egram09

@egram09 (78)

Philippines • Age 37

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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Ending a friendship- is it worth it?

xemorth @xemorth (70) • Australia 6 Apr 12

Have you ever ended a friendship? I ended a friendship with my ex best friend and honestly afterwards I just felt...numb. It was because my mother was nagging me how she was a bad influence on me. I'm very impressionable, so what...

ending a friendship is it worth it

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egram09 I guess friendship still remains, but whats lost is your communication. You can say it literally to un-friend him or her, but if you two had deep company before, I guess that even you agree verbally to end your friendship, you will still remember the things...

6 Apr 12

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do you believe in "love at first sight"?

annadicts @annadicts (7) 5 Apr 12

some people believe in "love at first sight" some people dont. is it (love at first sight) true??

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egram09 Love has many meanings, it may vary from person to person. For some it maybe true, but for me it does not. Seeing a person at first may only be infatuation, inspiration or maybe attraction.

5 Apr 12

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dying part of living?

in2day @in2day (120) • Netherlands 5 Apr 12

I've heard a lot of people say that death is part of life. How is that so? Also, if dying is part of living, why are so many people afraid to die. I have my certain point of view, but I'm curious what your oppinions are.

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egram09 I guess that they're just implying that dying is one phase of our life that we will encounter whether we like it or not. People might be afraid to die because they enjoy their life, they have something special going on with their lives. But we must bear in our...

5 Apr 12

how to deal with rejection

salma07 @salma07 (639) • India 5 Apr 12

hi everyone recently i started exploring the options for making money with some writing site..i am normally a very shy person..from rather shy i would say i am very introvert and has bit doubt about myself..recently i got my...

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earning money by writing

rejection

writing

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egram09 Just do not lose hope. Always keep in mind that there's a rainbow after the rain. Meaning, whatever rejection you might get, just accept it as if you don't bother, instead use it as a tool to strive more. Make use of it as your guide that next time you'll do...

5 Apr 12

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the best things in life are free

shylade @shylade (3132) • Philippines 4 Apr 12

i know a lot will agree that best things in life are free. we can have love for free, a kiss from our children free, a hug from our love ones free, good times with friends for free, and so on. yet no matter how rich we are we...

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egram09 I do feel lucky with the status I have in my life right now, but of course, as a human, I still have no contentment. I do feel that I'm not complete. I'm still looking for more and I'm still wanting for more.

4 Apr 12

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What Is The Secret Of Writers?

keshlois143 @keshlois143 (713) • Philippines 30 Mar 12

Writing something that is really relevant and significant is not that easy. I, myself, take so hard to think of any topic to be shared. I am always bothered which subject is best to tackle. I could barely make a long piece of...

magazines

writing

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egram09 Personally, I think that the best way to become a good writer is by being creative, not only in writing but also in mental aspect. All of us have creative minds and these thoughts are the key factor in the creation of a good piece. One may put experiences into...

31 Mar 12

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looking for friends online

Cherish14 @Cherish14 (2693) • Philippines 31 Mar 12

hi there, lately, i have been feeling so down. i get so stressed here because of what's been going on in the family. i have been wanting to move out but i can't yet because i don't have enough money for that and also i haven't...

friends

outlet

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egram09 You're not weird! It is normal to find for others opinion when you're in stress, and it's a good thing that you chose to express your feelings because it could help you ease the pain you have right now. Your problems, were exactly the same problem I've...

31 Mar 12

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how would you value your immediate family?

mysiraylon @mysiraylon (1102) • United States 31 Mar 12

You originally been one great loving son or daughter in the family then as you grow up few years later you then happen to meet other person outside your home, conflicts of interests now started to bring you hard time deciding who...

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egram09 I think that conflicts of interests won't occur between parties if only we had the time to introduce one to another very well. You need not to choose instead, you should know how to balance your time, resources, and even your chance of being with them, for you...

31 Mar 12

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Surprised!

domieniqueer @domieniqueer (205) • Philippines 30 Mar 12

i haven't visited this since last year. I started to get busy with work. Anyway, it is surprised me! MyLot is still going strong! More power MyLot. Happy posting everyone!

money

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egram09 You're right! MyLot still remembers us even if were gone for sometimes. Go ahead co-mylotters! Be busy again with mylot!

30 Mar 12

Music to soothe one's soul.

sk_mskv @sk_mskv (6) • Philippines 30 Mar 12

As a registered nurse as my profession, I am in constant exposure with stress alleviating events which in turn causes to form tension, apprehension, and sometimes panic. Such events leads me to be less productive and builds...

music

soothging music

soul

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egram09 Music let me remember my past. Most of the time, I am conscious with the lyrics of the music that I'm listening to, because I somehow relate those words from what I have experienced, especially if I'm in love or broken-hearted. It makes me feel that I'm the...

30 Mar 12

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Have you ever felt like you didn't know what you wanted to do with your life?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9460) • United States 30 Mar 12

I'm at a time in my life where I'm trying to decide which direction to go in. There are so many different areas of life that a person can pursue. I think about whether or not I should find a different job right now. Should I go to...

life

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egram09 FOCUS! that's the number one solution with these type of question. I think that everyone could experience that feeling. The world is full of chaos, in that way, an individual could experience stress on what to do in life. Doing multiple tasks without focus...

30 Mar 12

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Do you ever still dream about that old flame?

deodavid @deodavid (4147) • Philippines 28 Mar 12

Hi there guys, Maybe this question had been asked before but i feel the need to ask it again since i was not the first one who asked it and that i am willing to hear or read about your most latest answers. Do you still have...

dreams

old flame

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egram09 I think most of us had encountered such dreams like yours. Sometimes, when we think too much about something, there will be chances that we could dream of it. Maybe you just missed your old flame, the things you did in the past and the companionship built...

30 Mar 12

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Have you took regularly exercise?

freedomcat @freedomcat (90) • China 30 Mar 12

I am a colleage student and I usually stay at between classroom and dormitory.What I do most is sitting before the computer and surfing the Internet.Tonight I changed my lifestyle.I went out for running around our school.After...

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egram09 During my college years, I enjoyed my P.E. class because of the exercise thing, not to mention my cute professor. I've even wandered of becoming a P.E. teacher, because of the fun I've experienced. On my fourth year, I took volleyball instead of football,...

30 Mar 12

a fighter for life

esor50 @esor50 (115) 30 Mar 12

...my husband brought us in his hometown, a place where my kids will start all over again... new dialect,new friends,new place and suddenly ,my husband abandoned us,..it was a blessing i know how to earn a living,and even sent my...

must know how to earn a living

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egram09 What an inspiring situation! You are amazing, because you have stand on your own as a father and a mother to your children. Don't mind your husband, just pray for him even though he did that to you, do not take revenge on him. Just enjoy your moment with your...

30 Mar 12

Do you still pray before yo go to sleep?

bulastika @bulastika (5966) • Philippines 29 Mar 12

I'm a roman catholic. Since I was small I my mother teach me to pray before I go to bed. I did that until I reach first year high school or second year high school. After that I stop praying and that for the last 20 years I stop...

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egram09 Just always believe that He's there all the time. Sometimes you realize that even if its not your intention to pray you'll just knew that there comes a point that you're actually praying to Him. Believing in Him, Praising Him and Asking help from Him are the...

29 Mar 12

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no task well i am bored

salma07 @salma07 (639) • India 29 Mar 12

hi everyone i am usually busy doing some task since its not there today (i seriously hope its only today) so i thought why not make some new discussion..i am bored what should i do in mylot other than task and posting...what will...

bored

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egram09 I also have had a hard time in posting here in mylot. But when I processed in my mind that I should be more patient in posting then I enjoyed what I am doing now such as participating in the discussions. My main problem before was that I'm not good at english,...

29 Mar 12

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The Devil's Number

frontvisions101 @frontvisions101 (16043) • Philippines 29 Mar 12

I left for work the other day. I was rushing so I didn't lock my phone when I grabbed it. Then when I arrived at the office, I pulled out my phone and the number "6666666666" was typed in on the screen. I didn't lock it so it must...

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egram09 Good day! Your posts seems interesting for me.. Sometimes, things happen co-incedently.. People often relate their present situation with luck, sometimes in beliefs that was passed by their ancestors through the years. But, I believe that things that things...

29 Mar 12

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Friends and their interests

Porcospino @Porcospino (31365) • Denmark 27 Mar 12

My friend told me about an experience she had with an online friend. She and her friend had never met, but they used to exchange emails. My friend had sent her online friend an email where she described some of the things that she...

friends

interests

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egram09 Those people were not really a friend, their just an acquaintance for me. A friend is indeed someone who accepts who you are even if you don't share some interests. Yes, sharing common interests were important, but imposing someone to share with you those...

27 Mar 12

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give or not to give?

weenchellemae @weenchellemae (2) • Philippines 27 Mar 12

Is it right to give money to kids begging in the streets? I am living in the Phils where you can see poor children asking for any penny. Will it help them or will just cause them not to work hard anymore but depend on the money...

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egram09 "Give a man a fish and you have feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime." an inspiration said by Lao tzu. It is not wrong to give, but for me the quote is true because if we are able to teach those kids to study hard first...

27 Mar 12

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