gersolt68

@gersolt68 (25)

Age 55

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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The Great Power in "Little Things"

AngryKittyMSV @AngryKittyMSV (4317) • United States 29 Jul 09

Yesterday I was in a bad mood, and I went outside wiht a black cloud over my head to get some air, my head filled with dark thougts, when my glance happened to pause at something on the grass. I saw a gorgeous black butterfly with...

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gersolt68 i experienced that feeling too. it seemed as though all the problems have been stuck on me and there was no way out of all the mess. i was too engrossed in what i was feeling that i didnt notice my young boy, age 3 sitting beside me. i then knew he was there...

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what is the feeling to having a father until now at your age 20?

catherina1982 @catherina1982 (135) • Philippines 29 Jul 09

well i want to know what is the feeling to having a father while you growing? i ask that cos i cannot experience that when i grow cos my father die when im 7 yrs old...

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gersolt68 having a father all you life is great. this doesnt happen to everyone though. like you, there are a lot of people who experience the same way you do. my kids have me as their mom and dad as im a single parent. you can experience a father's love through the...

29 Jul 09

What's the best thing to do?

raynejasper @raynejasper (2322) • Philippines 25 Jul 09

Hi everyone.. I understand that in married life, no one is perfect and no relationship is ever perfect.. However, at this point in time, I'd say that I'm so down in my married life.. I don't understand the behavior of my husband...

family

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gersolt68 if there is still room for real talk, then now is the time. dont wait for the situation to worsen because it may lead you to hate your husband. before anything else, get the reasons why your husband is doing this. he may be insecure because he is the one left...

28 Jul 09

at what age did you get married ?

Jane @jaiho2009 (39142) • Philippines 28 Jul 09

Hello my friends, just for curioisty and bringing back the time,at what age dod you get married?and for those who are not married yet,at what age you planned to get married ?

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gersolt68 i got married at the age of 21, i was a sophomore college student then. it was such an early age that i wasnt prepared for what was lying ahead. i had children immediately. i dont have any regrets because i am so happy with my kids and seeing them grow up but...

28 Jul 09

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What do you think of the dancing inmates?

pickoy @pickoy (733) • Philippines 16 Jul 09

I've seen all their videos in youtube and its really awesome... their choreography, groove and enthusiasm really shows off every time they perform. I love the way the warden had encourage them to do time and let them forget about...

cebu philippines

dancing inmates

pride of the philippines

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gersolt68 dancing inmates is terrific. the groove and the moves are great and to think that it was a choreography of people who have been known by society as criminals. it is a very awesome thing to see them dancing and following the rules of the music.

16 Jul 09

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Can we live without the sun?

meenakshisoni @meenakshisoni (400) • India 16 Jul 09

Well, our bodies depend on the sun for a certain chemical it generates in us that tells us when to sleep Not to mention the sun is needed for every natural food we have, all food starts from natural ingredients... so i think we...

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gersolt68 i cannot live without the sun. i want the heat and it makes me alive all day long. sun also gives vitamins for our body, helps also in building stong bones. the sun is our very essentials, just like water. if there will be no sun,we will have no food.

16 Jul 09

Do Anybody Here Love Music

checkmail @checkmail (2039) • India 16 Jul 09

Hello Mylot friends this is checkmail and presumes music as an important part of our life.I love to hear music from my childhood till now.There is a different crazy type of passion in listening to various musics.Music makes our...

music

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gersolt68 the music i love eversince childhood was from matt monroe's portrait of my love. i love this song because that's why my dad always sings. either that that, i love the music of cristina aguillera because it reminds me most of what i am, and also the songs of...

16 Jul 09

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Relationships with friends

bhojarajan @bhojarajan (88) • India 15 Jul 09

I told a trusted friend something very personal and private and now it's no longer private. Whose at fault? Me for confiding( because had I not told them ,this wouldn't have happened ) or them for telling?

friends

relationships

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gersolt68 you know, it's them for telling. friends who somewhat betray your trust are friends who are not worth for you. it's supposed to be a personal and private matter, so it has to be left that way.

15 Jul 09

Is it good to smoke in front of children???

tuyakiki @tuyakiki (3016) • India 8 Jul 09

Hi Mylotters!! What do you all think in this regard???Is it good to smoke in front of children???I think,it should not be done..I have notice many parents smoke in front of their kids...Its quiet natural that children...

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gersolt68 smoking in front of kids for me is a very big NO. first and foremost, it is very harmful. we mold our children's health by giving them what is supposed to be the best of what we can do to achieve that best of health. it is just so sad to think that smoking in...

9 Jul 09

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Do you keep the plastic or grocery bag after shopping?

lynpreety @lynboobsy11 (11343) • Philippines 20 Jul 07

I still remember when I'm still a kid I do always saw my mom fold some plastic bag from the groceries or in the market after she go on shopping. And I saw her also that she re-used it again for the other purposes. Until now I...

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gersolt68 yes, i do keep plastic bags from groceries. i use it for putting the trash on it and for some other purposes like sorting clothes that need to go and the toys that kids dont want to play anymore. i also use it to sort foods in the fridge.

4 Feb 08

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My niece got lost in the hypermarket....

aseretdd @aseretdd (13730) • Philippines 3 Feb 08

Well it was only for 15 minutes... but it scared the hell out of us... My mother and i went to go grocecy shopping at the nearest hypermarket... we had to take my baby and niece with us because no one else was available to look...

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gersolt68 oh wow we have the same experience but on me, it was my 4th son. first he got lost in a flower festival here in our place and he was being paged by a policeman. the next one was when i brought him to the grocery store and he was so happy to be in a wide space...

4 Feb 08

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Points of view

Amy @artemis432 (7474) • Abernathy, Texas 20 Jan 08

Do you ever talk to anyone whom you know is is lieing - even if you don't know anything about the situation they're talking about - you can just tell? I've noticed this mostly with people who invite drama into their lives...

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gersolt68 at first, i let them be. if at the second or so on and i still hear the same fabricated tell-tales, i let them know where they need improvement. even in my own family, i know when someone is lying so to avoid him or her to sin, i give a subject that is...

21 Jan 08

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hello,i want to make new friends

zhentao111 @zhentao111 (18) • China 20 Nov 07

u see,i am a chinese and i want to make some new friends to practise my oral english.but to reward u ,i can teach u chinese and korean.if u r interested in this ,u can leave your E--mail here. i can get in touch with u

friends

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gersolt68 good to hear that. im interested in learning korean and chinese. what is your email ad?

20 Nov 07

Do you bite your nails or clip them?

surverymom @surverymom (471) • United States 19 Nov 07

I have always bit my nails. now my girls, ages 2 and 4, have picked up the habbit. i just caught them one on the couch biting her finger nails and the other sitting on the couch biting her toe nails. I hate that and I tell them to...

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gersolt68 i dont bite my nails. for me it's a sign of insecurity.

20 Nov 07

Wrist-cutter

cuteclavs @cuteclavs (109) • Philippines 15 Nov 07

Just yesterday, our school was alarmed with a bang! A batch mate of mine almost committed suicide. Gosh! She was rushed to the clinic unconscious and blood from her wrist was dripping off.. We then went to one of her classmates to...

emotions

problems

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gersolt68 a person will never commit suicide unless he is depressed. it's important for him to confide to be able to just let it all out of his system. once he lets his feelings out and the reason why he is depressed, then he can breathe well. on that person who...

16 Nov 07

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disappointed in Dr. Phil

momwatittude @momwatittude (542) • United States 15 Nov 07

I was disappointed by Dr. Phil's advice to a woman struggling with infertility who admitted it was to painful to be around her friends who are mothers. He advised that she be "at peace" with these friends (as if that was easy!)...

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gersolt68 being a person in the medical field, dr. phil was discreet as ever but he didnt realize that there is hope while there is dream. if that woman clings on to the hope that she will eventually have her own child, it's on her positive attitude and not on the...

16 Nov 07

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stuff toys?

rouwel23 @rouwel23 (1353) • Philippines 21 Sep 07

do you like stuff toys? do you buy stuff toys? how often do you buy stuff toys?I have stuff toys in my room. I have a little tiger and a bear, but not Winnie the Pooh. my wife loves stuff toys too. she has a cat. as well as my...

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gersolt68 i love stuffed toys too. i have a collection of teddy bears of different sizes and a little monkey. it makes me feel loved and secured. i feel like i have a big company in my room.

21 Sep 07

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