charmvenbian

@charmvenbian (13)

Philippines • Age 43

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Mother Admits She Doesn't Love Her Daughter!

charmvenbian I believe that her child will grow with very low self esteem because even her own mother did not show to her the love that she wanted, the love that is supposedly be given to her. As a parent myself, it is our duties to show love and care to our children, who...

30 Jan 09

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What is the true meaning of love and being in love?

charmvenbian @charmvenbian (13) • Philippines 22 Jan 09

Someone said, you will know the real meaning of love when you fall in love. Isnt it true that nobody can speak the truth about love unless he is or was in love? For me, love means that you trust the person, you would do...

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Is it wrong to be a stay-at-home-wife?

daisyapril12 @daisyapril12 (39) • Singapore 21 Jan 09

Hi readers, what do you think of being a stay-at-home-wife? Is it a sin for not working to bring in money? Homemakers are not bringing in money but they contribute to make the living place a comfortable one. Let me share with you...

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charmvenbian No, its not a sin to being stay at home wife, good for you, you have the oppurtunity to do the housemaking since it is our responsibility to do that and our husband should be the one to bring in money since you have been working for 8 years so I think its time...

22 Jan 09

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are you happy with your present relationship?

donnakristel @donnakristel (1704) • Philippines 21 Jan 09

are there people like me who are happy in their relationships? what makes you happy with that person? i am happy because my guy is sharing his life to me. i am happy because he makes me laugh even his corniest joke. i am...

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charmvenbian Yes, I am very happy with my relationship now, my husband is a loving, caring and supportive husband. He makes sure that we are safe with our children. I can say now that he really matures as a husband and as a father to my children. he is a good provider to...

21 Jan 09

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Infidelity - Would you tell your children?

HeavenUnaware @HeavenUnaware (1757) • United States 15 Jan 09

If your husband or wife cheated on you - would you tell your children or keep it to yourself forever? If you decided to work on your marriage, despite the cheating that took place - do you think you would ever tell your...

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charmvenbian Well for me, I will tell my children because they have the right to know though you can tell them the whole story one by one because its a very difficult situation specially when your children is close to both of you. I have been in a situation like that...

21 Jan 09

Do you have regrets or think "What if"?

kayla_7602 @kayla_7602 (704) • Canada 20 Jan 09

Do you have regrets or do you believe that everything happens for a reason. I think i beleive everything happens for a reason I may have moments of regrets but as time passes from the situation i was regretting and I look back on...

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charmvenbian I dont have regrets what happened to my life now because all that was happening in our life now is all our choice and I do believe that though were not aware of that said circumstances it is still the will of God that those things happened in our life.We just...

20 Jan 09

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How is the economy affecting you? I am losing my job

cbreeze @cbreeze (1205) • United States 20 Jan 09

Hello Everyone, We are all aware of the condition of our economy. I am just curious how it is affecting you. I was just notified late last week that my position will be eliminated effective 2/13/2009. Saturday when I went to the...

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charmvenbian It is really affecting us because my husband just lose his job because of the global crisis, our budget were destroyed because Im now the only one to support our family I have 2 kids going to school i dont know if I will be able to cope up with this, my...

20 Jan 09

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Has internet & cellphone made our life disturbed, as we've no time for ourself?

Informer @Informer (802) • India 19 Jan 09

Now a days we r regularly connected with the world. We remain informed about whats happening around us and with friends. Anyone can reach us anytime, whether it's day or night. thanx to cell phone and internet.But I feel that it...

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charmvenbian Internet and cellphone is a very big help to our life nowadays because without this two things we cannot communicate well with our loved ones, with the help of this 2 technologies we have made our life easier.This two give us much more information on whats...

20 Jan 09

How many romantic relations have u had yet?

infinite_zoom @infinite_zoom (118) • India 19 Jan 09

Many people tell their spouse/partner that he/she is the only one they have ever loved. I dont see a chance. Everyone will have felt infatuation to someone during each period of their lives. How many have you had?????

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charmvenbian I have only one partner that I have loved and I will be loved for the rest of my life and thats my husband..He is a very responsible father and husband, he really sees to it if we are secured enough..He looks for our needs he is the perfect man for me though...

20 Jan 09

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you will die tomorrow

nyao2x @nyao2x (53) • Philippines 19 Jan 09

if that's so.. what are the (craziest) things that you like to do before dying? and what is the last thing that you will do seconds before that happens?

life

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charmvenbian I think i will panic, but first thing I should do is ask forgiveness to God for the things I have done which did nt please him and secondly for my kids that when I die they will live like I am just around them I will tell them that i love them so much then I...

20 Jan 09

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Staying together for the child's sake?

maple_kisses @maple_kisses (2156) • Philippines 19 Jan 09

[b][i]Now my baby's dad has been in contact with me regularly, asking about the baby, forcing child support. I know I should be angry with him for abandoning us but then again I've always been a forgiving person. Besides, no...

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charmvenbian You should give him a chance because I think your baby's dad has transformed, you should give him a chance to prove that hes really worth it otherwise if he did the same mistakes again then you can just dump him easily. Do not deprive your baby of his daddy's...

20 Jan 09

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I have a happy Baby boy....how bout you?

redberry @redberry (178) • Philippines 20 Jan 09

I'm just really glad and happy about my little baby boy. He's 10months old now and he's really friendly with people. He doesn't cry when sees a stranger, the funny thing is he actually smiles at them. It does worry me at times,...

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charmvenbian Yes, babies at that age usually respond to the people in their environment, but usually some babies really have tantrums and babies tantrums will really come out like when their hungry, or sleepy or having discomfort on their diapers its maybe it is full thats...

20 Jan 09

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