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cyatibarra @cyatibarra (123) • Philippines 6 Sep 10

The important thing is not to be bitter over life's difficulties. Learn to let go of the past, recognize that everyday wont be sunny and when you find yourself lost in darkness and despair, remember,Its only in the black of night...

life

relationships

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dharma1 Well Spoken cyatibarra, it is in our failures and disastrous experiences where we have the greatest opportunity to learn and grow. If life was always easy and painless it would also be dull. The bright can't be bright without dark. That is not to say that if...

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MagicalBubbles @MagicalBubbles (5103) • Canada 6 Sep 10

My sister in law's boyfriend is a dairy farmer. They came over for supper last night and he started talking about his farm. He has about 300 cows and runs the family farm with his 22 year old son. They have NO respect...

violence to farm animals

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dharma1 To say that's the world we live in and shrug it off like its no big deal is the reason why the world is so cruel. For those people whom think that a dog is mans best friend and a cow or a pig is dinner. Its really a case of ignorance and lack of true empathy...

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sweetbarbie22 @sweetbarbie22 (304) • Philippines 1 Aug 08

Im pretty sure that this line is very popular. But everytime I go further with this line, I can't help but feel confused. Why would our life begins at this age when since birth we already live or begin our life! What's the...

life at forty

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dharma1 I think that makes a fair amount of sense however everyone matures at there own pace. I have met elderly folks that I don't think have learned much and young people wise beyond their years. However as you mentioned most probably do fall into this live and...

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dharma1 @dharma1 (35) • United States 16 Apr 08

I have a boy cat. He has this annoying thing he does every night. He howls and goes on and on Its so loud and disturbing to my sleep sometimes I have to put him in the bathroom. during the day when I am awake he just sleeps. I...

boy cats

cats

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dharma1 Thank you Zydecokitten I agree I would be pretty nervous to let him roam around out here. Just the traffic scares me. I bet your right he is my first cat. My mom and sister are allergic so I always had dogs. Thanks everyone that posted a reply If anyone has...

16 Apr 08

dharma1 @dharma1 (35) • United States 16 Apr 08

I think It would be interesting if we all shared a little about what really hurts us. For me I cry when I'm frustrated with myself. I cry when a friend or loved one gets hurt. I sometimes even cry when I'm angry. What makes you...

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dharma1 Ya thats similar to me thank you. I'm not sure if crying is a natural response to frustration or anger but it does seem to help. Its got to beat staying upset or taking your anger out on someone else.

16 Apr 08

dharma1 @dharma1 (35) • United States 16 Apr 08

I have a boy cat. He has this annoying thing he does every night. He howls and goes on and on Its so loud and disturbing to my sleep sometimes I have to put him in the bathroom. during the day when I am awake he just sleeps. I...

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dharma1 Ah I will try that today before going to bed. It seems as though he is on the opposite sleep schedule as me because no I am home during the day but he sleeps a lot of the time. He has a lot of toy's but is not into many of them he does like one however so I...

16 Apr 08

dharma1 @dharma1 (35) • United States 16 Apr 08

I have a boy cat. He has this annoying thing he does every night. He howls and goes on and on Its so loud and disturbing to my sleep sometimes I have to put him in the bathroom. during the day when I am awake he just sleeps. I...

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dharma1 Thank you Bethygrl Yeah I think your right. I will get him fixed and see if that fixes his issues.

16 Apr 08

dharma1 @dharma1 (35) • United States 16 Apr 08

I have a boy cat. He has this annoying thing he does every night. He howls and goes on and on Its so loud and disturbing to my sleep sometimes I have to put him in the bathroom. during the day when I am awake he just sleeps. I...

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dharma1 Thank you ShepherdSpy No my Yogi has not been Neutered. I don't let him outside yet because of that reason. However he slept through the night just fine at my old house. I am planning on getting him Neutered soon. I'm still unsure if I want him to be an...

16 Apr 08

dharma1 @dharma1 (35) • United States 16 Apr 08

While reading this quote in a book. I took sometime to really think about what that means. To me this means that our perspectives are limited to our own wants and desires. I could be really upset that I got fired from a job and...

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dharma1 Thanks Bethygrl ya I agree it is amazing how things turn out. The whole murderer thing is for sure not what I want in a friend or my friends to do. I don't think anyone should hurt anyone. I was just using a drastic example of how we don't really know every...

16 Apr 08

dharma1 @dharma1 (35) • United States 16 Apr 08

I have a boy cat. He has this annoying thing he does every night. He howls and goes on and on Its so loud and disturbing to my sleep sometimes I have to put him in the bathroom. during the day when I am awake he just sleeps. I...

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dharma1 @dharma1 (35) • United States 16 Apr 08

I think It would be interesting if we all shared a little about what really hurts us. For me I cry when I'm frustrated with myself. I cry when a friend or loved one gets hurt. I sometimes even cry when I'm angry. What makes you...

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mvpriyank @mvpriyank (407) • India 13 Mar 08

Hello every one!!! Do u think if we have positive attitude that we can earn so much of money than can we really earn????

money

positive

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dharma1 meditation I think if your gonna meditate learn to accept everything don't label something as good bad negative or positive. Then your thinking is not thinking its just awareness.

16 Apr 08

minnie_98214 @minnie_98214 (10557) • United States 15 Apr 08

Ok this is about my son who is 8 years old. He is driving us crazy and im not sure what to do. He was just tested at school and they seem to think hes depressed. He has been a bit sad sometimes but sometimes hes very happy but hes...

kids

naughty

punishment

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dharma1 Perhaps your son is just experimenting with his emotions and your reactions to them. I would ignore most of the moodiness and tell him that your all going to enjoy yourselves if he wants to be a part of that happiness its up to him. Kids are smart and they are...

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cream97 @cream97 (29087) • United States 15 Apr 08

People seem to tell me that I don't need anymore kids. I have three. I am 29 years old. I am married. I have been married for 6 years now. All of my kids are from the same man. I am a devoted wife. I am faithful as well. I am...

people

tell

this

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dharma1 People often speak without much thought to what they say. Perhaps the people saying this to your are just saying what they would want. If its something you want just do it you don't have to tell anyone its your life. If its a real concern to you to find out...

16 Apr 08

wonderfulburst13 @wonderfulburst13 (15) • Canada 16 Apr 08

i have a habit of disappearing for periods of times not talking to friends..like cutting of completely. since i was 14 ive been living on my own and never really building bonds with others..i all was just leaned on my b/f's and...

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dharma1 I understand where your coming from I have also lived on my own from a very young age. I find I have many acquaintances and not many friends. Sometimes I just want that time to my self and then when I want people around they tend to shy away. Like why bother...

16 Apr 08

Darkwing @Darkwing (21583) 15 Apr 08

How easy, or difficult is it to forgive somebody whom you feel has wronged you? Say a loved one has hurt you in some way, or you have hurt them, and a yelling match follows... things are said that can't be unsaid, and which are...

power to forgive

relationships

resolving hurt

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dharma1 I think its important if your still feeling hurt to ask yourself a few questions. Do you need to resolve some issues like admit fault or ask a question about what was said after time to cool off. Also If you have already forgiven the person then yes its good...

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dharma1 @dharma1 (35) • United States 16 Apr 08

I was thinking last night about the benefits of having the disease of addiction. That is as long as your in recovery. Of course addiction destroys many lives families and communities. In no way am I encouraging anyone to go use...

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dharma1 Your welcome. =)

16 Apr 08

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