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chi2nasrin @chi2nasrin (1101) • Malaysia 6 May 12

Is it true that when you have doubt, you should not go ahead and get married? Because that is just what I feel like now. See... my fiance is working offshore. So once he goes to work, it is for 2 months ++. Of course they don't...

doubt

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marry

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cherryblossom He sounds like someone that I know. He's one of those people who easily get sucked in by something. The solution is just to keep the alcohol away from himself. Making it less available will probably help. The fact that his relatives don't care about his habit...

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jricky1 @jricky1 (6797) • China 16 Apr 12

Music has no boundries and this makes us become friend.What musical instruments do you play or how you love music? I think composer is also a great job and the people is such talented.

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cherryblossom I know how to play the piano and the clarinet. I listen to music a lot but I don't practice much anymore to be honest because there never seems to be enough time. I used to practice a lot though. I want to learn how to play either the violin or the flute in...

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Heather Echola @GardenGerty (168479) • United States 24 May 11

We have so many toys and games that look realistic, is it possible that we have subverted the sense that kids need to stay safe? This idea came to me after the little boy in my other discussion climbed a fence at a zoo and got...

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cherryblossom I just wrote a lengthy response to this, and it didn't even register. Apparently I wasn't logged in. How annoying! Anyway, I will attempt to remember what it is I wrote...: I think that children are especially influenced by what they see on television....

25 May 11

Heather Echola @GardenGerty (168479) • United States 24 May 11

We have so many toys and games that look realistic, is it possible that we have subverted the sense that kids need to stay safe? This idea came to me after the little boy in my other discussion climbed a fence at a zoo and got...

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cherryblossom I haven't thought about this much before, but you make a good point. It is possible, I think it could be contributing.

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ajk111 @ajk111 (2495) 24 May 11

When i click on "new" discussions i look at certain things to encourage me to respond. One thing i have noticed is the amount of avatars that have no picture. I find this off putting as perhaps subconciously i find this...

avatar

mylot

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cherryblossom What's having an avatar matter so much? I know it "looks nice", but I don't see much purpose to it. Also, I am not sure what will be considered okay as an avatar. Isn't there some rule for example, of not being allowed to just take some random picture off the...

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iviecute @iviecute (4) • Philippines 25 May 11

It is to become happy happiness is not a life without problems, but rather the strength to overcome our way. There is no such thing as a problem free-life difficulties are unavoidable.. For your own opinion what is the...

life

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cherryblossom I'm trying to figure it out. I think that is what we spend most of life doing- trying to find out what our purpose is. I want to know one day what I can do to change the world somehow. Even a small impact would be nice. I want to feel proud of something some...

25 May 11

santosmarichris @santosmarichris (1849) • Philippines 24 May 11

Yes, I do. I love watching movies and even eating out alone. I also love shopping alone. Of course it would be fun if friends would join me, but if everybody else is busy, I just do it alone. I think it's really fun!...

alone

enjoy

life

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cherryblossom Yeah. I especially like to walk in the rain alone. I enjoy getting lost in a book too. As for movies, I don't like watching those alone as much; I prefer to watch those with other people... I love seeing another person's reactions to the movie when I am...

25 May 11

MsPatriciaDV @MsPatriciaDV (635) • Philippines 5 May 11

I'm really amused with Japanese Manga. I'm currently reading Yuyu Hakusho, the TV series and movie of which I have already completed watching some years ago, but they said the Manga version is different from the TV series, so I am...

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cherryblossom Yep, Vic Zhou is in it. I watched it a really long time ago. I remember it was good though :)

10 May 11

MsPatriciaDV @MsPatriciaDV (635) • Philippines 5 May 11

I'm really amused with Japanese Manga. I'm currently reading Yuyu Hakusho, the TV series and movie of which I have already completed watching some years ago, but they said the Manga version is different from the TV series, so I am...

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cherryblossom Oh! I do not know if there is an anime version of it haha. I was referring to the live action version. :)

10 May 11

Bryanx54 @Bryanx54 (644) 8 May 11

When you've lost a item of value like car key, wallet, work and other objects, what do you do to try and find out where you have lost it? do you panic? do you clamly retrace your steps? What would you do?

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cherryblossom First I check the place where I "most likely" put the object. Then I try to retrace my steps for about 5 minutes. If after those 5 minutes, I haven't found it yet, I feel a sense of panic if it is a very important item and will yell at myself. Then I keep...

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Suzieqmom @Suzieqmom (2755) • United States 8 May 11

or will it tarnish or otherwise gets damaged over time? I know you can wear gold jewelry without too much risk in the shower, or even in a pool, but I am not sure about silver. Does anyone know when/where/how often it is safe to...

jewelry

proper care for silver

silver chain

sterling silver

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cherryblossom I think it will gradually tarnish if you keep putting it in water, so I would recommend just taking it off when you shower and put it back on afterwards. This is what I do with an everyday necklace of mine. :)

9 May 11

whengcat @whengcat (1457) • Philippines 7 May 11

Lately, I find myself easily irritated and can't focus on the things I want to happen. Sometimes my husband would ask me, "why are you so grumpy?"......Would someone share with me how to stay focused and avoid feeling so negative?...

staying focused

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cherryblossom I always think more positively after I have exercised for at least 30 minutes. It always works for me no matter how grumpy I am to begin with. It improves my focus a lot too! Hope this helps :)

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Opalina143 @opalina143 (1240) • Morristown, New Jersey 5 Mar 11

I got a Kindle for Christmas. I had been wanting one, even though I have many books, regular books, that I haven't read yet. There are a lot of free books you can download with your Kindle, and I wanted to take advantage of that....

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cherryblossom The only reason that the classics are free is because their copyright (or whatever it is called), has expired. I think it will take some time to get used to the feeling of reading from that small screen. I don't have an e-book reader, but I really want to get...

7 May 11

albto_568 @albto_568 (1268) • Costa Rica 28 Mar 11

I enjoy reading very much, I have lots and lots of books, recently, I also enjoy finding themes to read in my computer, but it tires me a little, and the bright of the screen tends to tire my eyes, I still prefer the good old...

books reading

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cherryblossom I prefer reading from paper books. For one, the screen's glare begins irritating my eyes with prolonged exposure. When reading a textbook, I like to make notes in the margins also for example. I can't really do that on the computer. Lastly, there is no...

7 May 11

damned_dle @damned_dle (3942) • Philippines 7 May 11

Brilliant people gets depressed more? I noticed that most of depressed people are brilliant.... Do you agree? Why and why now? Is there any scientific proof for it?

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cherryblossom Saying that "brilliant people get depressed more" and "most of depressed people are brilliant" is two different things.

7 May 11

damned_dle @damned_dle (3942) • Philippines 7 May 11

Brilliant people gets depressed more? I noticed that most of depressed people are brilliant.... Do you agree? Why and why now? Is there any scientific proof for it?

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cherryblossom I would not say that most depressed people are brilliant...there are people who are depressed for very different reasons. Just because it has happened that there are many known depressed people who have done brilliant things, doesn't mean that there is a...

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cherryblossom @cherryblossom (79) • Canada 6 May 11

What do you do for fun with your significant other? Here are some which I can think up: movies, restaurant, ice skating, bowling, watching a play, swimming, a sport, pool (billiard), visiting a gallery, amusement parks, miniature...

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relationship

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cherryblossom Thanks for the ideas :)

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