ettenaej

@ettenaej (39)

Philippines • Age 47

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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how do you reward yourself after a hard day's work? :)

kayedanda @kayedanda (1850) • Philippines 13 Aug 08

what i do is very demanding as i have to constantly beat deadlines. i have to deal with clients everyday, who most of the times have unfair expectations from people like me. after a specially hard day at work (i only work at home...

aquarium

baby crib

work

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ettenaej reward my self?!! hmm..when im still at my parents i used to go shopping for me and my daughter and also for my sisters and mom. i feel so relaxed specially if i can buy a dress that i wanted and pants and blouses hehe. i love to watch movies as form of reward...

13 Aug 08

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single mom

baleleng2008 @baleleng2008 (917) • United States 27 May 08

how do you manage being a single mom?and can you survive without ur partner in your life?

single mom

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ettenaej i am a single mom and im proud to say that i survive bringing her up alone since i carry her into my womb. it is a long story if i tell you why i dont have company during that time. she is 6yrs old now and she is my life. i really wanted to give her the best...

9 Aug 08

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question for the women

jhl930 @jhl930 (3601) • United States 27 Jul 08

i have heard women say different things and i am a guy so i don't know how to read women, i don't really think any guy knows how to tell what a woman wants exactly either so...lol...so i was just hoping that you could all help us...

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ettenaej hi..for me i wanted him to be able to let me feel that i am loved and that i am important to him. i dont want to be too sensitive coz i dont want to be held at neck..just fair enough to satisfy my need physically, emotionally and spiritually. i wanted him to...

28 Jul 08

are you loving someone right now?

heart4u @heart4u (409) • Philippines 26 Jul 08

hey guys i just wanna know are you with someone right now or are you loving someone sevretly? does this person knew you love him or her? are you secretly inlove with a person or currenlty your with the person you love? well me i...

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ettenaej im with the one i love but we dont spent most of our time/days together coz of work and place. it will be our 4th year together next month. i just hope that we will stay together and that we end up to each other lolz. Gudluck on us!

26 Jul 08

what if a genie appear in front of you and gave you 3 wishes what would it be?

heart4u @heart4u (409) • Philippines 26 Jul 08

what would be your 3wishes in case a genie appears in front of you and ask your 3 wishes and why? so guys whats your wish and why? me my wish would be honestly peace in the world because thats the best thing i could wish for the...

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ettenaej if a genie will appear in front of me and grant a 3 wishes..my wishes will be..1st that he will give me enuf money to prepare my daughter's future, pay all my brother's debt and for us to regain the business. 2nd good health for my parents and lastly may the...

26 Jul 08

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Its My Birthday And Ill Cry If I Want Too!!

minnie_98214 @minnie_98214 (10557) • United States 22 Jul 08

I woke up early this morning at like 4am and was crying. And no im not depressed that I am turning the big 3-0 today. I really couldnt tell you why i was crying I guess its just the whole pregnancy hormones lol. I am fine now and...

cake

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ettenaej happy birthday! il be turning 30 this november lolz. my gift for you is wishing you all the best in life and that God will continue to bless you and your family! i just hope that this year will turn out great for all of us who is getting 30 hehehe. i just hope...

23 Jul 08

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Have you played in the rain

dharma150cc @dharma150cc (539) • India 18 Jun 07

Yes i have played in the heavy rain. I navour bother about rain if is heavy also I travell in the rain and ejoy the rain. In my school days i carry my school bag then also i ride my cycle and come back to my home in the rain, all...

play

rain

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ettenaej i love to play in the rain :):) when im young and i just wish i can still do it though i can still experience it when i going to work and its raining heavy lolz. i want my daughter to experience it also but sometimes you also took precautions because of colds...

11 Jul 08

What will u do if u sad?

situskeren @situskeren (95) • Indonesia 8 Jul 08

a. Listen to music b. Reading c. Pray d. meditation/keep alone e. .....

sad

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ettenaej when i am sad i just divert my attention to my daughter or ask my bf to meet me or get together to lessen the pressure that im having at that moment. i also watch movie, listen to music or read as much pocketbook or novel as i can. but sometimes whatever you...

11 Jul 08

which do you prefer marriage or live in??

kissie34 @kissie34 (2294) • Philippines 7 Jul 08

If you have a chance to choose what will you prefer marriage or live in first?? Does marriage is really important?? What about live in?? Do agree with live in?? What is your opinion on these issue???

live in

love

marriage

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ettenaej i prefer live in first to know the person il spend the rest of my life with. i dont want to get married that soon without knowing him that much. its hard to get married then separate at the end. it sweeter if after that long wait il marry the man i wanted to...

7 Jul 08

What are your opinions on get married because of the baby?

yenwie84 @yenwie84 (1344) • Malaysia 5 Jul 08

I think now is very common to have such thing to happen around us.Some people think that this is not a big deal anymore,if the girl is pregnant,then the guy (responsible ones) will say "lets get marry". It's alright for this...

baby

get married

love

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ettenaej i dont agree of the notion that my bf will marry me because i am pregnant. id rather deliver the child unmarried and still we understand each other and share responsibility to the child. sometimes in this kind of situation a lot of problem will come out coz...

5 Jul 08

What are your feelings about a married couple in love but not sleeping together?

CharRay7 @CharRay7 (1549) • United States 3 Jul 08

Hi, I've been married to my hubby for 9 years now and yes we still love each other. For the past 7 years, we've slept in separate rooms, in separate beds. Reasons: 1. he likes it warm, I like it cool 2. he snores and I'm...

cpap

love

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ettenaej for me sleeping in separate bed is fine if it suits for both of you. important thing is you love and understand each other.

5 Jul 08

To be really happy

lance21 @lance21 (10) • United States 1 Jul 08

Can anybody say that thier really? Somebody tell me are you really happy or its wishful thinking. Or can you really be happy with your life the way it is.

happy

life

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ettenaej i cant say that we can be really happy in our lives coz everything around us keep on changing even the person that makes us happy might be gone and leave pain in our hearts. maybe you can say happy when your contented of what you have at the moment and never...

2 Jul 08

Are you willing to give up the one you love??

baleleng2008 @baleleng2008 (917) • United States 7 Jun 08

What you do,guys when you found out that the person whom you love most already married??Are you willing to give up or fight for your love? It happen to me when I fall inlove with a wrong man bcoz after I got pregnant I...

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ettenaej i did love a wrong men before and we have a child. i do really love him but i guess we are not meant for each other coz we meet at the wrong time. i gave him up because it is the right thing to do even it break me apart but i must do it for my angel. i even...

28 Jun 08

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Because I Love You

p1kef1sh @p1kef1sh (45681) 25 Jun 08

Imagine this. You are successful in your job. You have a wonderful lifestyle, stylish wardrobe, sports car, foreign holidays. You know the inside of the swankiest restaurants and a partner who floats your boat. Their job is very...

decisions

love

money

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ettenaej for me il stay..luxuries is not that important than the person i love to be with. i believe that it is easy to earn money, prestige and luxuries but it is hard to find happiness. though i may sound realistic but i would choose love than money/luxuries.

26 Jun 08

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your sad moment in life

KUSHANK55 @KUSHANK55 (2437) • India 19 Jun 08

life is full of ups and downs. many a time we are doomed, down on our knees. and all of a sudden we say..oh my god..recollect your such moments when you were also sad , or alone or felt like....lets share it at mylot with all.

sad moments

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ettenaej as for the moment the saddest part in life is when my brother left us full of debts and we don't know where to get the money to pay it all. it is sad to think that my parents is getting older and yet we cant still give them better or shall i say some luxuries...

22 Jun 08

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What is the best country for you?

kimpert @kimpert (13) 21 Jun 08

place your opinions here.

country

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ettenaej everyone dream to be in europe or in USA but i think the best place to start travel and see the world is different places here in the philippines. i wanted to tour the entire beautiful places that we have here togther with my family. i dream to bring my...

22 Jun 08

what street food do you often buy or eat???

notsira20 @notsira20 (94) • Philippines 16 Jun 07

asians, ia am...and there are a lots of street food here in asia. i've been to thailand,indonesia and hongkong and still there are a lots of food ready to eat,mostly are hot. and a lots of these food are made or invented by...

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ettenaej after work me and my office mates go to this buz station here in alabang and we love to eat the kwek-kwek (orange coated squail eggs). Enjoy eating!

22 Jun 08

Comfort Foods?

Katherleen @Katherleen (390) • China 21 Jun 08

What do you indulge in when you are feeling very down? For myself,ice cream~

foods

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ettenaej when im sad or down i indulge my self to sweets food. sometimes i go for spa or facial for me to relax and cool down. i love icecream and chocolates..indulge!

22 Jun 08

is love a journey or a destination?

painkiller77 @painkiller77 (2073) • India 19 Jun 08

love is a difficult word to explain. you love some one and keep loving till there is a break up. you love your parents, your kids and even your pets. do you ever attain saturation? or is it that you always love somebody with the...

destination

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ettenaej for me Love is both a journey and a destination. it just a matter of choice. if you think that loving someone is like taking a long journey..well it is coz when you choose to love that person it is a journey to know him/her. you will pass a lot of struggle to...

20 Jun 08

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