firemountain

@firemountain (60)

United States • Age 81

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manusmichelle @manusmichelle (30) • Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 6 Jan 10

I been talking to a man online for over a year and i am truly in love with him but he talks to another women and lies about a lot of stuff.What should i do?

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firemountain dump his a-- my son starting talking to a girl on line six months later they were married they had 3 little girls. this woman couldnt or wouldn't clean her nose let alone her house. he is disable and she expects him to do every thing even have her dinner...

7 Jan 10

How easy would it be to travel as a wheelchair user?

maximax8 @maximax8 (31042) • United Kingdom 24 Oct 09

I live in Europe and my country is fine for wheelchair users. Many buildings have ramps and other buildings usually have an elevator. I am a very keen traveler and I have been to more than fifty different countries. My toddler son...

traveling

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firemountain Hi maximax:I live in the U.S.A. and my husband has been in a wheel chair for 25 years. there's no place we haven't been here, we travel a lot.nothing stops us. from going where we won't to go.it's a power chair. it can go any where you won't it to go.and the...

26 Oct 09

does anyone know anyplace good to go

miguelgrhm @miguelgrhm (8) • United States 22 Oct 09

I want to travel to places in and outside of the united states. Does anyone know of any hotspots to go to and any places that are cheap but fun. This can be anywhere and everywhere. Please let me know because I'm planning a...

events

honeymoon

travel

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firemountain miguelegrhm. you didn't say when you were getting married, it would help to know that, so people could help you a little better. summer, fall, winter, spring, and what your intrest are. I live in the mountains, so my interest is that, but I also like to...

23 Oct 09

Ever Had A One Night Stand & Not Letting Your Partner Know ....?

rtslvtwy @rtslvtwy (1088) • Malaysia 4 Oct 09

Have you ever "cheated" on your partner before where you had a one night stand with another person while you are still attached with your partner? Is that called cheating? Or, it's just curious exploration of some contact sports...

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firemountain rtzlvtwy would you won't it done to you????????????? put your self in your partner's place. put the sports bulls--- aside and relise, that if you are doing this know. your not comitted to your partner at all. your only fooling your self. you will get...

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What If She Takes My Son From Me

patofgold23 @patofgold23 (5069) • Philippines 2 Oct 09

Okay, I have 2 kids...one is 14 years old...and the other is turning 3... The second one actually is my sister's son... she is 10 years younger than me and she feels like she needs a jumpstart in life.. wants to work and save a...

son

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firemountain HI PATOFGOLD. I do understand where you are coming from. 5 months ago our disable son and his wife's children. were taken away from them.and put in foster care. all I could do is cry, cause it took us a month, to get finger printed,and checked out,...

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if you could go to any country for free, where would you go and why?

jen14ed @jen14ed (865) • Philippines 9 Sep 09

what if you win a free trip to any country, where would you go and why?

any country

for free

travel

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firemountain I'm from california. and your right. the usa is a wonderful place to live. I live in the mountains.next to Lake Tahoe NV. It's about an hour away.there's about 9 lakes around us.we have all our seasons.Christmas we have a winter wonder land for about a...

12 Sep 09

ANy adVice on 19 moNth oLd tantRum?

ADELIZA07 @ADELIZA07 (47) • United States 19 Aug 09

I have a 19 month daughter who has me really concerned on the way she is reacting when she does not get her way, yes i do know that they are normal unless it gets to the point that they actually start hurting themselves and well...

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firemountain adelizao7 i'm an old timer at this, my daughter tried that twice. i got a clean spray bottle, filled with water. one squirt in the face sure sweeten her up. from then on, no tantrums, when her daughter started that, she called and told me her dillema. i...

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Which is the hottest place you have been to?

maximax8 @maximax8 (31042) • United Kingdom 18 Aug 09

I have been to Israel and Jordan in an August. It was about over 40 degrees in Eilat and Aqaba on the Red Sea. It was even hotter in Petra out in the desert like landscape. It was a dry sort of heat. Another very hot place I...

climate

heat

hot

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firemountain maximax8 Try DEATH VALLY NEVADA in 1959, 123 degrees.talk about "HOT" you drive as fast as you can, just to get out of that vally. going from Albuquerque, New Mexico to Reno Nv. firemountain.

19 Aug 09

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He has another girl. Will I tell my friend about it?

babyfiona08 @babyfiona08 (652) • Philippines 17 Jul 09

I have seen my friend's man dating with another girl. I haven't told her about this because I don't know if she will believe me. As I can see, She's obsessed with that man and was blinded with their relationship. Will I tell her...

friendship

love

unfaithful

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firemountain hi girl I've read some of the replys, and here is a little one I've not read yet. when you see him with someone ealse.call your frend and ask her to meet you where he can be seen by her.than you don't have to tell her at all, he can do his self in. if it's...

19 Jul 09

We went to the toy store

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 18 Jun 09

Monday one of my sons will turn 3. My husband and I have some ideas of what we want to get him, but wanted to go to Toys R Us to look around and get a more specific idea. We kept pointing things out to my son, watching for his...

toy store

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firemountain Hi katsmeow 1213 when my children were little, I was poorer than church mice. so I'd go in a toy store and put a toy i thought my little one might like in the cart, and let them play with it all through the store. when it was time for us to leave they...

20 Jun 09

How Do You Celebrate Your Country's National Holidays When You Are Away?

danishcanadian @danishcanadian (28954) • Canada 15 Jun 09

Canada day (Dominion Day) is July 1st, and The 4th Of July (USA) is July 4th. I'm Canadian, and my husband's American. We both find it neat that our national holidays are so close, since we are so close. In 2007 I was in the...

patriotic

patriotism

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firemountain Hi there. We celebrate the 4th of July by inviteing all are frends to our house.everyone bring's a dish of food and what ever they won't to drink, we supply the meat's. and desserts, our band show's up and many other musicans and we have a blast. (no drugs)...

17 Jun 09

I am afraid of Marriage, help!!

vivianchen @vivianchen (2646) • China 2 Jun 09

Dear all, I am about to get married with my boyfriend at the end of this year. But i start worrying about the life after i get married with him. Below is the things that i am worried about: 1.His bank card have no money, i mean...

marrage

worry

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firemountain Hi lilaclady, To start with you have been given some good advice, some bad. know it's up to you to sift out what you can use. first of all, a person with a gambling habit won't stop on your say so. they'll feed you ever sad story in the book, and some...

4 Jun 09

How do control anger with children…I think I am becoming psychotic. Please help!

sudiptacallingu @sudiptacallingu (10879) • India 29 May 09

OK this discussion has been done to death maybe but I am now getting very worried about myself so I want to know from friends out here, how do you deal with yourself when you are angry with your child! Let’s say your child is...

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firemountain Hi there. I'm not an expert but I do have five children. and yes, ever one goes through this. when my children would't clean there room (off came the doors to there room) remove three little hinges wal-la. no privicy for them until that room stays clean for...

30 May 09

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Would you marry the same person again?

mimpi @mimpi1911 (25464) • India 28 May 09

It's a hypothetical situation where you have been separated from your spouse after much bitterness, just as it happens. Now, he/she wants to reconcile and you could see the honesty in his/her eyes and could feel his/her sincerity...

narry

reconcile

the same person

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firemountain NO,NO,NO, I was divorced in 69. my x wouldn't leave me alone. findly he moved out of State. thank God. years later after I had married a wonderful man. he called my son at his house. and ask him to call me, and ask me, to meet him in another State. he'd...

30 May 09

are you planning for a trip ?............

icegermany @icegermany (2524) • India 18 Mar 09

summer is going to arrive soon and it is going to be a good time where can go out without jackets and other warm clothings and roam out freely and also most of the people plan their trips. even we are planning a trip and i am...

trip

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firemountain yes" we're going to the Grand Canyons than to Albuquerque N.M.to Old Town Plaza than Santa Fa N,M. then to the Cowboy Museum in Oaklhomo City and out to Branson Mo.then in November, we're going to Mexico on a cruse. that's enough for this year.we'll state...

19 Mar 09

Would you, or did you pay for your teenager's insurance so they can drive?

LuckyLadyD @LuckyLadyD (359) • United States 28 Jan 09

My son is 17, and still doesn't have a permit to drive. I took a look at how much it would cost for us to add him to our policy, and the cost pretty much triples. Do you think I should pay for his insurance, pay for part of it,...

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firemountain He sounds like a resonable young man. and you sound like your a reasonable parent he'll do the right thing. you've done a your part. he's got his wings.now stand back and watch him soar.

3 Mar 09

different doctors say different things when did you

ersmommy1 @ersmommy1 (12587) • United States 22 Feb 09

start mixing rice cereal into your babys' bottle? Some sites I have read say 3 month. Others say between 4-6 months/ With my daughter it was closer to 6 months. Did you wait for the dr to say it was time?

baby

food

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firemountain Hi there. after 5 kids. I've came to the conculation that most MEN Dr's are full of sh--. what do they know about babys, as far as feeding them. have they ever had one.my my daughter-n-law and I butted heads when her first child was born. you couldn't tell...

23 Feb 09

Are you annoyed when your child asks you many questions?

France7 @France7 (385) • Philippines 31 Jan 09

There were those times when I got irritated because my children ask me a lot of questions. However, as i get more matured as a parent, I came to realize that my children ask me a lot of things because they are curious about the...

questions of a child

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firemountain France7 I'v alway's beleaved that I had reather answer there question, and try to put them on the right track.then standing in front of a judge trying to answer his questions of where I went wrong. after 5 kids there were a lot of questions. no I didn't...

1 Feb 09

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Would you, or did you pay for your teenager's insurance so they can drive?

LuckyLadyD @LuckyLadyD (359) • United States 28 Jan 09

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firemountain hi there let me tell you what we did to my son. he had been working since he was 16. we didn't charge him for nothing since he was going to school. butttt by the time he was 19 it was getting old he's a real good kid. but he was moving in to man...

29 Jan 09

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Who Budgets the Money In The House? You or your Partner?

rberon1985 @rberon1985 (5359) • Philippines 24 Jan 09

We are suffering from recession right now. We should be very careful with our budget. We should not buy things which is not needed in our house or in our daily needs. i am just being curious who budgets the money, you or your...

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firemountain Hi rberon1995. you are right, you do have to take care of the budgets in ever way or it will lay you away. two years ago, my husband and I took three crusies a trip to alaska. two to mexico,and flew to hawaii for two weeks, when we got back our credit...

28 Jan 09