clover

@clover (104)

Malaysia • Age 39

Joined myLot 20 years ago

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If you were able, would you have hired a nanny for your newborn?

kynni204 @kynni204 (2031) • United States 6 Apr 07

That first day home from the hospital we all just want to sleep. The first three months of your baby's life can be exhausting. Did you enjoy getting up in the middle of the night sometimes for hours. Some nights I just wanted...

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clover I won't, because I want to be the one who grow my child up. I want to enjoy being a true mom who take care of her childrens' affair, not some stranger whom I afraid will tone day be so close to my child as their role become a role of a mother.

7 Apr 07

What do you think about kids sleeping on the floor?

sunshine4 @sunshine4 (8703) • United States 6 Apr 07

My 6 yr old daughter loves to sleep on the floor of her bedroom. For the past 2 weeks, she has made herself a nice sleeping area on her floor and insists that she is sleeping there. I figure it isn't something to fight about since...

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clover If she's comfortable then be it, people mights say. but I see your concer on her health... I'm not an expert in this but I somehow believe the same, at least there's something like blanket on the floor to sleep on...

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Should community service be required for high school students?

thrwbckjay67 @thrwbckjay67 (2870) • United States 6 Apr 07

I went to a secular private school for high school and they required us to do 25 hours of community service a year in order to graduate. It was 25 for each year, with 15 of those hours per year in the first three years dedicated...

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clover I honestly feel that this kind of thing is a burden, I mean as a highschooler, even reading the books is burden. eventhough my heart is not at all for this kind of activities as I'll prefer to lay back and all, but I also believe that this is somehow...

7 Apr 07

Do you feel uncomfortable when someone stands too close to you?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 6 Apr 07

Today is Good Friday and I met up with some friends for lunch. None of us is a Christian so we were just taking the opportunity to catch up. I took the train to my destination and it was quite a crowd. It is a public holiday and...

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clover everyone has their own comfort zone, but then I believe there should be consideration too. me myself need my own space, even with friends I'm not that comfortable beeing to close what more with a stranger. When chatting with friends, I tend to step back a bit...

7 Apr 07

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Handwriting

lacurandera @lacurandera (335) • United States 23 Mar 07

Which do you prefer--cursive or print? i print; my cursive is terrible, illegible and just ugly. BTW- I've head many teachers complaining because elementary schools are focusing less on cursive writing and more on typing...

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clover I can do both, but in Malaysia, cursive is not that really important for letter writing compared to the western country... I used to think what's the issue of cursive or print? but then it might be culture related...

24 Mar 07

Do you eat street food?

25th_Stargazer @25th_Stargazer (887) • Philippines 23 Mar 07

When you travel, do you try to eat the street food you see in that country? Or do you eat street food in your country? What are your favorite street food? One of the many street foods in the Philippines I would like to share to...

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clover I used to buy hotdog and burger at street vendor, RAMLI burger for example is quite popular for local burger, it's nothing compared to mcD, KFC etc, but I guess because it's synonim with 'local' that it's popular

24 Mar 07

What do you think? Older and more experienced or younger and trainable?

hockeygal4ever @hockeygal4ever (10021) • United States 23 Mar 07

I tend to go for younger men, not for their trainability but more so for their personality and zest for life. Men my age are generally (not all I'm sure) very down on life and looking for a maid and housekeeper with a part time...

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clover I'm still young so I'm not someone who is really familiar with the real world. I prefer older and matured guy over younger one because I'm the type of domestic girl who would do houseworks etc.. so I tend to go for someone who can lead the family and I don't...

24 Mar 07

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Would you choose family or career?

jhartana @jhartana (1084) • Australia 22 Mar 07

Now this is a question that may prove challenging to all of you. To all husbands and wifes do you choose family or career? I know all of families would choose family over the career. Parents would spend their precious time with...

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clover Family is very important to me, I know to choose between career and family is very difficult as family is something we hold dear to our live and career is a mean for us to survive in this competitive world... what I'm replying here is based on what I'm...

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Do you still get a cake on your birthday?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 7 Mar 07

Birthdays are typically once-a-year affairs except for those born in a leap year. I remember when I was young, my parents would always get a cake for me. We will stick in some candles, sing the birthday song, and then blow them...

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clover I don't really like eating cake but I love having cakes on birthday.. my family will eat all of that so I don't feel much guilty for not eating them much... I love having it because I love the feeling of having the cake... I don't believe in blowing candles...

7 Mar 07

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Foods that kill us softly!!!

Rexy_leigh @Rexy_leigh (1189) • Philippines 6 Mar 07

We already knew that smoking is one of the noted things that kill us softly...another one is excessive intake of alcohol...then junk foods is also included in the list.. ok, I knew that since I was in elementary...but what I was...

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clover smoking and alcohol is no 1 in my NO-NO list... they are killing us becaus it's intoxicating. although junk food is bad as well, they're my guilty pleasure, I'm trying to stop that crave though

7 Mar 07

online occupations

Jaahda @Jaahda (31) • Australia 7 Mar 07

I have been researching occupations and ways to earn a real income online, i.e. - enough to pay mortgages, bills, food and renovations etc. I'd sure be interested in hearing if anyone else out there has found a way to make a...

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clover I hope this help.

7 Mar 07

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how much do you LOVE your PARENTS?

PiperCharmed @PiperCharmed (457) • Australia 24 Feb 07

its strange how with your family there is an unconditional love. but does that sometimes make us feel obligated to love them? i love my parents so much but there are so many times when i feel like i hate them too. but i guess hate...

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clover I'll try to do anything I can for them, I know if one day we'll faced a disaster I believe in my whole heart that I'll risk even my heart if that's what needed for them to stay alive. It's not because of obligatory thingy to love them, I love them because I...

25 Feb 07

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Language At mylot..

Nendra161205 @Nendra161205 (260) • Indonesia 19 Feb 07

Can we used any language (not english) to post in MYlot????

language

mylot

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clover it would be inconvenience to the members that's why mylot is stating that this should be in English only. I can't imagine having to go through many of other language post just to reach an english one and worst of all not all english post is worth to respond...

25 Feb 07

i get ABUSED at home...what should i do?

PiperCharmed @PiperCharmed (457) • Australia 24 Feb 07

i live in a house with my mother, two brothers and my mothers boyfriend. for a long time he has been hitting me. its not always hard enough to leave a bruise but sometimes it is. i love my mum so much and know she loves him, if...

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clover you shouldn't play around now as you need to inform the authority like RIGHT NOW. I know u love ur mom, but she need to know that her boyfriend is not an angel she would like to believe. it might hurt her I know but by letting her know right now would be...

25 Feb 07

Sorry seems to be hardest word - is this true for you?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 24 Feb 07

It is only a small word, and yet so many people let pride get in the way, and find it the hardest word to say. As a result of this, arguments "fester" over time, and families and relationships can be ripped apart. I admit that I...

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clover I believe in 'sorry' when I do wrong. Sometimes I admit of doing wrong but don't realize it, BUT I'll try my best to utter the word sorry whenever I believe I'm on the wrong side. people should learn to apologise if they do wrong ^___^ as sorry can melt a...

25 Feb 07

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What have Islamic peoples done for the world lately?

ConservativeArtist @ConservativeArtist (201) • United States 24 Feb 07

When historians look back at the arab world in the 20th century, what will they say it contributed to the world. The West has made amazing strides in aviation, medicine, technology, and civil rights in the twentieth century. East...

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clover oh well they can't make much contribution as the U.S has been bombing many muslim countries that they killed prospective contributors. geez.

25 Feb 07

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Do you like to shop or do you only shop when you have to?

rx4life @rx4life (1930) • United States 24 Feb 07

Are you the type of person that gets a "shopper's high" from a new pair of shoes or a new handbag?..Do you run to the mall or the shopping area in your city just to go and see what is there or do you drag yourself there knowing...

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clover I'm quite a shopaholic, but to categorize myself which kind of shoppers would be hard as I differ from time to time. However when it comes to clothing I'm quite an impulse buyer although I migyht regret it later when I found better clothes. But then I thought...

25 Feb 07

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