grapegyt

@grapegyt (35)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 18 years ago

Remember what should be remenbered,and forget what should be forgotten!

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.......do you know?!

hanreq @hanreq (1444) • Philippines 12 Nov 07

do you know the birthday of all your friends?!if you forget the birthday of your friend,of course she/he hurts you....a simple grate to your friends,you make your friends happy....?!

forget

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grapegyt For the most of time ,I can remember my friends' birthday even not the close fridends,such as the classmates.But maybe I can't congratulate them in time,or later of that day.They will be not angry on me,because I'm usually too busy to forget what's the date...

16 Nov 07

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they always say "yes" , but perhaps they doesn't really mean yes.

colourless @colourless (245) • China 15 Nov 07

I have a japaness friend, who is very popular among us, because she is so kind and easy-going.And every time we talked about something, she always noded her head showing an air of appoval. but once after our discussions, we asked...

confusion

yes

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grapegyt um,I think it's their different national culture.Saying "yes" when you are talking maybe means respect for you,like smiles.When someone are talking and expressing their ideas or thoughts,it's manners that others don't interrupt them or represent the angry...

15 Nov 07

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Do you like to shop for dresses?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 14 Nov 07

Like me, Do u like to shop for dresses. I like them too much. Even i have noticed that after buying some dresses for myself, i have cravings for more. It is not that I only buy for myself, but for other family members as...

dress

shopping

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grapegyt wow,11 new dressew!It seems that you are a rich girl!~-~Actually,I like to shop for dresses.But I can't afford too much now,so for the most of time ,I buy dresses only when I need to.~-~Once a day ,if I have enough money,I think I will do the same thing like...

15 Nov 07

marriage

xingxx @xingxx (24) • China 15 Nov 07

I began my first work four months ago.I met my girlfriend seven years ago.Sure,we are classmates in college including our postgraduate study.I have not marriage with her though we are nearly thirty,which is considered to be that...

marriage

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grapegyt um,firstly,I think you should talk your opinion and worries with your GF.The family belongs to you both not only yourself,so maybe she wants to afford the family with you as long as you are together.Money is not the most important thing.Even you don't have to...

15 Nov 07

Throwing food away

violeta_va @violeta_va (4831) • Australia 13 Nov 07

well every time I have to throw food away it makes me sick. Do you throw away food? how often? last week we went shoping and as we got out of the car I got most of the shoping out and told husband to get the rest. 2 days later I...

food

waste

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grapegyt I also hate throw away the food.But when we have party with many friends who are our university's classmate,the foods left much more usually.We had to throw them in the end which made us felt guilty.However,we were quite full,and the host didn't cook in the...

13 Nov 07

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Chase Dream, what does it mean?

JowJie @JowJie (271) • Philippines 12 Nov 07

I had a dream where I was being chased for two consecutive nights. The first one is, I was being chased by men. I think they wore dark tuxedos with white polo underneath. They seem to be vampires, good looking men but their hands...

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grapegyt Hi,I think it's a good dream.~-~It means that the enermies would be defeated.The vampires represent the enermies , and the result that you knocked them off means you can success.Besides,you will have huge success because you were running up the stairs,such as...

13 Nov 07

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what is the worth of studying hard if you fail afterall?

Proud Dad of Twins :) @primeaque86 (8108) • Philippines 13 Nov 07

Somehow I am discouraged to do my best because of some intances that I am not able to achieve the things I wanted to have... because the fact that I am an achiever... Yes I am...I used to get the things I wanted... Shall I accept...

prime2

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grapegyt I think everyone has his/her experiences of failure in the whole life.Life is not a smooth sail.So,firstly,you should face the failure with correct thought and enjoy it.Put your view not only on the result but on the process.Without the colorful process ,the...

13 Nov 07

China taishan

lucklystar @lucklystar (54) • China 1 Nov 07

Post some taishan images!This is my first travel .

taishan

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grapegyt Congratulation!It must be a wonderful travelling.~-~I have bean looking forward to going to taishan for a long time.But when I have time always without money or friend,or when I have partner and money but without time...

1 Nov 07

Why do cats like to play with shoes?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 1 Nov 07

My two big cats never showed a real interest in playing with shoes. Most times they spent their day chasing each other or taking naps. But, the new kitten loves shoes. He's always trying to crawl inside a shoe. He loves...

big cats

cat care

cat house

cats playing with shoes

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grapegyt One year ago,we adopted a missing cat.It always takes naps during the daytime,but it becomes as fresh as paint at the nightfall.The member of my family are watching TV ,and it is playing the roll of wool or the carpet or something else.It sames harmony!~-~I...

1 Nov 07

Are you an 'old-fashioned' neighbour?

someonesmom @someonesmom (5761) • Canada 1 Nov 07

Years ago, it was a fairly common thing, for people to 'borrow a cup of sugar,' etc., from their neighbours. I have neighbours who still feel comfortable doing this type of thing, which is fine by me. We live in a city, and...

being a good neighbor

borrowing from a neighbor

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grapegyt ~-~After reading the topic ,the first person appear in my mind is one of my roommates. For a long time ,I don't mind if she use my some things.But resently,I found that I given her an inch and she would took a mile.Especially,her boyfriend's computer was...

1 Nov 07

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What is your favorite dish to prepare for your family?

lena_mae1983 @lena_mae1983 (383) • United States 31 Oct 07

Pot roast seems to be the favorite at my house even though I hate making it. It is the one thing that I can get everyone to eat without a fuss. What is your favorite dish to fix for your family?

cooking

dinner

family

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grapegyt Hello!~-~er,there is a kind of dish ,called Da Hui Cai in chinese ,which is popular in our family.Actually,it's very common ,but very delicious and convenient.The chief materials are potatos,Chinese cabbages,aubergines and tomatos.It sounds like a...

1 Nov 07

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Canning

kumbarn14 @kumbarn14 (735) • Pakistan 10 Jul 07

Have you ever been canned in school.

canning

school

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grapegyt There isn't the refrigeratory in school.How can we can the food?In winter it may be possible for several days,but how about the summer?Do you have ideas?

30 Oct 07

Are you joined the facebook?

liorohit @liorohit (21) • Turkey 28 Oct 07

I think everbody know Facebook. It's a new frind-find site. Facebook is very successful project and It has got 42 million active member. I'm asking, how many mylot members were joined facebook. Why?

facebook

mylot members

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grapegyt I don't know Facebook.Could you explain it more clearly?

29 Oct 07

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Do you like to stay home alone?

sexylc @sexylc (501) • United States 27 Sep 07

I ask this question its because I am alone in a house now! and its really sad and so quit to be here.I wonder how people can stand like this setuation its look like so boring and annoying.Please share your views and though.

home

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grapegyt Sometimes ,I don't like stay alone which can make me feel so lonely.But after a period of busy time,I really need some space and time for listenning or cooking or watching or sleeping or shopping or doing some other things in my life.I need quiet and simple...

29 Oct 07

Regrets?

brookehaun @brookehaun (233) • United States 28 Oct 07

As a parent have you done something you have regreted later or wish you would have done things differently? When my son was born I had severe post partum depression, and some of the things that I felt I have felt guilty for ever...

mistakes

parenting

post partum depression

regrets

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grapegyt Thank you for so many stories about the parent.Actually , I think you are all the good parents.Though I'm still a girl , I will be a mother one day.As a child , in fact,what we need is not your practices.Sometimes,just your thoughts about caring us can make us...

28 Oct 07

To forgive or not to forgive...

girlgonefishing @girlgonefishing (2174) • United States 25 Oct 07

I had someone do something horrible to me and my friends say to forgive. Well, I forgave and he did it again. According to my religious friends, the bible says we must forgive. Well, I forgave and it didn't get rid of the evil....

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grapegyt My maxim for these days is "Remember what should be remenbered ,and forget what should be forgotton!".Our aim should be to make our life colorful and happyness!Why do you remember those things which can make you feel furious?!Relax!

25 Oct 07

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is sweet is good for health?

laxmikumari @laxmikumari (80) • United States 25 Oct 07

some people enjoy sweet food very much... is this good for health how much sweet is good .

sweets

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grapegyt Whether it's good for you is determined by yourself.Everything should be controlled.It's not good for your health to eat the sweet food neither too little nor too much.

25 Oct 07

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