids of my own. My husband also feels the same and we have the idea of doing it once we convince the elders in...

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Do you curse a lot?

mchavez11 @mchavez11 (1406) • Philippines 15 Sep 08

We all have our own ways of expression. Especially in cursing, some of us use it due from negative reaction, anger, amazement or simply using it as a filler. This kind of expression is what we called cursing. I noticed that even...

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chandrikas No, I never curse anyone. If somebody irritates me, I just stop talking to them and if possible leave that place. I report to God inside my heart about them and my anger goes off. I have the fear that cursing someone might bring back the curse to me, as bad...

16 Sep 08

My girlfriend want to marry me, but I have no money, what can I do?

neulichuang @neulichuang (85) • China 15 Sep 08

I love my girlfriend very much,my girlfriend love me too.She wants to marry me.But I don't have a house and a car,but she said she doesn't mind about that,she just want to be stay with me.But I am fraid that I can't give my...

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chandrikas You can go ahead and get married. But please don't have a baby till the time you get settled. Try to lead a simple life and save as much money as possible. Control your expenses but don't control your love. Everyone needs love and can be happy only with love....

16 Sep 08

What would you do if your husband does not want to work?

yenwie84 @yenwie84 (1344) • Malaysia 15 Sep 08

In this case,what would you do? I have a colleague who is facing this problem now. She always need to solve her husband's problems. She has to pay all the bills and loans monthly. Currently,her husband was fired and is now...

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chandrikas First of all, I will try to find out if he is really stressed out or just acting. If he is really stressed, I will shower him with love, take care of him, send him for a vacation and also take him for a counselling to a professional. I would try to make...

16 Sep 08

Is it true all ladies become unreasonable when they get pregnant?

yenwie84 @yenwie84 (1344) • Malaysia 15 Sep 08

I wonder how true is this statement but my colleague told me so. His wife is pregnant now and he is having hard time with his wife sometimes. His wife always crave for unusual food in the middle of the night which are sometimes...

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chandrikas Yes, it is true. When we are pregnant our apetite increases as the baby consumes all the food we take. So it is necessary for us to eat a lot and nothing wrong in eating at midnights too. Craving for unreasonable stuff is also quite natural during pregnancy ....

16 Sep 08

For Those Outside the U.S.

Marie Anne @Ldyjarhead (10233) • United States 13 Sep 08

I've often wondered this, and since we have so many members here that aren't for the U.S., what better place to ask than myLot? If you live outside of the U.S. and have another language as your first language, what is your...

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chandrikas Hi...I am from India. Every state(Province) in my country has a different languages. Hindi is our national language. I belong to the state of Tamilnadu which lies in the Southern region of India. The primary language of Tamilnadu is called 'Tamil'. We speak...

16 Sep 08

God can you hear me?

Amywrites @Amywrites (143) • United States 15 Sep 08

Hello MyLotter's I wanted to share this write with as many people as I could in hopes of finding those out there that have been wondering the same thing as I have all of my life. I have had a great deal of pain in my life from...

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chandrikas Dear Amywrites, I am shocked and very sorry to hear the events that has happened in your life. I am sure you are a great person with lot of courage and confidence to have come across all these tough situations. I believe in God and I want to tell you he...

15 Sep 08

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Do You Fear Death If It Comes In 10 Years???

Lejandro @Lejandro (1530) • United States 15 Sep 08

Do you fear death in general? What if it comes in 10 years what would be your concerns? Would rather die suffering due to an illness and suffer months in a hospital or would like it to be instantaneous like in an airplain crash?...

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chandrikas No, I don't fear death even if it is happening tommorrow. I would prefer a peaceful death like dying when asleep. I will be happy to die as I believe it will take me closer to God. As for my family, I am sure God will take care of them and things will be...

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